Why do some narcissists want to ruin your new relationships?

why do some narcissists want to ruin your new relationships? Why dont they want to see you happy with anyone else.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[elliekinda]

I personally feel like they hate that you're no longer being controlled by them and wouldn't want to lose you you're probably a place holder for that matter

[noonereally]

Because they still want access to you, you’re supposed the back up, you’re not supposed to move on and live again like an actual person, you’re a object that belongs to them, not another human.

[queentiggty]

Right!! I’m a living testimony to that they will try to unalive you!!

[Magdalene]

Even if you aren't in a relationship they simply want to ruin your life and stop you from being happy.

[NA-fzql]

I have experienced this. They try to ruin your relationships in 2 ways. 1 you sabotage your own new relationship if you didn't heal from the gaslighting and trust issues effectively and 2 they stalk and actively do it. I became aware of my ex being a narcissist after going to psychotherapy and I cannot agree with you more! They will say "I mean it no bs, I really hope you find a man who loves you and takes care of you" then will try to contact you 3 months later. I ignored my narc ex twice by not opening his messages. The stalking multiplied and I am now becoming very anxious. Currently in the process of journaling and documenting everything to give to the authorities if I need to. I feel for everyone going through this, it is not easy. Thank you for sharing this video 🙏🏻

[TheNisiu]

Ooo LORD I’m so glad I never had kids with a narcissist! It would likely have been my biggest life’s regret.

[GodsObedientChild-Deuteron]

Lee, you REALLY make me laugh😂...
But, seriously, you are a rare gem, thank you for all that you do✨

[tiarabradley]

This reminds me of my ex who said he'd rather see me SINGLE than miserable with him (serial cheater). I didn't even get the blessing of being with someone else! 😭

[mermaid]

I can’t get rid of this guy! Two years after the break up…trying to get involved in everything I do. I’ve never seen anything like it. He’s going around flossing his new handicapped girlfriend with a disability check. Bragging that he’s got money from her check and she’s moving out of the group home to get an apartment for them and he’s going to live for free. Saying I’m a gold digger because I wouldn’t give him money and he’s got a good woman now. 😮

[paulakaye]

They want to test you, to see how hungry you are for a “loving” relationship.
If you have “too much” self-esteem to put up with their games, they just move on.

[TCpointsof]

The narc kept suing the shit out of me and the new person couldn’t deal with it he left. Don’t blame him! I even moved 2000 miles away and he decided to hire a PI to track me down and sue me for emotional damages even though haven’t seen him in 5 years. Crazy! All I know to do is just to move again and stay in hiding!

[Cowface]

My self-love journal is coming in the mail tomorrow!

[blackninja]

My Dad does this to the next level. Not only is he a narcissist but whenever I have a new relationship, even if you the happiest most blissful couple, he will go a step further and so discord among us, and see us fight each other just cause disharmony. Out of pure malice! There are often times where he even tries to steal the relationship for himself even if it's his own daughter-in-law (I recently got married),

[dargeo]

Because 1) they think you belong to them and 2)they want you to be miserable like them.
I had this ex from.8 years ago contact me under a fake number asking me out after I told him…I was already married. He insisted on seeing me the same day! When I didn’t respond to that invitation, he said” how about tomorrow?” Delusional. Just because he’s a cheater, he thinks everyone is. 😱

[labonniecarter]

My babyfather is a narcissist he tell me all the time i dont care about you move and i have. Im over him period and mr lee you are amazing person i love your channel

[patriciahetherington]

Hi Lee, I just love your sense of humor even thou you telling the truth !🤣🤣

[cocky_]

My ex done exactly this 😞 she didn't like I was happy in my new relationship so she ruined my life with my new partner and her family by telling lies about me, now I have no one I've had my name slandered and in the end my new partner turned against me, cheated on me I have even done jail time for nothing 😞😞 I recently uploaded a video myself this morning because I need the truth to come out as I am struggling on a daily basis

[emmarae]

They end up ruining their current relationship by keeping in contact with their exes.

[azike]

Jealousy that’s all. They can mess your job up too. They are not just happy in this life. They can have everything in the world, but they can never be happy. I have been there, so I know. You need God on your side in other to win this people in every way.

[harmonyvanscott]

They will do anything to get ur attention to ruin your whole soul