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[chayden]

My dad's not gay but he's an ally, and the drag bars always had the best vibes. My dad would pretend to be the really pushy gay guy to scare away the creepy men that harassed the lesbian woman. He found it hilarious, and loves causing harmless chaos

[ruthrogers]

The “boys will be boys” kid reminds me of the one time I got suspended. 4 older boys ganged up on me, and I managed to hold my own, hit one guy between the legs to give myself an opening to get out. The school called my mom in and told her that I was being suspended for a day because their 0 tolerance policy said that anyone involved in a fight got suspended. So my mom looked the principle in the eye, and told him “if you are honestly telling me that you are suspending her for defending herself from FOUR older boys, then I’m taking her out for ice cream.” This was the woman that taught me never to start a fight, but always finish it.

[E.T.]

Oooh, I have a story for this: I'm a fairly masculine-looking woman, even more so when I was younger, so I was mistaken for male on a regular basis. I was in Paris visiting a friend who was there on a student exchange. Now, French and particularly Parisian men have a reputation for "flirting" so aggressively that it would be seen as borderline harrassment in some other countries and I am from one of those countries. I didn't get the worst of it, due to the aformentioned masculine looks, but even so, I was aggressively hit on by my fair share of men in their 50s and 60s. I was around 20 and looked even younger...
So one day I'm again in the metro, minding my own business when another guy with more confidence than room-reading ability came up to me and started to hit on me. And for once, I had an idea. So I cleared my throat to make sure that my voice came out low and told him: "Sorry, bro, I'm not gay." He became as red as a tomato, started stammering something about him not being gay and either and then pretty much fled. It felt glorious!

[roundy]

Reminds me of a tweet where the OP, a 33yo childless woman, was told how she “better get on that” regarding having kids, and told the other person she’d had seven miscarriages.

[codyjones]

I once read a story about a child who was being bullied for being adopted who had THE perfect clap back: “My parents chose me. Yours are just stuck with you.”

[synthwolfe]

I got one that goes right along with this. My wife and I suffered a stillbirth. we were going to planned parenthood for grief counseling. however, while it is generally known that planned parenthood offers counseling, people tend to focus on their much smaller business of abortions. this was back before Roe V Wade was appealed.

Well, we were going in for counseling, shoving through the crowd of protestors, when one of them slapped my wife. I grabbed his shirt and loudly screamed "WE ALREADY LOST OUR CHILD I DON'T WANT TO LOSE MY WIFE AS WELL!" Everyone shut up and my wife ran inside. at the door I turned back and explained that we were there to work through our own S-cidal thoughts less than an hour after picking the urn we wanted our own baby's ashes in, NOT for an abortion. I also explained that harassing and attacking women that were going in could be far more damaging to the child than the vast majority of services offered at that location (everything from low-income pre-natal care to birthing and, yes, abortions).

It's been years, and I've never yet seen protestors at that location again.

[Kotch]

As a man harassed in the workplace by a female boss, it is not good, it is not even about “intergender fun”, it is about power and humiliation.

[terataylor]

The inappropriate remarks and baby belly touching is a regular thing for every woman I’ve ever spoken to about it. Happened to me with all 3 of my pregnancies, and even the people who knew that personal space is a priority for me, seem to forget. Just because my physical perimeter is expanding doesn’t mean you can get all handsy with me. I got called into HR once for slapping a coworker across her face. I told them that if they were going to punish me for that I would be filing harassment reports in agency and with law enforcement against that coworker for repeatedly touching me without my consent. Somehow they thought that nothing would come of it because the offending coworker was another woman. F around and find out.

[marklivingstone]

I was working teaching a lesson on inappropriate behavior in the workplace. When the topic of sexual harassment was discussed, a young male, early 20s made a remark that chicks should lighten up and learn how to appreciate a compliment when they get one. I asked why they should if they weren’t interested and how would that exchange fit into a job description…..to accept compliments and lighten up? He responded that the whole thing was just a beat up and they should get over it, it was just harmless fun. I said how would you like it if you were being harassed? He said I could take it, I’d enjoy it.
I said oh really, you think so. He sat there with a smug grin on his face. So, in front of everyone, I invited him to a gay bar. His mouth dropped open, he turned red and stuttered f*** off. I said why not, just a few drinks, get to know each other, he said no, I’m straight. I laughed and said yeah they all say that until they have a couple of beers (everyone else laughed). He became quite angry and aggressive. I held up my hand and said 20 seconds, you’re angry, embarrassed, humiliated, defensive and aggressive. How do you suppose someone who puts up with the sort of crap you’re spouting everyday feels. There was probably a gentler way of teaching him, but I’d lay a bet he’s never joked about it since. Sometimes you’ve just got to make them realize the stupidity of that line of thinking. Disagreements will always escalate when we fail to ask the most basic question. How would I feel if that was happening to me or someone in my family.

