5 Things Men Do When They Fall in Love (In ORDER!)

Learn some KEY WAYS to tell if a guy is falling in love (and what he experiences as he becomes emotionally invested in you) ❤️

How do men fall in love? How can I tell if he loves me? What are signs that a guy is falling for me? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life... so I created a video explaining the 5 things that men do as they climb the "emotional ladder" of love with a woman so you can tell if a guy is falling for you... or not :)

TIMELINE
1:35 - 1) He Quickly Sees Your Truth
2:34 - 2) He Courts You
3:32 - 3) He Claims You
4:27- 4) He Fixates on You a Little
6:22 - 5) He sees a Future with You Without Fear
7:33 - What You Can Do to Encourage His Love
9:21 - Recap of Important Points

If you want more support in creating the life and love of your dreams, this is how I can help you ❤️ 👇

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[brendagriffin]

My husband did exactly what you said in this video. We were married for 37 years until he died from cancer. I miss him like crazy! 👍

[staceyg.]

1. Quickly sees your truth.
2. He will court you, focused intention to win your heart.
3. He claims you as his woman.
4. He fixates on you a little.
5. He sees a future with you without fear.

[EllePlowPlow]

This new guy Im dating feels like the one. Let’s see how he checks out 😊

#1 - ✅ “He sees your truth”
He saw straight to who I am from the first time we met. I always feel like I can be myself with him.
#2 - ✅ “he courts you”
(There were obstacles to us dating but he didnt let it get in his way and fought those obstacles for months & consistently pursued me so that we could date)
#3 - “He Claims You”
(We only just started dating so It’s to early to tell)
#4 - “He fixates on You”
(Still to early to tell)
#5 - “He See’s A Future With You”
(we shall see 😊)

[ChilledOut]

My ex did all these things over a couple of months, and I was enjoying the ride, then booom he broke up with me because he wanted time to do his own thing… so confusing 🤷🏼‍♀️

[lauriemiddleton]

Thanks Mat! I am on this journey…your course has allowed me to encounter and enjoy this love. We are in stage 5 and it is a beautiful experience. I feel love flowing from him to me and from me to him. The self love/beliefs that I have learned to create for myself have been INSTRUMENTAL in this process.
❤️Sending blessings to you!

Ladies…you GET to do this work with Mat. It will change your life! I can’t wait to see you all on his live coaching calls. I will be there cheering you on, supporting you, and sending you all of my love!!!🙏❤️

[aleewoolley]

Eye opening. Thank you. “You deserve to be treated this way.” I don’t think my last person felt anything of these things (or I was too fixated on “where is this going?” and pushed him away). He moved on, and sounds like energetically it’s time for me to do so too. Thanks for this!

[anneschu]

Very informative in a nicely brief way that is easily understandable for anyone. I love how the speaker/teacher gets really into it. It is obvious he is passionate in what he does and helping others in their love journey. Beautiful! Thank you Mat Shaffer! :) Keep it up!

[AlejandraGomez-wkxz]

Thank you so much! I couldnt tell if he is interested on me or not. I saw many coaches and you just hit the nail! 👌

[chosenlee]

Everything you said is on point. I’m experiencing them from my man right now. And I am just loving it.

[jinna]

What a truth-speaker!!! Thanks Mat! I love your sweet spirit and passion for sharing knowledge. You are a very effective teacher and your enthusiastic heart encourages me each time I see a new video… or re-watch one. Lol I didn’t know at 60 that I’d find myself adored finally, for me! Mat, the truth is and you said it, authenticity is NOT an option, it is a requirement because the right person has the special “eyes” to see us and like us because the us we are… is like no one else in existence. He said, “I like you. I like you for you.” Transforming words right there! Thanks so much for sharing this list. Hits the mark! ❤️❤️❤️

[cherylmays]

I am so glad I’ve found all your videos. This has helped me 1000%

[rilalabingbing]

Amazing.
Thank you. Especially for giving me the permission to accept and enjoy being loved.
Many beautiful blessings for you of love, joy, health and prosperity.

[cynthiaholmes]

Thank you so much, Mat. Great clarification!!!

[marshahargrave]

Thank you Mat,
There is someone in my life that initiated our relationship from the start. I did nothing. I had no intention of opening this part of my heart ever again. I believed it would kill me, to have to go that level of pain again at this age & stage of my life, so I cauterized my heart & numbed it with drugs for a few years. Well, God had other plans, & decided it was time for me to feel again, & has circumcised my heart, for it’s bleeding pain again from this man who promised with every beautiful word he use, that he was different, & he would never do to me what these other men did. I still talk to him, but I don’t know what I’m doing

[Secret-swih]

This is accurate. I have a long distance thing with someone but these things can be said for both of us....we both ...are moving in this direction. I'm gonna enjoy the ride.. who knows but it's nice to have this with someone who I liked initially. I definitely notice these signs, even I'm the one who might not be too scared of commitment.... hypothetically... And I think I'm the commitment phobe...the woman :)

[Songs-lspr]

You are an amazing man !! Your vids r so very helpful !! And I love your vibe too. Blessings!

[lisam]

Great content! I’ve learned a lot through this video

[cleonemusician]

Llllovvvve this. Huge thanks, Matt, for the pro guidance.

[monarchreject]

I think that there needs to be a follow up video of what to look for that ends up being love-bombing that can lead to abuse. I had all of this in a few months and then it turned into a nightmare…

[marianorton]

Beautifully said Mat … I love the way you coach 🙏🏼😊🥰💚🔥💖❤️💓🤎🖤🧡💛💙💜