Narcissists use emotional manipulation to control you

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#narcissist #narcissism #npd #npdabuse #npdsurvivor #abuse

Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too.

If you are interested in talking with me one on one grab a time with the link below.

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[thelovely]

it's how the keep you on that hamster wheel, making you think you could be better.. meanwhile not only do they not reciprocate but they also refuse to work on themselves whilst you're doing all the work.

[devpal]

Man thank you for doing what you do. You are literally saving and changing lives.

[mtc-ji]

Great video. So accurate. It’s helpful to be able to put words to this. Thank you 🙏🏽

[cherrybacon]

That is exactly spot on Ben the natural jealousy and the manufactured jealousy and is exactly the things he'd say to me that left me feeling paranoid. I'm sure he'd get off on this. Thank you for clarifying it for me. 🍒

[yourbodyandu]

Took me two attempts to leave. And I was always apologizing.

[neleg.]

Every each of you videos helps me healing!!!! Thank you

[loriewallace]

Oh wow thank you, thank you, thank you. In my 60 years I had never had an issue with jealousy or feeling insecure or needy. This explains a lot. Thankfully he has been an ex for a year and a half.

[AlwaysHope]

Lived certain parts of this for sure. There was times he would text me or call me every few minutes
I’m at the store
I’m leaving the store
I’m leaving for work
I’m at work …
I’m driving down the road
I’m at home
I never ask him to be that informative towards me but I just took it that he was being considerate. Then one day it just kind of all started to go away
For instance one day he called me on his way to work and was in a different state
said he had told me he needed to go there for work
And I can bet my life on he did not tell me that!!
Mind games mind games🙄

[LizEarthAngel]

Like leaving a coffee mug from a female friend with lipstick marks on it for when you get home than tell you your paranoid for thinking he might be cheating which he was and I am causing him to want to cheat by accusing him of cheating when he was actually cheating, fun fun 🤡

[tathe]

Yes This I expierienced and I told him this in similar words…. Rages him…

[dawnserrano]

No..he was always difficult, just finally let go..

[debm]

🤯 thank you for this video! I now think back in my relationship and see it so clearly.

[greylizard]

Lol, I spent over $4000 on flights and a hotel stay to be with a narcissist. We had planned it together. I got there and they told me they couldn't "drop everything" to spend time with me. I would sit in my hotel room alone and see them online, playing video games with their friends. The cherry on top? They discarded me halfway through my time there, which is something that the author of Psychopath Free says that these people do to make the discard mess us up even worse because we have nothing and no one around us that is familiar.

[AlwaysHope]

Thank you Ben
I love when you read to us everything makes better sense when you read it then when I try to read it

[emmamonroe]

Nothing similar for me. He never controlled me maybe becuz he knew I wouldn’t ever tolerate that. I wonder if he acted that way with his past exes? So weird.

[emmamonroe]

Master manipulators by not ever doing this. That was mine. We never argued, fought or doubted each other or was jealous and scared of someone cheating. All this is so super weird. Sometimes I wonder what it is that he has……..🤔😵‍💫😐

[phoenixrising]

He asked me, why do you hate her.
I said, I don't hate her, I don't understand why you are acting like this.
He said, she is good, she is underutilized.
I said, she is an employee, whose pay you are asking me to increase without any output which will generate any pay for the co.. be kind and stuff.. but this is too much.
He said, she is a friend. My friend. She thinks you are wrong for me, I can't have your back anymore.
I said, what nonsense are you saying
He shows me a text, she thinks you are a sociopath.. stupid person, low mentality, third grade and bad behaviors.
He starts crying like a child whose lollipop is stolen. You control me suffocate me.. you are stifling me. You don't allow me to have friends, you are jealous and possessive.
I'm like, wtf is wrong with you.. okay maybe you are right, she is right, I'm wrong. Sorry.. I'm sorry to her for my behaviors as well.. (which was incited because of their close proximity where they stayed overnight together in studio citing being better creative at night)
He discards me violently and ruthlessly saying all sorts of stuff. I am going to therapy thinking im a shithead. He is enjoying a clean slate with her in a new town, dancing away. Both of them are victim of my behavior and control. Right.. good. Yes. Please go.

[christoole]

could you come up with some work situations on a show.