Why Do Narcissists Post New Partners Right After A Breakup

LOOK AT MY SHINY NEW TOY! But what is a narcissist really thinking?

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[gangGreenthumb]

I ended it, she blocked me. I kept it very private. Months later, mutuals began asking questions, because I guess she was posting photos. I didn't know anything about narcissism back then. I was never jealous at all, but I did miss the good times. The good times were AMAZINGLY good, but the bad were lonely even when she was sitting right beside me. The silence of being neglected. I have always said I wanted her to be happy, and if I'm not the person for her, she should find someone to make her sparkle. I truly did have her best interest in mind because I loved her.. well, I loved the mask, I never truly knew 'her.' (and I blamed myself for the demise of the relationship.) Later, I started learning about narcissism.. wait.. she flirted with dudes right in front of me. wait.. she walked ahead of me. wait.. she would start fights and when I made valid points she'd change the topic to something we fought about and resolved years earlier. gaslighting, blame-shifting, hiding my keys/wallet then helping me find them. She was winning a game that I did not know we were playing. That's when I realized it was all a lie, and the anger set in. So, I have never been jealous because at first I just wanted her to be happy, and later I understood who she truly is and what that new guy was going to go through. ~18 months later, I think she's done with him, monkey-branching to the next.... or he's figured it out for himself. I don't have ill-will, he is where I was 2 years ago and that was a rough road to travel! But in a strange twist, I'm grateful for the experience. Not because I enjoy having my heart torn from my chest, rather she made me face my own demons that I suppressed since childhood. I am stronger now because of that relationship, before I was wondering blindly, half-dead inside due to past trauma. She... she is in the same spot today as she was before me, as she was with me, and as she'll always be with the next guy, and the one after him. She'll just keep repeating the same thing in search of that perfect person to make her feel good about herself because she can't allow herself to feel good on her own- she is dead inside, empty. Still, I would like to know what caused her to be the way she is. I imagine it's a tragic story. Horrifying. I would have empathy for her had she trusted me enough to be vulnerable and brave enough to tell me. I forgive her because she is broken, but there's no way I could reconcile. There's no possibility I could ever trust her again knowing how manipulative, deceitful, and cruel she is. I pity her and yet I grieve the loss of the mask.

[dumpmail-xzqp]

After I had a clear idea what was going on and what narcissism really is, I only find it very convenient that the new supply is keeping the narc busy enough to not bother me.

[ChinosWorldx]

Such an underrated video. Thank you for your channel.

[AXRYXN]

Don't envy them, be glad you got out. They'll be disposed too.

[surfshack]

It’s nice to see you taking walks out in nature.

[mermaid]

My ex never ever posts the women he has intimate relationship with...he is always the lone wolf😏

[Vollbio]

Took my ex just a week to post her rebound. I laughed hard :)

[trapstarro]

That's cool, wait till the devaluation starts.

[smileyglitter]

My ex didn't, but then he could have me lmao 🤣

[ronniemcclelland]

Your voice on this video had me cracking up lmao funny😂😂😂 good information too love this one hilarious😂

[AsToldByBrittanyy]

I was the new supply and he posted me quite quickly on his Snapchat. It didn’t feel genuine to begin with but after learning more about narcissism, I know why it didn’t feel genuine. He was using me throughout that whole relationship to shit on his ex. Constantly comparing us even with me telling him how much it made me uncomfortable. Eventually I started to dislike her especially since they were still messing around even though he said how dirty she did him and how bad she treated him which I’m pretty sure were all lies since he conveniently waited to tell me all the stuff he did to her about 6 months into our relationship. Truth came spilling out.

[robpz]

The greatest thing I ever did to my bytch of a personality disordered ex was tell her you underestimated my power and executed the permanent block everywhere. Ohh I know that pist her off. I know she is diagnosed with personality disorder, but oh boy, do I f'ng hate her. I know the best thing I can do is remain quiet, and I'm anticipating her contacting me in the future. Yes. I was hoovered a couple of months after the discard, and it was startling. I wasn't prepared, and though I didn't answer her, it was very confusing. Again. Keeping silent.

[javiervillegaslopez]

Sara, I dont know if you have any video related the parasympathettic state or nervous system about a person of NPD is feeling during the day? Its true that is similar a constant state or flight / fight mode sometimes? I am addicted to your perspective on all your videos and also have ADHD and you rocks a lot !! Regards

[travisgoody]

i dumped my narc 3 months ago...she wasn't posting much since then and went into a self destructive mode. A couple of days ago she posted out of the blue sth about our anniversary, although we've been in no contact for 3 months. Now she's posting that she is is chilling in a hot tub with her honey and will get her ass spanked tonight. Whats the point of all that?

[biancak.]

Hi Sarah,
Curious what your thoughts on Wade Wilson are
I liked your video about JohhnyDepp and Amber Heard

[oldwhitedude]

What a beautiful location. Good message.