I thought God told me who my husband was and I was wrong 🤦🏽‍♀️ | Married in One Year - Part 1

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Hey y'all! I talk about my journey to meeting my husband, involving my dating history, how I thought God told me who my husband was and how I was wrong, the hurt I experienced, and how it all got me closer to God and to my actual husband.

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Sharing what I'm learning to grow and know how to live well in Christ!

[Umm-dy]

I’ve been fasting. 2 weeks into it God reminded me to keep praying for my husband and prepare. A week later a man I was talking to previously and thought was the right man popped back up. The reason I cut him off initially was he was incredible BUT did not have a relationship with God. When God told me to cut him off I did but it hurt and I thought about him all the time I even compared people I met to him and I wondered if he had changed. We went out for dinner and it was SO CLEAR he has not changed. I was so hurt and asked God why bring him back?? God said it was to show me to stop living in the past of what he removed from my life and said, “let go”. Praise God for his love❤

[lr]

Was talking to a guy recently who based on values and beliefs would've fit me like a glove. We had only spoken a few times but I felt like he could be it just because we agreed on pretty much everything. I still put my faith in God to intervene if it's not meant to be and I prayed for Him to remove this guy from my life if he's not the one.

Very soon after, no warning, for absolutely no reason, he ghosted me. A few days before that he had told me he was feeling so sure about me already. I was so shocked and couldn't believe he was the type who's capable of just cutting off contact out of nowhere. I know now if I had it my way, it probably would've been a disaster. God removed a rock from my path so I wouldn't stumble on it, and I'm grateful.

[Yhudiejames]

If there is anything I have learnt is that what God sends to you comes with clarity and not confusion. To everyone trusting God for a life partner… GOD will send you yours, trust him and in the meantime enjoy your singleness…. Once married you can’t be single no more😂
Thanks for sharing love. ❤

[Greeneyescindyyy]

I heard Rabbi Greg Hershberg said “sometimes we speak so loud in our emotions that we think it’s God’s voice” 😬 and yep so true

[thebeamli]

For three years, I was in love with a beautiful man. We dated and talked but never made it to being together. One night, I cried out to God to take him out of my heart and kill that desire if it wasn't meant for me. The next day, I got a text that he passed away. I was heartbroken. I know God was protecting me. He hid having heart issues and passed of a massive heart attack. I've dated 2 guys since his passing 6 years ago. It's just not the same after meeting someone who you believe was made for you. I've asked God to heal my heart so I can love again, but oh boy, did he set the standard high.

[prettyserakoana]

This story is so similar to what I'm going through. Constantly feeling rejected by the person you "thought" God told you is your husband. 😒 I feel like I'm going through a heartbreak with someone I never even dated. Letting go is really painful.

[cucucoco]

Damn what you are saying is 120% true: If we feel confused, sometimes under appreciated and rejected then that guy in our mind isn’t from God…

[girlmeetskingdom]

Yep, I was under the kingdom spouse deception. And just when I found out that that person got married. God joined me to the man He had for me. We got married within 2 months. As of this past Friday, I am married the my real kingdom husband !

[kyanndraKlara]

That was me in 2018 I met a guy who made me felt so confused I almost lost my mind, my weight was down, cried every night ughh literraly the worst time of my life. Today I understand why. I am with someone who respects me cares for me takes care of me I am so greatful for my amazing husband🙏🏾✨

[prophetessmimi]

Your willingness to let him go and ask for God to bring what He has for you is a huge reason why He blessed you so much 🥰

[elongaabigail]

God speaks clearly. He used to tell me straight No when I prayed about certain men.

[candygirl]

The only way to truly know God’s voice is to truly know his word …. There are a lot of voices out there if you don’t study Gods word there’s no way to know if he’s speaking to you …

[JesusLightsYourPath]

I thought the same thing but luckily I prayed to God and said "If he isn't the one then find a way for us to distance naturally." and I realized a couple weeks later that he wasn't into me. We barely even talked like twice, so it's not like we were in a relationship.

