Why Men Pull Away After Getting Close | The Surprising Answer!

Want to know why men pull away after getting close? What you can actually do about this?

I know how upsetting and frustrating this can be, especially after you’ve already grown close!

So let’s take a look at two reasons why men pull away after getting close to you…

1. Fear

Most of the time, a guy is the happiest in the dating/seduction phase. He meets you and he puts you on a pedestal. He tells all of his friends about you because he’s so excited. The moment when things start to get really serious and he actually has to invest, he might freak out a little because he realizes that relationships can be scary. He’s scared to lose his freedom, to get stuck in a routine, or maybe he’s just scared of not being good enough.

The solution is about time. Take a step back and focus on rebuilding trust and communication while showing him that spending time with you is fun and lighthearted. You’ll rebuild the chemistry and thus rebuild a stronger relationship which will in turn make him want to get closer. He just needs to remember how good it feels to be around you.

2. The challenge

Once you start getting closer, he might begin to think that you don’t present enough of a challenge for him. Men like the “hunt” and when things become too easy, guys can pull away. It’s kind of about loving the game…

The solution is to become a new challenge. It’s time to shift the power play so that he isn’t the one calling all the shots.

A man can pull away for a variety of reasons, but the best thing to do is to ask yourself these honest questions:

- Are you still confident?
- Do you have your own things going on?
- Are you a little needy or clingy?
- Are you giving him the reigns all the time?
- Are you the best version of yourself right now?

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[FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Has this happened to you before? Tell me about it below...

[vivianeehui]

If they are afraid of losing their freedom, we are also afraid of losing our tranquility, which they disturb by depriving us of the freedom to have a peaceful heart (lol).

[newbeginnings]

So basically I can’t be authentic and really let him know I like him. I have to play games 😕that’s why I’m taking a break from dating. I’m very successful in other areas of my life. Not dating. Thank you 😊

[kilombo]

Don't give him no cookie and he will pursue you. If he doesn't, you won't be so hurt.

[punky]

Suposing that the man is a mature person and not a big child, it all depends on his preferences and the way the girl can fulfill them. I'm always myself, I don't play games and some men were really attracted to me for years and others just at the begining and then they ignored me. I also noticed, the more high value the woman is the more posibilities to be single she has because she doesn't seatle for the ordinary and the extraordinary is a rare thing. That is my experience. I love your videos, very helpfull.

[colorscrayonbox]

OR: he met someone more interesting than he consider you to be.

[s.c]

If they're so afraid then why do they pursue

[HiKasandra]

The best answer is always within ourselves. This struck a chord with me. At that age in my mid 30s where it's considered old by people in Singapore. But I realised it's not good to be needy. I definitely grew way too nice and I realised it was neediness, and thinking i need to take the first step, instead of just taking it easy. Have also met a guy last year who was very enthusiastic at first then started to back away when he realised my age. That affected my confidence. But nowadays I am at that point where I can tell myself there are still lots of opportunities even if some men or women in my society don't think so due to ageism. Thanks Alex for your wonderful videos.

[bernardette]

I'm very needy and i don't need to but i very sensitive due to childhood lack of love, how can i gain power after being needy pls Alex well done love ur chanel

[amiehaidarahsheriff]

Dear Alex there are so many videos online but yours is the best among the rest

[maryjohann]

I don't understand where to stand now as a woman..because if i give love ...i give my all to the man i love..

[michelleg]

I realize that i maybe too needy, but I also know he wants us to slow down. Now to pull back and not text so much. I enjoy your advice.

[Trex]

Im going through the emotions. Weve been getting close. I moved an hour away and he visited. I came back and we're 20 minutes down the road again. Now he's applied for jobs an hour away. I know Im quite capable of driving. Im upset because I dont see myself moving back to the city. I thought we were both country people.

I'm hoping he needs a change of scenery because he's going through a personal crisis and he'll come back when he feels he's had enough of the crazy city life. I know, I know.. don't wait. Build my life up. I am...

[Chris.]

If this happens lady’s it’s because either his ex want him back and he will tell you oh I’m so busy and lots of things is happening 😒 and I don’t text him nothing anymore and he send me sometimes messages like where are you? how are you? 🤨 I’m done

[elisheba]

It's happened before and now i feel more confident but i'm still scared to be a little needy once more ... so i will take my time with the next man 😎

[RupyAvaani]

Wow 🤭I still cannot believe how I have come across you .. you have answers a lot of questions others haven’t been able to and in such short videos 😶I’m still amazed God bless you Frenchy

[eglantinedjiomene]

Many years ago this happened to me. Later he try to returned when I'm not like him again. This video is true Alex.I put him at pedestal.but I realized all man like that.it's me pull away, or him later he try to return.Today I'm not the same about love because I'm watching your videos. I like but I know to reserve myself

[tajninfatama]

I really don’t know how long I will keep continue this thing he keeps coming back all the time and after getting close he said I don’t want relationship but I care for you

[louelljeanne]

IF THEY WANT TO PLAY, I HAVE THE OPTION TO PLAY AS WELL OR QUIT THE GAME AND FIND A NEW ONE. 💪🏼

[claremillward]

What are you supposed to do though, be a challenge for ever? I tried this technique for 3 months and it worked but became a vicious cycle, because every time I let him get me, he would go cold again. I realised he was obviously just a player and had to end it. Obviously don't be needy in the first month, but if your still having to play these games for months, move on! Your being used! Sorry