Three Text Messages To Send Your Ex

Wanna know how to text your ex to perfection? Stay tuned, because in just a moment I’m going to reveal to you the three texts that will have your ex wanting more of you—and not just over the phone.
Hi, my name’s Emily Raymond and I’m a relationship and breakup guru. I work with couples to rebuild their romances so they can focus on their happily-ever-afters. I want to give you three of my tried-and-tested breakup text formulas that will have your ex missing you like crazy and ready to take you back.
So. You’re broken up, but there’s still something there. Maybe you’re still in contact, or perhaps you haven’t spoken lately but you feel like there’s a chance she still has feelings for you. Either way, you still care about her and you want to do what you can to get her back. These three text messages are guaranteed to get the conversation going.
Here goes:
Text #1: The Shared Story Text
This text is based on the premise that you and your girl shared some amazing times together. Whether you travelled the world or took a weekend away somewhere romantic, the scale isn’t important—the feelings you felt are. The idea is to remind your ex of the good times you had together, and bringing up just one of those times will remind her of many others.
So pick a time you know was special to the both of you—the night you saw your favourite band in concert, the time you went scuba diving and shared dinner on the beach, or the whole weekend you spent cuddling on the sofa with your phones turned off—and let her know you’re thinking of it.
A great Shared Story text might go something like this:
“Remember that time in NY when the hotel pool was closed but we snuck in and spent all night swimming under the stars? Man, that feels like a dream now!”
When you remind her of this, you’re causing her to remember every amazing experience, every strong feeling and every sexy encounter you had during your time together. You’re also telling her that you’re thinking about her and your happy times, and the implication is that you want to give her more of them. Romantic, right? And all in the space of two sentences.
It’s important with this text that you don’t go into too much detail or demand any outcome; in fact, you might not get a direct response to the text at all. The key is to think of this text as a seed you are planting; the results might not show straight away, but the feelings you inspire will be growing, even if you can’t see them yet.
Text # 2: The “Saw This and Thought of You” Text
This text works in a similar way to the Shared Story text by employing a shared joke or intimate detail to arouse feelings of nostalgia and renewed hope. The difference is that it uses an immediate experience to show her that she’s in your thoughts.
Rather than telling her that you’re thinking of a time gone by, you’re showing her that you’re reminded of her even in the new experiences you have.
For example, you’re in a thrift store with a friend one Saturday morning when you come across a vintage movie poster for the original Batman movie. You know she loves that movie, so you take a photo and send it to her along with the line: “Saw this and thought of you”. You can add a smiley face or even a heart if you think it’s appropriate.
This text is cute, kind and totally non-aggressive. Again, you’re not asking for anything in return, you’re just letting her know that she’s on your mind and that she still means a lot to you.
You can even use it in a slightly different scenario: Say you’re in the same store with the same friend and you see the same poster, but you and your ex have often debated Batman because you love it and she hates it. You can still take a photo and send it to her with the same statement: “Saw this and thought of you”, but this time end it with a winky face. In this version of events you’ve relayed the same message and gotten the same results, but instead of it being straight-up romantic, you’ve done it in a funny, jokey way.
The only rule to the two variations of this text is that it has to strongly relate to your relationship. You can’t just send a photo of a pizza because you know that everyone likes pizza! The subject has to be something specific to you that will remind her of your relationship and make her feel nostalgic, not confused and weirded out.
Text #3: The Realization Text

[willyjack]

Some days are harder than others. I decided to stop talking to her, it's been 16 days.. it's hard but I'll wait before I pull the trigger. I enjoy these videos. Thanks!

[mansour_]

LOL
I used your third message like 2 hours ago, and she blocked me!!!!
I dont think there was any seeds planted there lol :D

[grantmastermind]

My girlfriend broke up with me almost a month ago and she said at the time she wanted to be friends still. The day after the break up we fought and then she didn't want to talk to me other than about our puppy we have together. we have talked about our puppy for a few days now. she still won't answer texts about her or us tho. I don't know if she has found interest in other guys yet, but i do know she has gotten tinder back and added a lot of guys on Facebook recently. I really want the relationship back and I'm even working on fixing things I know I need to do for myself and the relationship. do you think I still have a chance at getting her back?

