How 3 women with mental illness impacted my life | Christine Burych | TEDxWilmington

In this talk, Christine shares her experience of how three women with a mental illness changed the trajectory of her life for the better by helping her reshape the way she viewed those living with mental health issues. Instead of coming from a place of power over others, and wanting to help or fix people, she learned to look for the gifts and listen from a place of non-judgement. This in turn allowed her to watch and listen for wisdom which framed her experiences and life's mission. From the front lines of community mental health to senior management, to global consulting and training, Christine has pursued her life’s passion on raising awareness of mental health issues in the workplace and providing tools on how to develop resilience.

As the President of StarlingBrook Leadership Consulting, Christine infuses every leadership training with guidance and awareness of our mental health and the impact it has on how we show up as leaders. Awareness is great but action is better. Globally, Christine teaches leaders how to support mental health issues in the workplace to enhance compassion and productivity. She is an executive coach and certified resilience practitioner. Some of her clients have included, Toyota, PepsiCo, Porter Airlines, Staples, Deloitte and first responder.

[elin_]

That's what I try to say to people around me: DON'T try to fix me, it's not your job.. just be there and support me through the highs and lows.

[chelsooo]

Incredible talk, Christine! I hear some of your coaching echoing through it. Thank you for sharing this, and your vulnerability and wisdom always!

[HindaMiller-iqwb]

Christine, just saw your TED talk. So impactful for me in so many ways . Thanks for your courage & truth speaking !
Hinda.. Brava mama ♥️

[FarzanaDoctor]

Christine, thanks for sharing your story and learnings. The childhood-developed "fixer" is a part of nearly every helper-type I've met (including me!). It's so liberating when we can shed these layers of trauma and show up with authenticity in our work.

[Seeyatellite]

Checking in, asking questions, being curious and showing empathy are often the greatest ways of fostering genuine growth for both individuals and collective community. Mental health is such a personal struggle... how are we meant to understand an individual life without such inquiry? We can all believe we "know" what's best and we may... for ourselves. I love the way this talk journeys through your life, to the lives of people you've cared for and into your introspective self.

This is a beautiful talk. Thank you, Christine. I deeply appreciate your vulnerability.

[SandyStolberg]

This is incredibly uplifting and empowering. Christine’s childhood mirrors my own. So very grateful for this TedTalk. Thank you so much, Christine ❤

[gregzlevor]

This is a powerful story and message. Thanks for sharing your journey and insights Christine. I have a whole new perspective based on your talk. Your compassion is exemplary.

[jennginis]

Christine,
You made me cry and gave me chill bumps at least four times. Thank you for sharing your experience, your vulnerability and your lessons with everyone who views it. It’s going to change people.

[oleksiws]

Amazing!! So insightful. It really resonated with me ❤️❤️

[MartaBurych]

A heartfelt talk about how mental illness changed Christine's life and her approach to working in supporting individuals with mental illness in the workplace by coaching leaders on how best to support them. Clear to see just how passionate Christine is about mental health and healthy workplaces.

[CupRoyale]

WOW, WHAT A QUOTE: "People have way better solutions to their problems than anything I can give them".

[SusanJ-gm]

Dear Sister, mom gave us something special, the gift to adapt to situations thus making the three of us resilient individuals. So happy you shared your story for the world to hear and those living with mental health issues. Thoroughly enjoyed your powerful presentation .

[kaseykenny]

This is the exact position at my workplace! Thank you this came at the right time!

[parrysoundfamilyhealthteam]

Very relatable and meaningful messages that will resonate and help people. Thank you.

[leadershipalchemy]

Wow Christine- its like your biggest obstacles became your most important lessons. That core assessment of “I am the fixer” causes so much pain in relationships. Creates a big obstacle of self righteousness for the fixer and takes away the self agency of other we think we need to repair. So many beautiful insights here for leadership development- when is your book coming out? ❤❤❤

[Alan-tjj]

Very interesting.. This lady seems very intelligent rare for this channel.. good video

[tishie]

My mom liked to remind me all the time that her lupus would never have kicked in if she didn't have me. Super helpful.

[EwanShawcroft]

I'm not crying, you're crying 😢❤

[Kalyse.]

I feel like I’m experiencing this as someone with adhd. I feel as though im coping well with life. And, in general, im proud of my accomplishments. But I find that when I work with people they try to fix me. I definitely walk to the beat of my own drum. But I’m tired of feeling like I have to fit into a box to be accepted or validated.

[catherinekontos]

What an incredible story and the results from it.