(Update) I broke my wife and I don’t think it is fixable.. #aita #redditstories #redditupdate

[karishma_k]

I think it could have been fixed if OP hadn’t waited for six months before taking it seriously!

[alexandervaldelievre]

He did something dumb but her omg. She is to inmature for a relationship, she didn’t communicate at all

[forgedude]

So wife confirmed that she overreacted even though she didn't know why she reacted like this BUT what pains me is that her need to be looked at as beautiful (only this) is the reason she wanted off the marriage. That need for physical attention is so great that she doesn't want to work on her issue she accepted and just broke off, and will probably leave the kids ...she is selfish, ( covert narcissism is the proper term i guess) Wait till she is 40 and wrinkles start appearing and how much beautiful she is lol

[Cobhammar]

he definitely messed up. and 6 months is a stupidly long time to begin to panic about it. but to leave your marriage and destroy your family over a stupid remark is fucking dumb

[larissagomes]

There is no way to fix a marriage if the other person does not want that. 😢😢

[BERKE-nods]

If he had not wanted her to feel bad then he shouldn't have said all that. That was idiotic and hurtful to her.

Changing the topic, saw a 'similar' video of a post made by a dude who overheard his gf/fianceé/wife (doesn't matter) badmouthing him to her friends. He was met with comments to not be a btch and to stop overreacting. The difference was that he was 'not present' when the talk was taking action and her words really were meant to hit him. The hypocritical society of vermins with double standards makes me want to puke.

[riprip]

The internet got brutal towards him, which is very common. I hope they both found peace and love again.

[NMaxne]

I wouldn’t be insulted if my husband said this in all honesty 👀 we fell in love talking on the phone and writing letters so only seeing a few pictures of each other, he didn’t fall in love for me for how I looked and I’m not conventially attractive either. He does make me feel beautiful though! He tells me all the time even when I’m gaining too much weight and looking tired. I think she has some deep insecurities and what he said triggered them

[tempy-tqix]

the wife is the issue at least 2 min in but who knows maybe op has been acting weird and this confirmed some suspicion the wife had

[nteladiekumpuna]

the only thing you did wrong was wait six months to try and fix it

[fvkrwis]

Its so sad that this woman, is going to destroyed not only her life, but her childrens lives and entire future because of her insecurities.
I know what she is feeling is real to her, but I just cant help being mad at her.
By the time she comes to her senses, so much damages is gonna have been done.

[Magicnun]

Gotta, I heard this story before, the wife definitely overreacted form the info given, he did not say or imply she was ugly, he said she had more than looks and his ex only had the looks, but not the personality to back it up.

[JanaSzIsBasicGlitch]

Wait what he said wrong . I would understand it as he though that. I mean when I say pretty I mean pretty, when I say ugly I mean ugly. When I say that looks doesn't matter I mean that it doesn't matter and that the person is so much more. But if this is weirdly crime... Than the guy should not wait 6 months... He could have tried... Again don't know what, I am bad at it too so I can't provide memory to help, therapy however is not bad, bet. Or maybe making her feel beautiful (not being creepy about it I guess... ) wish luck. Altough I wish to know what I did last time.

[enriqueperezarce]

As much as I believe he is in the wrong, the wife basically did the final nail in the coffin in the relationship, she doesn’t want to fix it or try to hear him it. This doesn’t feel like a 7 year marriage too me, it feels like a young relationship, honestly it just be better for them to move on, she can’t communicate or wants to talk so just divorce

[mannydcbianco]

This guy is fucking clueless. I get people say dumb shit when they're drunk but being drunk is never an excuse, nor is it a mitigating circumstance. You are 100% responsible for both words and actions while drunk. You chose to get drunk so you accept responsibility for it. You get no accountability discount. It can of course be argued that she is overreacting, but only she can decide what is best for her, only she knows how much his words hurt her.

[ununhexium]

the comments toward him were brutal. he really doesn't show many red flags here. the wife even admits she's being overly insecure.

[xbvzfrm]

Nah This Woman Mind Is F'd up She was Clearly Uninterested in Communication and Trying to be Secure and She Was Posting Explicit Pictures of Herself Online to make herself Feel bEuTiFuLl so much for that Why don't she Just Start an Onlyfan to feel Loved for Looks Feel Bad For OP for Thinking any of This is His Fault

[TheGosgosh]

L OP for drinking more than his filter could handle and for waiting half a fegging year to finally take a real stand
L wife for being so insecure and superficial

My heart goes out for their kids, they deserve none of that

[kexpjhy]

Didn't sound like he even fought for his marriage.For all he knows she wanted to see if he really loved her.Apparently he just let their marriage die.

[nteladiekumpuna]

idk why but i j have a feeling that the wife has started an affair due to his comments