Narcissistic Parents And Their Karma #narcissist

[Freethnkr]

As a child when my narc mom started pushing me away, became distant, controlled everything from what I wore to where I went, didn't want me to have friends, manipulated me, talked bad about me to everyone behind my back, pitted me & my siblings against each other, it was a lot to deal with. What did she expect to happened as I got older and had my own kids, this is the manifestation of what she sowed for many many years and it only stopped because I removed myself from everyone's presence. Now you have nothing to talk about, no one to scapegoat & no one to play your childish games with...

[arielm]

This is a wound that will never heal. It's best for these children to accept the harsh reality that they will never fix their parent and they will never have the normal parent/child dynamic. Focus on being your own parent, give yourself the love and compassion you deserve. Acknowledge your feelings and break the cycle

[Estherbethe...]

I never had the feeling or sense of "i want my mother"
From a very very young age i knew this adult was not available to me or any of my siblings in any way other than abuse.

[shanefortner]

Bingo bingo Dude u 100 percent nailed it. This is exactly what my mom did to me. After she admitted after my step dads death that she purposefully would torment me to make me cry an cause a scene.

[PassionateFlower]

Narc parents would rather die than own up to their failures to parent adequately. Then they die and cut you out of their will or leave you with debt or a dilapidated property that's more work than it's worth or leave you stuck with all their hoarding nightmares.

[ZombieAsh]

I've tried for years to distance myself and my child from my narcissistic mother, and she uses it to paint me out to be cold and cruel for it to everyone she can so she can play victim and never care enough to admit all the real reasons why. She hates me because I see her for the truly cruel person she really is, and all her twisted games don't work on me anymore. Her worst fear is me exposing the truth to everyone of who she really is. Because she can't control me anymore, she will try anything in her power to ruin my life. I can't put anything past her. She's a monster, not a mother. As a mother myself, it's helped me see that the things she does I wouldn't ever do to a child. No matter what she does or says, I know the truth, and that I am so much better off without her toxicity.❤😊

[lv]

I've been discovering all the truth about my mother in these Christmas holidays, where I had the feeling I had to isolate and spend them by myself and I was blessed with these insights about narcissistic mothers! Even thou I've learned about it in such a short time I think that it's something that spreads across the generations, our narcisistic parents were abused by people that also were abused and didn't know better so I think it's up to us, if we want, to forgive them, let go and be compassionate in order to heal the curse.

[melissacopeland]

Absolutely, it is difficult to face this reality. However, in order to save yourself from more disappointment and emotional trauma, you must accept and let go of the hope that they will be better one day. I have accepted an apology, nor any change in behavior will ever come.

[HenryRemo]

I have a parent like this who came from two parents that where narcissists, who also had at least one parent who exhibited the behavior. It is generational if you allow it to continue. Recognize the signs.

[hopeausbyn]

When you hate your own children, you fail to be demonstrative of your love for your own children.

[אפרתכרמלי-גק]

The Narcissistic Parents cut ✂️ their ties with US the Scapegoat child, exactly when we desperately need them. But they Renew their Contact with us if they get sick all of a sudden and they Desperately need our help, in taking care of them, when they are sick. But when in the past they cut their ties with us, it was very Traumatic for us. We can never Overcome that Traumatic Tragedy. Efrat.

[MH-mhie]

Thank you for this video. It makes me feel less alone for cutting off my parent.

[KittyKat-]

Said perfectly for me today! Thank you Danish.

[positivewavesM]

Children of narcissistic parents never gain their own identity.😢😢
Thanks danish for understanding the pain.

[AlanaParker-xpxs]

So me. I had to cut my mother off since she made me feel like I was a burden to her.

[Authenticallyathena]

I heard a quote and I wish I could remember who said it... Children love their parents unconditionally when they grow up, they love them the way they deserve. That's an excellent description for how i see my mother. As a kid, before I was aware of myself, I thought my mother was everything. By 9 I didn't feel that way anymore and at 37, I dont talk to her at all.

[annielannerskack]

My malignant narcissist ex husband started brainwashing my kids in their teens. My daughter and her husband live 13 miles away. They have two knew babies. My daughter hasn’t talked to me for 7 months and they won’t let me see my grandchildren. My son is so traumatized when he witness my ex’s rage and his words admitting he tried to kill me twice, but ‘didn’t do a good enough job’. The lies he told lead my daughter to ask if I was borderline. My Dr said, I am not.

[yuu_miran]

Thats why they say narcs lack selfawareness or they are so afraid to admit they are ones at fault they will never direct abalyzing process of reason and cause in their own direction, it will always be someone else fault and even assuming it could be they themselves is not an option though some of them may say sth like ‘oh i guess it must be my fault’ sarcastically or even pitifully but believe me they dont truly admit to it or mean it its only make themselves a victim in front of society

[tulip]

You reap what you sow 😊 applies to EVERYONE

[zoespiteri]

Crazy trying to give caring and kindness to still only ever be treated like a nobody. Unhappy people are unhappy about everything. The help and support is out there to start improving on yourself and try to be the happy that life has to offer. Thank you so very very much Danish. Accurate insight. Really