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[pinkrainbow]

Nikki when you're in your 40s, '50s and '60s you're going to realize how young you really were (are right now).. so enjoy it while you're here in the '30s. Don't ever wish it away or be depressed about this current youngest age you'll ever be (which you are currently now)!! Looking back when you're in your '50s you're going to realize how young and blessed you were so enjoy it while you're here right now. ❤️😘

[establishedspaces_kristinaash]

I'll be 38 this month 🫣 Aging is strange, but I feel like I know myself better than I did at 30 💛

[taylorlane]

I love that you’re not dying your hair blonde anymore. The dark hair looks so good. Also I’m creeping up to my thirties and would love to know how u deal with everyone getting married having kids around you. I don’t care but then I do care haha

[izzies]

Aging is a blessing!!! You’re getting to live more life. Not everybody makes it to 33, or 43, or 63, etc. View it as the blessing that it is :)

[TheVanillebluete]

I am 33 right now and would not want to go back to being in my 20s. I feel so much better mentally or with my body. Even my workouts feel better. I even think my entire body functions better than it did prior to my 30s. I am way more in tune with what my body needs. What I do miss is the time for decisions. Currently decisions like do I want kids feel way more urgent. If this was not a thing 30s would be a bliss.

Also age definitely does not limit your options. (Maybe except for kids). My mom built her entire business in her 40s. My hubbys mom rebuilt her entire life in retirement at 60. The thing however I would say 30s taught me is that we do not actually have to keep thinking we have to achieve anything. We are not in a permanent "we must do mentality" we are supposed to enjoy life. That is it. Maybe be a decent person in addition.

[cheyanna]

I've got good news, Nikki: this is just what your early to mid 30s does with your brain. By the time you hit 40, your priorities and self confidence shift so much. People talk too much about your 20s, when the reality is your 30s are such a wild time of growth and self discovery. Keep up with your physical and mental health and you can't go wrong ♥

[KKmovesToMars]

1) it’s been a while since I’ve watched your video. Your hair is LUXURIOUS! Best it’s ever been!
2) I didn’t know a unicorn like you exists - you go back to your saved reels to actually look at smth you saved. Wow.

[reddirtprincess]

As I'm heading out of my 30s, I have to say that it was the best decade so far. You become more significant to the people who really count the most....starting with yourself.

[crysllee]

I've been watching you since 2015 and you've inspired me in so many ways since then<3 I think what you're feeling is completely human and natural and what everyone has, will, or is also going through. So hang in there, you are not alone. Your worth is never determined by something as surface level as the number of years you've graced the planet, no matter how much it may feel that way at times.

[Cosmicladybug]

I'll be 39 in December I still feel 18 though. Sometimes I act 12 and sometimes I act 89, just depends on my mood 😂 love your vlogs ❤

[rubyredchev]

_H town gal on YouTube! Missed you darlin'. Dealing with getting older for anyone can be tough. My 30s to mid 50s were the absolute best for me personally. Honestly after 50, I stopped counting, and realized celebrating my life experiences and memories will always keep my mindset in my mid 20s._

[TheeBlackTaco]

By far still my favorite YouTuber. I hope you never stop making these videos

[xanderdaley]

That blush looks so good on you! I can’t put my finger on it but this video was so good, you seem happier and more comfortable maybe? Idk, love you!

[virgosun]

I'll be 32 tomorrow! Such a bizarre trip, sad, but also exciting! As long as all your self worth isn't tied up in appearance alone.. aging has many great things about it! We're lucky to be alive, and young and still thriving! When we're 80 we're going to REALLY feel old then 😝

[kharazif]

I turned 35 this year and I've been following you since you started YT. The aging anxiety is real lol.
The makeup looks great on you Nikki! That coral blush actually suited your color tones really well, and I'm loving your long and darker hair. Love your vlogs as always :)

[thisbrendalee]

Girl, you have so much going for you at your age!!! A lot of people consider 33 as SUPER YOUNG. You're beautiful, have your businesses, get to do what you love, you're smart, funny, I would LIVE IT UP! Your experience, the lessons you've learnt, the many times you've fallen in love and travelled, you're aging like FINE WINE. I always like to think aging as you getting wiser, hotter and getting more intuitive and aligned with your soul. I would write down all the things that bring your life meaning, all the things you're curious about and want to try and go out and do them. A lot of people age quicker (by soul not age), because they lose track of the many opportunities there is right in front of them or missing their why/purpose. When you have excitement and enthusiasm, every birthday feels like, wowww, I went out there and LIVED and I am so grateful for the memories and person I have become. I always say, your 30's is the new 20's. It's the era where you are the most grounded, know yourself well, built yourself up and this is where the even greater sh*t starts. We love you Nikki! Been following you for years!!

[kweeks]

Don't fight it. Hopefully you will embrace the imperfections that make us who we are. Those stress lines mean we fought our battles and we won. A wrinkle here, a grey hair there, they show the world that we have lived, seen, and experienced so much in life.

[acthompson]

I turned 34 this year, have been following since 2015. I feel you on the age anxiety, there is no reason for it but it’s so stressful!

Thank you for the real content as always, it was fun seeing you try the recipes, I have loved cooking new stuff lately. Been doing a lot of hobbies to boost my self esteem

[PaigeNorthWest]

Love you love you love you ❤ I turned 30 this year and have been feelinnn it but honestly I am so excited at the same time. If you don’t have kids 30s are just your 20s but with money 🤣

[victoriabrii]

I haven't watched your videos in a minute, but I love that you're still the same loveable person as always. 💕
I've sort of had the same thoughts about not being in my 20's anymore and leaving my old lifestyle behind.. and being single.. and just losing a kitty that I've loved so much. It's so nice that I can relate to you. 💕😺