[sageseeker]

With the sexual harassment thing and all that: THEY ONLY ever picture women they are attracted to whenever they talk about womens issues. "Women don't get rejected"
Buddy, most women are not that supermodel you're picturing."

"I'd like to be harassed"

"Yes, Carl, and I'd like to be stalked by a super hot vampire who's deeply in love with me, but first starts out as my enemy so we can live out our enemies-to-lovers arc. But in reality, it's not so fun because I'm not in control of the narrative."

[Ohmygod_neilciccerega]

Here’s one of my favorite family stories- My grandfather was a teacher and one of his students was being sexually harassed during a lesson he was teaching. The guy behind her was pulling at her bra and trying to unhook it. She went to my grandfather and asked him to make the dude stop and instead he told her “punch him”I’ve been told in VIVID detail how she literally grinned and skipped back to her seat. Halfway through the lesson he tried reaching his hand down her back again and she turned around and sucker punched him in the JAW. He fell backwards out of his seat and was just staring in shock. He immediately shouted for my grandfather to punish the girl and started making a huge scene and my grandfather just waited for his rant to be done and said “you deserved it for provoking her. Cover your face, because girls like to punch creeps and if you didn’t want it, you shouldn’t have asked for it.” It’s a family legend 😭 I miss my grandfather he was so iconic and although you couldn’t get away with it now, I’m glad he could in the 70s

[justapanpirate]

As someone who had nurses hold me down while a dentist pulled an infected tooth at the age of 5 with the “oh, they’ll forget it” excuse; yes, listen to your patient and don’t traumatise people, especially when it’s something you know they’ll likely have to go through multiple times in life, like drawing blood or going to the dentist. I’m 34 and still have my mom come with me to the dentist and had to get rohypnol prescribed at one point to even agree to go. Even if I don’t remember much of the actual traumatising event my body does, and just thinking about is anxiety inducing.

[doclewis]

Yeah...most people think of "harassment" as "flirting" UNTIL it happens to them. Same with stalking. I've been stalked (more than once unfortunately) but I had a friend say that she wished someone "loved" her enough to stalk her! I screamed that "stalking ISN'T about love it's about power and control" and that I had to move from one state to another to GET AWAY from a stalker! Stopped being friends with her.

[endlesssupernovacaine]

I once had a dude creeping on me when I was 17 and just started college. He had kept touching my hair and arm and such when I had told him to stop. One day I had the brilliant idea to just start... talking to him about the dark web. I made this dude *incredibly* uncomfortable by talking about all the fucked up stuff on the dark web. At one point I remember him getting up, saying he needed to use the bathroom, and I distinctly remember saying "Wait! I haven't told you about the chatroom sites for people confidently boasting about spreading STDs yet!" I never saw that man again.

[FunSizeSpamberguesa]

When I was 35, I went through a really bad bout of IBS that left me weighing 99 pounds and missing over half my hair. I looked like absolute hell, and the sheer number of entitled Karens who would tell me "eat a sandwich" or start lecturing me about eating disorders out of nowhere finally led me to start saying, "Chemo's a bitch. Thanks for reminding me I look like shit, I totally needed that today." That never failed to shut them up.

[aussiemerican]

Here’s a fun little saying I came up with as I was watching this video. “Violence is never the answer. It is the question. And you should always respond in turn.” It basically means that you should never open with violence, but if someone is violent towards you, you should always respond with violence back because you weren’t the one who started it.

[satamiko]

People often do a "I've slept with your mom" kinda jokes with me. My mom was a dark joker. Each time I say, "You know, I don't kink shame but doing that with a deceased person is a crime..." and they shut up. She would be proud.

[ArtByJUSTSAM]

When I was obviously VERY pregnant, my husband and I were in line at the market. The woman ahead of us turned to me and squealed, “when are you due?!” while reaching out to touch my belly. I looked her dead in the eye and said, “I’m not pregnant. It’s a tumor.” The look of terror and embarrassment on that woman’s face was beautiful. She wouldn’t make eye contact and left as soon as she could. When she was gone, my husband burst out laughing and asked why? I said I was sick and tired of being fondled by strangers. I’m positive she never did that again.l

[SageTaylor-jv]

I’m non-binary (there’s a reason that’s important), and I look very feminine. I used to work at Starbucks, and there was one older guy who would always creep on the feminine workers at the drive through, calling the, pet names, trying to touch their hands, hitting on them. I had just started working on voice training, and one day I got fed up with him. I handed him his drink, he said “Thank you ma’am.” And I pulled a confused look saying, “Ma’am, I’m a guy.”
The look on this creeps face was worth it. He stopped taking to me after that, so every time he came in, I handed him his drink so he wouldn’t bother anyone else.

[DraconicDuelist]

7:48 My favorite related quote:
"In order to be a pacifist you must be capable of great violence. If you aren't capable of violence, you aren't a pacifist, you're harmless."