[racheloshaksmusic]

I was just thinking “wait a minute, I recognise this girl!” I watched your first few videos on your channel 2-3years ago and now you’re married ! I’m so happy for you and I love your honesty in your story because I can totally relate. So this is really helpful for us.

[alexisagginie]

I think most females make these similar mistakes is because we are not taught and are not aware of our emotions, feeli gs and how to analyze them. How to listen to reality. How to say .. NO.. to our sensual feelings, and what qualities to look for in a man. Howto converse, Communicate, and how to function in disagreements, and when to realize a person is not yours.
Understand your own emotions, all of them!

[annacargill]

I was in a relationship with someone who was Christian he is active in the church he was like that Christian guy if you know what I mean. And I was a baby Christian like a 1 year baby, we liked each other but I wasnt really attracted to him in looks but for his love for God so I thought.

I started thanking God for him I prayed and even fasted for him, and I wasn't truly attracted towards him at all I wanted to force myself to see him cute in my eyes but he just wasn't my type. I thought maybe its not what I want I will get but its what I need.

And then later down the road he started showing his true self he was so full of pride, he was a liar and he was a manipulator and even with me knowing I was like you know what "we can build together maybe he will change somehow", worst decision ever.

He continued, and thank God for my mentor she helped me let go, I told him that I couldn't continue with him and he texted down my phone so I blocked him and a weight was lifted off of me I felt so free.

The moral of the story is u will fast u will pray and even sometimes hear the wrong voice ''he is your husband go pursue him'' that is why in 1st John chapter 4 it says that u should test the spirit not every spirit is true. God knows your weakness and so does the enemy. There are many wolves under sheep clothing so be careful. I know we are human and our flesh can sometimes take part but put the flesh under control allow God voice to be higher than ur hearts desire.

God bless u guys may the Lord bless u and keep u and Grant u with a Husband that fears God and loves u truly.

[VictoriaMsVicky]

I'm just seeing this and I'm currently going through this now! I thought God told me this guy who just broke my heart was the one after a year of dating. I'm just realizing he's not the one! He's not willing to commit! I'm going through the pain of letting go! I know marriage is in my destiny and I will wait patiently!

[Francaaide]

I literally thought I heard God say he was the one but the level of confusion, uncertainty and disrespect I got from him was something else, I would seek his attention every now and then; all the way from November and I stopped calling February this year and this brother hasn't dialed my phone number till date. I am now in the stage where I am like, "Dear God, what did I do to deserve this much neglect", the rejection and all, with all my so called beauty, homeliness, God-fearing, intelligence and all what not.
I am getting better now and I pray for the one to locate me and just leaving everything to God. I am praying and really believing God for the next level while I am loving myself more and working on my purpose.

[Jade]

I met my love on Hinge too during the pandemic! He was wonderful from the start but I allowed my head to be turned by someone who definitely wasn’t for me and broke it off with nice guy. Through time and me fighting him after I was done and had gotten hurt with the other guy, gratefully he was still there in the background and we’ve grown closer through the years. Now in 2023 we are boyfriend and girlfriend and he makes me feel like the most special girl in the world. I’m pretty sure he’s my husband. Lesson: ladies don’t allow your head to be turned by a distraction, God showed me who my husband was from the beginning. The other guy never even wanted to claim or commit to me was seeing numerous women on the side, my now man has always been intentional and he has made it known that I won’t be his girlfriend for long…but his wife ☺️

[jupiterShoezRMe]

Im going through a similar thing. Im trying to recover from a break up (2 months of no contact). He was the first man I ever prayed for and I constantly asked God if he was the one. There were so many unexplainable events that took place that left me think that theres no way this is the Most High at work. Then things ended as quickly as they started. Fast forward to now, him leaving me behind makes me feel like theres no hope and that I'll keep going through this visceral loop of falling for men who in the end will serve as character development. I guess I'm afraid that if I let him go that he'll come back to me when its too late and I'll end up hurting him by rejecting him. Although I'm in pain, I'm grateful for this time because I'm rediscovering myself and finding my purpose. But I wonder how long its going to take for me to be ready to love and receive love again....another 2-3 years? Thats the part that scares me the most.