10 Things I Would Never Buy (even if I had the money)

Success and Happiness are not “one size fits all.” I always thought I wanted a nice house with a view, a new car, and a luxurious lifestyle, but turns out, I don’t need these things to be happy or to feel successful.

Today I’m sharing with you 10 things I would never buy, even if I had the money. Please keep in mind that I’m just sharing my opinion :) There is no judgment if you enjoy any of these things. I hope you enjoy

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01:22: Bigger home
02:10: First Class Seats
02:56: Haircuts
03:43: High-End Designer Items
04:45: Latest Gadgets
05:30: Fine-Dining
06:22: Resorts or Expensive Hotels
06:51: Car Upgrades
07:27: Delivery Services
08:05: Retail Prices

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[melissachanthalangsy]

1. Resorts
2. fancy car
3. bigger house
4. haircut
5. designer clothes
6. Food delivery
7. Fancy restaurants
8. first class air travel
9. Camera gear
From what I recall top of mind, in no particular order.
Interesting video! Food for thought
Edit: 10. Full priced items!

[DemetriPanici]

*“Reduce the complexity of life by eliminating the needless wants of life, and the labors of life reduce themselves.” - Edwin Way Teale*

[lizwhitelaw]

The only thing I'd say about retail prices is that sometimes I'll pay a bit more to support a local business rather than buy online.

[dominiquetheeasyminimalist]

The beauty of minimalism is that it can be tailored to our reality. Being mindful allows us to make choices and informed decisions. I don’t mind spending on a fancy dinner once in a while, for a special occasion. But I couldn’t care less about a big house or fancy car 😁. I love the way you share your thoughts, it’s always respectful and inclusive. Your channel is a judgement free zone, and your videos are so calming, thank you Sophie 😊

[lllllo]

I primarily spend 99cents on my clothing at thrift stores. I'm proud of not adding to the piles of trash in the world. Thanks for speaking on frugality. I think people get it confused with minimalism and think they are no longer "allowed" to spend a lot of money on things. Far from the truth.

[AhmetKaan]

*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*

The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤

[EmmyBoons]

I used to feel so much pressure to consume more and more because I felt like those external things would fulfil me and make me feel more worthy. I would spend so much money each month on extravagant items and services. Only until I realize that my worth lies within me I was able to stop excessive consumption.

[enchanted]

This is so validating! I like to live modestly but other people think I am crazy or they use me as a benchmark for someone who they can favourably compare themselves to. It took me years to break free of all the conditioning and sadly, most people don't seem to realise that there is even another option other than to buy more and more. I have learned that when you go through life lighter, it makes the journey easier. Plus I can afford to work much less! More time for me to spend in Nature, with my family and friends, helping the community and doing creative projects and less time having to manage all my stuff. We think we own all these things but really, they end up owning us. 😊✨

[Lindy_Enalya]

Great tips! I’d only disagree on the last point of never buying full price - I wish to support local businesses and pay prices that an item should have - many things in this world are way too cheap, also thinking about unfair labor. On top of that we can’t continue extorting the supply chain and keep ordering everything online, imho

[sunshineonarainyday]

I’m a new watcher, it has helped me realise I don’t need a bunch of stuff to make me happy. And I have been a lot more aware of what I’m buying now and you know what it really makes me happy. I realised I was trying to fill a void with stuff that never made me happy and would continue to buy useless stuff that really didn’t do anything but make me broke and sad. It’s not even really about money, I think for me it’s just realising what makes me happy. Thank you for your videos they are truly mind opening. 💖

[alicestanley]

We live a debt-free life. We do have a big house and we thought about downsizing because we are empty nesters. However, the Covid hit and we love the rooms and size we have including amazing outdoor space. We have everything we need. We do not have to spend money outside. Staying home is so great. We sometimes feel that no 5-star hotel or resort is better than our own house. We can save a lot of money.

[maglow]

Yes this video resonates with me! In this society we are surrounded with getting the best things around us and society’s definition is having an expensive house, a branded car, owning and wearing luxury goods and its a while for me to realise that these are not the things I really want. There’s a lot of discernment to do in the midst of the busyness of life. Takes a lot to step back and think for ourselves. Love the videos!

[markm]

Aloha, Sophie, from Philadelphia. We lived on Oahu for about 15 years before moving back to the mainland. Anyway, very much enjoy your commonsense minimalism and thoughtfulness. You have uncommon wisdom for a person of your age. Your voice and music choices are very calming. Such a beautiful looking young lady with an equally lovely spirit. Looking forward to each next vlog.

[simplyread]

I have longed for a bigger house for quite a long time. But I have to admit that a cup of coffee and relaxing music—these such small things—have already made me content this morning. Maybe..whether we live in a big house or not does’t matter after all, but rather, what you add to—or omit from—where you are matters much more.

[hassel]

I can relate to all these list. I would have anxiety having all the things in the world to keep up. Life is happier when you don't have too much because you have peace of mind.

[suzdelly]

I have been having such a difficult time with this concept lately and this video was exactly what I needed to hear. I absolutely agree with everything you said and feel the same way, but I find it’s extremely easy to get caught up with what everyone else is spending their money on and lose yourself- especially with everything being so present on social media. Thank you for being so real, practical and reminding us that this is okay and normal. Your videos seriously, seriously help me. Immensely. Thank you.

[girijanarayan]

Agree with what you said.. ethical clothing, small cozy home and practical vehicle resonates with me :)

[SFlaidlaw]

Glad to see you are talking about this! I wish everyone talked about what they wouldn't buy and that it was normalized. 💕

[MartaWis]

Everyone used to think I'm crazy for not going to hairdresser every two weeks like so many women I know, but I've had the exact same hairstyle since I was a little girl and I only trim my long hair a little bit every now and then and paying for something I can easily and quickly do myself is illogical!

I'd add newly released books to this list. I'm an avid reader and buying books second hand from charity shops and online has saved me fortune.

[leneekay]

You're such a breathe of fresh air in today's culture. Practicality is something we all need to pay more attention to..
I really don't understand those (especially) wearing all the branded stuff with logos all over themselves, it feels like they might be trying too hard on top of that, it's advertising for the brand (s) for free! Some of the fashion Youtubers here go on a spree every week to update on their over the top outfits, a ton of makeup, big houses, fancy cars that cost a lot & that isn't 'normal' in my humble opinion. Most people don't want to do that, because it doesn't make sense.

Yesterday I was watching an ex model who is now in her 50's, and it was sad to hear how the society's expectations of her because she chose to age gracefully, and not getting her hair colored or have any plastic surgery.

Happiness, peace & joy usually don't came with a price tag. Or an item attach to it. Cheers x