Why do Indian parents try to control their adult kids? 10 things wrong with Indian/Asian parenting

The biggest problem with Indian parents is that they are not able to adapt their mind with the dynamically changing world. They are comfortable in the patriarchal society that they live in. #indianparenting #badparenting #asianparenting #rainaraonta

#PointTohHai by Raina Raonta

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Presented by: Raina Raonta
Edited and Produced by: Raina Raonta
Script: Raina, Tanvi and Rudrani, SheThePeople

[vaishnavirao]

Expected: this is a must watch for adults who are parents.
Reality: 90% teens and 10% adults...

[aishwaryarakesh]

The P in Privacy stands for "Par tujhe darwaza bandh karke karna kya hai?"

[kaybee]

One more thing.. Many children don't tell their problems to parents.. Because they know.. They will only double the trouble by their extreme reactions and anxiety

[Manuplater_yt]

Parents have the biggest ego in this world they are never ready to accept they can be wrong sometimes just because they are parents

[shreyasingh]

Relating to all 10 points made me feel I'm not alone😂!

[meghnachakraborty]

I say "privacy" and my Desi parents hear drug, boyfriend and alcohol.

[vismyub_]

Also don't forget the famous line of parents "Do after marriage" whenever a girl wants to do something 🤦‍♀️😓

[oops]

There's a big difference between protecting and controlling. Majority of Indian parents are controlling, not protective. She's right - they do not prepare their kids for the real world giving awareness about real issues, but only prefer to keep them under their cocoon of over-protection and control, which includes financially supporting them even until adulthood. Interdependence is so strong in Indian society that many times it creates lots of inter-related problems and expectations.

[vanlalngaizuali]

11.When talking back, They say "you live in my house, I raise you "😅😅😅.

[Sippingteasince]

when you relate to all the ten

not surprised yet dissapointed.

[therealgrimreaper]

So true... My parents threaten to break my door if I lock it

[whosthat]

Generation Gap is also the most important factor for this. No matter how much we try to make them understand or explain it in a peaceful manner, they donot understand and instead gets offended b'coz according to them "they are adults and have experienced life more than us " so they have more knowledge about each and every situation even if they don't know how to cope with such sensitive issues properly. According to them "their opinions are always right, their points are always valid. And what the hell is depression ? Drink water, go for a morning/evening walk and that's enough. " 🙂

[nimdomasherpa]

This video should be broadcasted in all the fucking channels 24/7 until it gets viral !!!
This could save this generation and so many childhoods!!!

[pretty]

What's privacy ? Never heard of it ????

[prajukta]

Above everything else to try and resolve issues with parents or bridge the generation gap, the main thing is our parents need to LISTEN to us and we need to LISTEN to them. There is a major difference between hearing and listening. Most of the times a conflict arises when either party refuses to listen. #Truestory

[somalikadas]

I'm the only child of my parents, so they expected every possible thing Indian Parents ask to their children like getting your marks better than any other child, get a good job and so on.But speaking up about all that matters, we tend to forget about our rights and we've never been taught about mental health until we do it all by ourselves.I've faced toxic parenting first degree in my life and I know how painful it can be.The thing with toxic parenting is that we generally don't understand it in early stages.Also according to our so called "SANSKAR", we are taught that whatever our parents do for us are only for our wellbeings, if you try to make them understand about their decisions it will be called "ZUBAAN LADHANA".I think it's high time that we should speak up about toxic parenting like the way we started talking about Domestic Violence, Marital Rape, Consensual Sex etc.

[gargiparanjape]

The 55 dislikes are from children watching the video in front of their parents.😂

[sweetygupta]

"Sadi ke baad krna" is the savage reply of every mother🙂🙂🙂🙂

[AmiableARK_ahmedrazakhanYT]

Who told India is not United! Hearing these points made me feel they are common to each and every household whether be it of a different religion 😜

[sagarful]

I guess the main reason for them to control is we are financial very much dependant plus we stay in parents house
And parents think that they have every right to control kids because once they were also raised like that by their parents.
Probably future generation will understand better I think.