Freaking Out About Still Being Single?? | Matthew Hussey

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I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:

“I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .”

This mindset is dangerous.

Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices.

It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY “chair” for fear of being the only one left standing when the music stops.

And as if the uncertainty wasn’t bad enough, it’s usually joined by its friends: shame and comparison.

We often spend so much time dealing with these feelings that we forget to even make space for the behaviors that would actually move us closer to what we want.

That’s why we need a shortcut, and today’s video is just that.

I share with you 7 mindsets that will take the anxiety out of being single. If applied, each of them has the potential to make a dramatic difference in your love life.

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[pamelabrown]

Im 48 and still single ...i was widowed at a young age and then made poor choices and settled a few times...believe me...its better being single and at peace than in the wrong relationship...i hope all u singles find someone absolutely fab ❤️

[ryushizu]

1:12 1) Avoid the seduction of false progress
3:01 2) Lose the shame and own your intentions
4:45 3) Break the spell of comparison
8:19 4) Make friends with uncertainty
11:10 5) Try as many times as you want to find the right person
12:03 6) Learn how to be happy on your own
13:25 7) Learn to fall in love with your life the way it's happening

[MusicandVG]

This was beautiful Matthew, thank you. You got me to get up, get dressed and go to a riverside with a good book in hand - while I was ready to mope around in bed, feeling sorry for myself today

[danaprahl]

Matthew, I'm here to tell your listeners that it's ok to be single. You can still have an amazing life I travel, have a home, friends etc. Having someone in your life to make a couple just to be a couple isn't the way to live. Just live. Stop worrying I'm getting too old, I can't find him, I'm not good enough, where is he, I won't be complete with out him. Stop!!! YOU are good enough just the way you are. So live, enjoy your life, and when you are happy and still open for ... You'll find it. and Matthew you tool are great ...they do work.

[bigcatenergy]

“Fall in love with the way your life is unfolding”

[Healthevoid]

I’m at a point where I’m comfortable being single. I’m over feeling like I have to settle or even feeling like I’m behind . I’m a hopeless romantic and I’m nervous I will never find my person but I know what is meant will be . I’m doing losing myself in relationships that were never for me . Loving me in the present until I find my future ♥️

[justinbrockwell]

Can totally attest! I am in my early 40's and single, because of several unfortunate past relationship choices. I am absolutely happy being single and the freedom it gives me in life. I travel, hike, bike, fish etc as I wish, often with others, often alone. My point is, until someone comes into my life that appreciates all I have to offer, rather than using me, I will choose to be happily single. I hope everyone finds the true love that they deserve💞

[liudmilaaleagaaguilera]

What really worries me is choosing the wrong man. I rather be single until I meet the right person and together build a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Thank you for this, you are so right💖💖💖

[denisem]

First is to be happy within yourself. Single or not! Don’t wait for someone to come along to make you happy. I’m in my 40’s, single, drama free and peaceful. I don’t mind waiting for the right one to share my happiness with and vice versa. It is far better than becoming desperate then ending up with your worst nightmare. Ladies, if you want a good man then make sure you’re a good woman. While you’re waiting on your prince to arrive, enjoy things that you love everyday.

[alyailithyia]

I love being single. When its my time, it'll happen. For now I'll keep being open to going on dates, but focusing on me and thriving on my own.

[oddlynx]

As a terminally single woman in her 40's who has never been in a relationship, it's nice to hear this but after a lifetime of not being able to attract anyone it is hard to believe that anything will ever change. C'est la vie

[irenekim]

When I was a teenager, I didn’t expect finding the right person and getting in a relationship are so hard😂 Now I’m 32 and I’m not very sure whether I can find mr.right or not😔 I’ve been disappointed all the time…

[Babesinthewood]

You must acknowledge that other people shame people who are single. It’s not just coming from within. People on the outside ridicule single people.

[bridgettedy]

I've been single for 2.5years and I loooove the peace it gives me. I will enjoy my singleness until I found the right one. Cheers 🥂

[marywithane]

I think I'd feel better about being single at 47 if I had had even ONE relationship in my adult life as an experience. Despite all the travel, great job and friends I feel like I've missed out. failure to launch. This is good advice, I'm trying to trust God and also take this advice. 🤞🙏

[jeffroberts]

Fall in love with your own journey where ever you are in life, single or not. Love it.

[bigcatenergy]

I’m the first woman in my family line to ever be free to live completely on her terms. It helps me to remember all that my ancestors have gone through and that embracing my life fully, single or not, honors them.

[biancawijaya]

Single and wholesome. Not rushing into anything. Not interested in someone who brings nothing but problems.

[karenfischer]

I’ve been married eight times and I am still keeping my heart open. Matthew‘s right you can have as many relationships your life as you want. The reason I was married so many times was because I kept settling for what I thought I wanted. I’ve been single now for five years and enjoying life and if I meet somebody that’s great and if I don’t that’s just as good 😌

[steffis.]

I'm 35 and "still single"... I'm suffering from depression and just got diagnosed with a chronic disease. Because of my depression I'm not able to have a job right now. Yes, my life said "go back to to GO" personally, financially and health wise... I'm really feeling it.
But you gave me a glimpse of hope with this video, Matthew. Your words helped me so much! I saved it and I'm gonna go back to it time and time again for a ray of sun on my darker days. Thank you! ❤️