Dating over 50: What Do Men Want? Experts Reveal What Men Over 50 are Attracted to in a Woman!

Dating over 50, relationship experts say that men over 50 are attracted to things in a woman that were not as important to them as when they were younger. What do women need to know? Robert Manni, host of Guy’s Guy Radio and TV, weighs in on what relationship experts say men what over 50 want in a woman that is now different than when they were younger.

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[uojxgxt]

I'm a 66 y/o woman. for me sex remains important but men in their late 60's and 70's can be prone to health issues, like diabetes and prostrate conditions to name a few - and while they they are still sexually motivated, are no longer able to perform. the irony is they see a 66 y/o woman as too old to be sexual, whereas they are the ones who can no longer perform. its a minefield to navigate - determining a guy's level of health before getting attached and disappointed - in a discreet way.

[Lambert]

A pretty, feminine girl who's nice. Not some tattooed, cussin' woman who's bitter.

[alexanderlapp]

An honest person to means not a liar or a thief, someone I can trust. It doesn't mean someone who tells her life story with all details right away. I would rather learn about someone in bits and pieces over years, not all at once. I consider honesty a most important quality in a romantic relationship, friendship, or someone I do business with. Without honesty, how do you know who the other person really is.

[snorrevonflake]

More or less same as in my 20s. Playfulness, style, shared interests, similar character traits.

[andrewbird]

Well I'm 66 and I definitely want to see more of the world. I'm planning a trip to Europe for next summer to follow in the footsteps of my father's WWII experiences. He was a commando captured in a raid in France then transported to POW camps in Eastern Germany and Poland then toward the end of the war was marched across Poland and Germany before being liberated from a camp in Western Germany. I want to visit all those places and would like to find someone who would want to share that with me. I'd also like to travel to Vietnam, Bali, Thailand, Peru, Egypt and places like that. So desiring that type of adventure would be a priority for me in a partner as well.

[jamesstrom]

No one asked, but here goes: be an equal participant in the relationship, whatever stage it might be in. Early on? Plan or initiate a date some of the time. Don’t be passive or expect the guy to do it all. If you’re into me, don’t be afraid to show it. Even if it’s subtle … nothing over the top. Guys like that. Not out of insecurity or neediness, but it just feels good to know someone’s into you, especially if you’re into them.

[paulbarnhill]

I want peace. I want zero drama. I want serenity. I want to keep my money. Therefore, I’m not dating.

[LightworkBeacon]

Kindness, level-headedness, and honesty are key! And, yes, both genders must put effort into their grooming and health. That doesn't mean being perfect nor superficial but simply putting your best foot forward because you care about yourself. That is very attractive.

[victorramirez]

I really connected with this, what he said about finding someone who is accepting at where I am at. I've run across many who won't listen, and try to mold you into what they want. As we get older, we tend to spot these things much more quickly.

[bluefig]

I’m in my 50’s. I would like my lady to be self-reflective and able to emotionally regulate herself. I remember in my past marriage my ex-wife would get upset at the smallest things and have these outburst. We have talked about it since then. She was struggling with anxiety or fear and would take it out on the family. I would like my lady to be in touch with what’s going on inside and calm herself down before reacting.

[Lambert]

I hear ya about not wanting to travel ever again. I just want to sit in my nice little home and drink coffee. I went everywhere I wanted to go when I was young.

[bluefig]

On a random note: the TV “The Bachelor” features a 72 year old widower named Gerry. The women range in ages 60-75. I would love to see you cover some of the episodes with your insights. I’ve never heard watched a single episode of The Bachelor before, but I am watching it now. I find it fascinating.

[richardhintonracing]

I think certainly in later life we look for people much like ourselves, people on the same wavelength with the same outlook on life and actually if you do not have at least similar political views that can become a real source of irritation . Similar age having lived through all the same times is a huge help and the ability to keep calm . What is nice is being able to know what the partner is thinking without anything being said . Good communication both ways on everything helps so much . Other factors as well of course, but equality of effort and a common goal working together in an unspoken partnership. (No wonder it is so difficult finding one !!)

[Charlotte-Willow]

I would like a man that doesn’t swill Coors, Budweiser or PBR all day long. I don’t like fat bellies or cracked feet in flip flops.

[andrewbird]

Speaking as a man in his 60s, the first thing I desire in a woman is a commitment to fitness and health because those are my priorities for myself. It's especially important at our age, it can mean the difference literally between life and death and good quality of life. Women complain men are only attracted to slender women. That may be true, but to me it's more about wanting to connect with someone who shares the priorities I have for myself. When looking at a dating profile, I'm attracted to women who are doing yoga, riding a road bike, lifting weights, climbing a rock wall paddle boarding or backpacking.

The second thing I look for is a sense that she is well-grounded. Has she been married, does she have children. Is she close to her family? Also important to me is what has she accomplished in her life? I'm attracted to well educated, well rounded, well traveled women. If she has a Stanford degree became a college professor, she has my attention. But I'm equally attracted to women who started a successful small business or had a successful career in a profession.

My two American sisters both chose professions in the '70s that had been traditionally dominated by men. They broke down the barriers for woman and today woman are prominent in those professions. My sisters are a great source of pride for me and I am attracted to woman who are of that mold.

One other thing I pay attention to is how close a woman my age is to her adult children. If they have a really good relationship with their children and grandchildren, I think it really says a lot about their character and I am drawn to that.

[joerockhead]

Thank you Silke, & Robert. I always enjoy Robert as a guest. I loved when Silke mentioned not wanting to travel or ever get on an airplane again. I agree 100%. Interestingly enough 100% of the gals I've been out with mention travel as their passion. They all want to go to Greece, Italy, Ireland, Iceland, etc. I wouldn't mind some domestic travel (driving distance). But I'd prefer to sit at home and write computer code.

[truehearted]

I'm a 60 yr old white male and I stop watching this video about 1/2 way because its WAY off the mark. I don't know who your quoting your info. from but its not accurate. I highly suggest watching some of the younger dating coaches on you tube. They are MUCH closer to the mark than this video. This style of asking 1 person what they think of these questions is so one sided. Get 6-8 males of the appropriate age and let each answer that comment.

[tedknudstrup]

Wow, spot on, seems like they interviewed me and wanted own personal list. Great list and would apply to both men and women as Silke comments. Great content Thanks.

[myfatherslegacy]

Honest and authentic. By this. Stage of life it should be clear we aren’t mind readers.

The “he should just know” is a head game older men likely will not play.

[DougHardy]

Silke, all of these points that you and Robert are discussing are valid; however, I would classify these as long term attraction items not short term. Nearly all are undiscoverable without some significant time together. The sex drive and adventure levels need to be complimentary. Unbalanced levels by either side will likely leave the other disappointed. Throw in time availability as well.