How to communicate with your man?

[chitown]

Ladies, as a man I can tell you that if a man does not want to hear what you have to say (about his treatment of you) he is NOT gonna listen whether you are yelling or if you are calm and rational. When dudes don't want to take the accountability it is in one ear and out the other. This is because we know that y'all are not going nowhere regardless, so why listen? We respond to ACTIONS, not useless words. You might as well just throw the whole relationship away.

[workonyoursalvation]

Some men don't listen however you bring it...I'm happy I'm single I'm enjoying it..peace of mind above anything/anyone

[TheSomethingnew]

Whewwww this is the truth! If you don't call out things in the beginning, it will become a problem further down the line. And if you allow them to get away with it, then it will be harder to get them to stop. Men test you.

[anointedstilettos]

I do that. I can't talk when I'm upset, so I usually will wait 24 hours before having a deep conversation. This is great information.

[SheIsMe]

For a man to be so vindictive means he's emotionally immature and that's not the man for you! Ladies treat them the same way they treat you! No more and no less!

[shelamatela]

What I need to know is how to communicate with God.

[junehoward]

Not having control over your emotions is very dangerous! I never retaliate or seek revenge! I leave it up to God he does a way better job than I ever could! I might not witness it but I do get to hear about it! The hardest part is trying not to laugh!

[laj]

It's NOT human nature for a man to go sleep with your friend or sister, or to steal money from you. That's pure evil and if anyone's capable of doing such disgusting things get far away from them!

[Lisettelisette]

I give up!!! I can be calm, yelling or screaming the mf still chooses not to listen I’m done!!! I’m not telling no grown ass man how to act I’m out 💯

[todaywithtahzae]

Idk how many times imma watch these videos but I know every time I do I perceive it completely different. I write, I distance, I practice. I go to the gym and reinforce positivity. I come back and repeat, I go to work and overcome the tasks, and repeat, I go home and relax, I repeat. Day in day out this is an amazing process unfolding.

[TuBella]

Great advice/information. I’ve had many guys think NOT communicating with me for days after we’ve communicated for months is okay. NO.!! That behavior is not okay. You can’t communicate with me for months then think you can go a few days without communicating. I understand sometimes people need alone time, but I need that to be communicated. I expect the “hey, just have a lot going on right now I need some time to decompress” I’ll be like COOL. Take your time, I hope you work everything through. But when you want to just disappear out of thin air...? NO. I always check men on this. You can’t do that.

[DynamicallyDC]

So true you must call a man out immediately on his inconsistences in a mature manner or it will definitely continue. Agreed, using the terms "I feel" and "I need" are very clear and direct to get your point across when hopefully involved with a receptive man. 🙌🏽

[missjammeh]

If a man ever sleeps with someone I know or close with, that’s a done deal 🙅🏾‍♀️

[rykona]

Woman shouldn't have to check a grown man who knows what he wants... Any man I have to check early in the game, is not the one for me...

[QueenRoni]

I haven’t always been the best communicator but I’ll definitely start doing better. Healthy communication with my man will always delivery the most effective response in return. The use of I feel statements is the necessary way to communicate your feelings and needs. 😊

[thediva]

I needed this because sometimes me yelling and screaming thinking that’s the only way he can understand what I’m saying

[GoddessLulaBelle]

No one would believe me that my SON taught me this, step by step, each word he said, in that order, over a period of time as he was growing up. Now he is 19 years old, and I can get him to talk for like 2 hours at a time!!!! I had broken a lot of male relationships cuz I didn’t know how to talk to them. These steps are 100% accurate. This IS NOT just another corny process. But the REAL results will come when you stand on your words after the conversation 💥 Women, we HAVE to follow through on our action plans or our men will lose respect for us INSTANTLY 💥 THIS IS TRUE!

[sannp]

Beautiful eyes coach 😍
Ps: If a man is yelling at me, I stop him right there and asked, are you done? If not, let me know so we can talk. I don’t entertain yelling, it’s not my language!

[Nicolehazel-marie]

With a narcissist you can never say anything that set them off

[ebonieshenece]

Oh I did this last night... thing is I cut him off. Got too comfortable. No one clearly ever calls him out.