The #1 Reason Why Men Pull Away When Things Are Going Great

[ceyciemateo]

Thats why you play games to get him to fall in love. And then give space. Worked with me

[anothercat]

In my experience the best thing to do after a great date is be calm and not reach out, let him do it himself, in a few days or so, then go his pace, text a bit less than he does etc.

[Heather_ONeal]

I needed this, honestly though dating is so exhausting nowadays that I don’t have the emotional wherewithal or energy to put into it anymore, I’ve decided that I’m going to pour my love into things and people that it’s going to be reciprocated by, I’m no longer wasting my time & energy, as I’ve learned my time & energy is just as valuable as anyone else’s, I’ve also learned it doesn’t have to be a significant other that you pour your love into, my kids and beautiful friendships that i have are giving me an abundance of love & laughter, & honesty that’s what we all seek out of life, it took me 35 years to realize i don’t have to be “ romantically involved “ with someone to have these things, I’m just fine on my own with the people that i know truly love & value me, life is good, everyone else can respectfully have the rest, I wish everyone reading this a life full of love & laughter, just remember you can have this without romance & games being involved lol, have a great day y’all!! 🙂

[dianalereve]

Men don't play games most of the time? Oh yes, they do. *Many* men are intoxicated by dating coaches that teach them to make women chase them... It's real, and it's a disaster.

[Chosen]

Yep has happened to me for the past decade. Now I can’t even have kids bc my window passed.
Depressing.

[Spinnglish]

Why the guy leaves by ghosting. He can simply say i am not available. At least he will be respectable...

[Lynn-rx]

I don't understand why you have to pull away for this. Just communicate. If you arent ready fine let me know wo I can proceed accordingly.

[nancysmith]

I really love it how you break it down so methodically about the steps of what happens- almost 'scientifically' you could say. No-one else really does it quite like you. It makes it so much easier to understand! Really enjoy your videos Elliott thanks and keep up the great work!

[paige]

**Also: Avoidant Attachment Styles. Google it. Absolute doozy to deal with on the receiving end. When sh*t starts to get serious, red alarms go off, they tuck tail and jump ship like their life depends on it!

[thezendo]

This is exactly what happened for me recently… He was so into me already planning future dates with us and traveling and even inviting me to bring my child.. then text me one day that he doesn’t actually wanna relationship…like huh?? Went from texting me all day long to that? So weird. He got spooked..and you’re right realized that he provided a lot of context of what he could potentially offer, but then realized that he can’t! And had to back off

[mortandsquiggy.]

What's worse is when you get engaged and he decides to pull back 😢

[sarahsageluna]

Hahah “I said some stupid shit I meant but can’t offer”😂

[rareroseglosses]

I don't get it anymore I'm giving up Elliott

[ashleybellerose]

I doubt you saw my comment but it felt like you did and even if you didnt you answered all my questions ♡

[APRILartz]

He said I was too young for him. He knew from the start :’(

[Christina_]

When it’s right it’s right. It will just be natural and it will flow. That’s all. 😊

[lunashootingstar]

😍🫶🏼😍 smokin with that beautiful profesh background😆

[blackwidow]

7 out of 10 times he will come back. Did he miraculously
change during the break up? Think long and hard before you get caught up in his on and off again relationship cycle that will last as long as you allow it.

[mimifromlondon]

What happens if he wants to pause? If he pulls back and says he's going to be busy but he will see you a few weeks from now

[spearmint]

SO HOW DO I AS WOMAN PREVENT THIS? cause it happened every time ;(