[billnietupski]

Hope to get my ex back. Thank you for the tips.

[cayogeshkumar]

We were in a relationship for nearly two years...and then due to family issues...and my insecurities and over possessiveness...made her to leave me...we are of age 18...and both were really serious abt our relationship...but it ended...and she bluffed alot abt me...but..after six months she came back to me...and hugged me hard... claiming that..it was just career and family pressure that made her do so...and now after five months...i in anger and frustration...said her that ..u r a cheat and selfish..u dont spend time with me..as soon as after i told all this..i begged and pleaded sorry..that..it was ut f frustration and i didn't mean that..but it hurt her..she said i came back...to hav a healthy relationship but..again u hv done the same mistake..i dnt want to be with u in a relationship...i will never be...i can just be a frnd and support you...our families wont agree..so its better we be frnds...and as my career demands much ofthe time...i wouldn't be able to spend tme with u...and that would hurt u..and i dont want to do that...so its better we be frnds...all this happened a week ago..shes speaking to me as a frnd.. frequently...and shes like..am missing u...but u need to move on...i really love her..pls.. Suggest me something...i.asked her thst..i would be able to come out of my insecurities if u support me..and when it comes to family...if we settle good...they would surely agree....but shes so badly broken by my words..and is so worried about her mbbs(doctor course)...so shes not even listening to me....very stubborn with her decision that she wants to be frnd...am just.. casually talking to her..nt expressing my feelings...so i want suggestion what should i do now...i and even i feeel her love...but shes like we r frnds..😭😭😭...we have no Future and ...ur insecurities will... override love one day...and all...so what to do now... please reply to this...i really want to save this relationship...we together 😭😭😭😭💗...shes speaking to me as a friend but..in the nights shes getting close to me...by asking me to hug her...all this just on texting...and shes having many mood swings...what shld i do...shes like we shld be frnds..our families wont accept 😥😥

[TomHutchcraft]

Hey my ex is a guy, and Im a guy too, so idk whether its different or not.
I've been in no contact for 3 weeks now, and he broke up with me to be single, and focus on his own happiness, and be with the friends he couldn't really be with when with me. It feels like he was quite final with his decision, and reiterated it over message a few days after. But like I say, its been 3 weeks of no contact, a few days more maybe. I still feel really low and depressed as a lot of things have ended for me as well as this relationship which was long term.
He messaged me a week ago asking how I was feeling but I never replied, just 'read' it a day or two later.
I feel like I'm still hurt at the moment and feel low still as I said, so I don't think Im ready to reach out yet and need more no contact. But, I'm thinking about the last text? Maybe I could send him one like that when I do feel ready to reach out? Because I do feel I did things Im not proud of and we might've stayed together if I didnt start pushing him away, or hurt him a few times (emotionally). So I feel very apologetic, but also miss him loads and feel really hurt and low.
Should I send a letter or something, with some apologising and stuff?
I don't know what is the best way to reach out in a way that is meaningful, and in which I can apologise for things. A message might not be good for that, I don't know. But then I also think, maybe its too long after the break up to send a letter or apologise, or it might harm my chances?
Thank you if you respond!

[ZN]

Emily I tried the 3rd message after no contact period, she replied right now I got nothing to chat about and it's been 5 days nothing she talked about tell me what I do ?? Next ??

[pavithranm]

I had a breakup on may 5, we were in a long distance relationship for the last one-year, she said she is interested in other guy, i love her more than anything, I miss her badly, , can you assist me

[Psychead_Sage]

She is Muslim and became a hardliner after breakup ...and she said 'u brainwashed me' 😂
She know that I love her ...she also loves me but she is afraid of going to hell cuz I'm an atheist. 😂 HELP if u can🙏