How to Shutdown a Narcissist Using STRICT Strategy

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Chapters
00:00 Intro
01:30 S - Setting unshakable, unbreakable and extreme boundaries
04:08 T - Temper your Emotions
05:54 R - Recognise the tactics
07:37 I - Ignore attention seeking behaviour
09:43 C - Challenge their Narrative
11:39 T - Take absolute control of your life

[Susan-dsth]

To everyone going through this abuse, hang in there. I'm in the thick of it right now.

[trumpeterswan]

Every day now, 5 years out from 32 year marriage, my first thought is thank you God for setting me free (from the Narc circus and monkeys).

[WeRbodyNChrist]

Dealing with a narcissist really gives our brains a workout.
🏋🏾‍♀️

[christinav]

Danish after decades of suffering I went no contact forever with those satanic beings that tortured me all my life. I feel I’m finally sitting on a cloudy total peace and happiness at last

[joshuaanzalone]

Do not defend or explain yourself to any narcs. You do not owe anything to narcs and learn to control your emotions

[m.k.q]

1) Set boundaries ( extreme), dig in the line. Dig in my space, no trespassing and no loops at all.
2) Set consequences, (no excess/ block all the access, clear boundaries) Be done! Make them feel the consequences. (Cut throat/ blatened)
3) Temper your emotions ( you can't fight a narcissist, if you are reactive/ your emotions are unmanageable) if you are angry and they will enter you to the battle field.They will intentionally trigger you in a way that you will react, you got to work on healing your wounds. Strategically repond.
4) Recognize the tactics, weaponize against them. The ways they attack you is crucial.
5) Ignore them for attention seeking behavior. Don't justify yourself when they create a pool. Process your.
6) challenge their narrative. Pointing out facts when others are involved otherwise it will go against it.
7) Strict: Take strict control of your life. Terrified of your presence, take control on your body language. Work enough to look confidence and just slay them. Work on your communication style.

Don't explain don't defend, pretend the sane one!

[mac]

These ppl are actually possessed by demons. Wolf in sheep's clothing, angry men. The devil comes to kill steal and destroy. These words describes them perfectly. Pray for strength to overcome them.

[Aldarinn]

Simplified...

Just as plants need water, narcs need drama.
Keep things dry and dull and uneventful and merely be formal, and they will wither away.

[EvaCFricke]

Every single thing goes wrong in narc life, they will blame you. So they're never wrong.

[lynnkliewer]

Always have someone with you they don’t want any witnesses 😊

[sameeraaftab]

This episode has taught me to love and respect myself.

[Carol-chtq]

48 years married to narcissist. Now he has dementia so it’s a double jeopardy for me emotionally. I’m grateful for techniques on how to protect my emotional well being. I’m 75 and the years ahead dealing with my boogeyman is dreadful. Even if there is no physical abuse warn your audience that on going emotional abuse will not only break down your body but also destroy your spirit to go the distance.

[divinelight]

Awareness is power . Ignore, do not get impacted, by their drama .

[snowstormonsat]

I tried setting firm boundaries with my very toxic elderly mother and of course she trampled right over them so I did have to cut her off completely and totally. I cut off entire family. I will not accept her calls. She leaves me pitiful messages using the pity play but I will not cave or fall for it. It's FINISHED!

[Demebeso]

DANISH OMG..YOU HAVE BEEN THE ONLY ONE EVER TO EVER MAKES SENSE OF THIS TOPIC AND GIVE A PERSON CONCRETE STEPS TO FOLLOW TO TAKE CONTROL AND TURN THE TABLES OF POWER TOWARDS SELF...THIS VIDEO EMPOWERS PEOPLE TO FACE TODAY WITH A NEW SENSE OF WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT THEY WILL NO LONGER ACCEPT FROM OTHERS..THERE IS FINALLY A LIGHT AT THE END OF SUCH A DARK JOURNEY.. THERE IS FINALLY A WAY TO BREAK FREE...THANK YOU FOREVER!

[jesusrules]

“It’s not my circus” lol that was awesome. ❤

[Linda-pden]

How many times have I said to my covert narc when he is sulking and pitying himself when I called him for something he did " You are Not the victim. III am the victim.
Light bulb moment..I will NEVER identify my self as a victim again!!! I am a victor and will get my self-respect and strength back! Healing words. Thank you Danish

[Earthoceanfire]

My mother did this with her sister. She cut her off from her life for 10 years. Yes it worked beautifully in that scenario.

[zorabujaroska]

I have been abused by a narcissist for 42 years and I could never be indifferent to his actions, words, bs.... He is so so mean. Finally I left him - I don't want to see him or meet him ever again. I don't have the strength for that because now I only see him as an abuser, manipulator, a person who gaslighted me, tortured, belittled, insulted me. The only solution is to leave the narcissist, nothing else!!!

[flemutter]

Absolutely spot on. I have been able to effectively challenge and handle narc bosses and supervisors at my workplace. 4 years strong.

Documenting everything by email paper trail has been very powerful.

As showing you have no fear causes narcissistic mortification (it reflects to them that they are weak and powerless)

My faith in Christ has the highest authority helped with that tremendously.