How to Trust Again After a Narcissistic Relationship

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[theferin]

My ex narss taught me I have been strong. That's why he left. And now I'm just going for my extra goals in life and with more wisdom..

[stefanieshepherd]

I think if you were conditioned with narcissistic parenting as a child your susceptibility is off the charts.

[OSTARAEB]

What’s difficult is realizing you were dealing with pure evil that comes packaged in beauty. It’s truly vile how some creatures acting as humans are. Great message!

[Clevelandsteamer]

You fell in love with a character. That’s a bitter pill to swallow. But you must come to terms with it in order to move on.

[CoffeecupCV]

So powerful a message. And ironically, all the issues I currently realize I need to resolve. I have shut down, become a people "disliker" and definitely don't enjoy life like I used to. I feel trapped in myself, shut in my own mind and escape with books on other people's travels. Even 5 years after contac with my Narc hubs.... its a realization that I knew...but ignored. I am smart, i read physics for fun, work hard, have a great immediate family ... but that relationship changed me in unseen ways, even with no children. 1.5 years of human degradation suffered... 5 years later, still rebuilding me.

[mistymoonrose]

Yess learn to love yourself, learn the red flags, learn who you are. Take all the time in the world. You're worth it. 💗

[nr-f]

I needed a lot of time to understand that a narcissist has different personalities. So I couldn’t identify whether the narcissist was good or bad. That’s what makes it one of the worst things. Narcissists have different masks. Their words don’t match their actions.

[CatherineBradley-Neill-yc]

Get strong. Know yourself and your weaknesses. If you expect someone to make you whole you're not healed. A complete person is wholly in acceptance of themselves. Carrying baggage into another relationship even if the new person is good and decent can be ruined by unresolved issues within you.

[chautran]

I've never seen a good therapist. They're either clueless or a narc themselves. Thanks to the internet, I've learned firstly from Sam Vaknin and now Richard Grannon.

[Joshualuv]

It's been 5 and half years for me, and I trust no one apart from a couple of very close friends.

[SHWHITEBUFFALO]

Thank you 🙏😢😊 I am a survivor, I'm going to make it.

[melissah]

It's taken me 6 years on my own to learn to trust! Lots of hard work, therapy, and just time learning to love myself again

[mathews]

Swore i had it figured out, got in another one. Got out in 4 months though. I knew they were off from week one. Finally figured out what in me is the leverage. Its actually a great trait for the right person. I see it now how it all plays out. And this one was mostly a nice person. Very crafty. Very manipulative

[BIGKUDOS]

Yes it is very important to forgive yourself❣️

[gypsyblaik]

Real eyesight. I have changed is that the right word. I have chosen to learn who I am. I have learnt . I have values, boundaries that don't change to make someone else happy . I spend time caring for myself. I also like me.

[MajidahMateen-xdrx]

This is so beautiful and powerful and I have a hard time forgiving myself for staying so long 💯💯💯

[Tee]

He’s right !! Spent 13 years healing in therapy and celibate. Started doing coffee dates and finally met the man I’ll be marrying. I feel safe, happy, peaceful and could knock his head off at times hahahaha

[claudiasbarra]

AND BE aware that there are also narcissists as therapists. I felt on one and I was crushed even more. I then found your courses and did 2 years the inner work alone after I could open again to a therapist. I could only regain trust with your coaches again and then I found finally a good therapist. But for those who read this: be aware and don't think that there are no narcissists as therapists.

[tinktink]

Therapy hasn't help. I got over the addiction to him. But I feel like narcissists are educating themselves on this topic. They know what they do!

[morgana]

I'm currently working through your course Unplug From The Matrix Of Narcissistic Abuse, and it is extremely helpful. For the first time, I have hope that I will heal from the relationship and also never get into another one. Thank you 🙏