If he wants a RELATIONSHIP, he'll do these 3 things!

[rckadlt]

3 things he will do if he wants a relationship
1. He'll have some skin in the game. This really means that there is something on the line for him. He's kind of nervous to lose it. He makes effort to show up and meet your friends and your family.
2. Can he attune or calibrate to where you are? The right guy for you is unlikely to continue pressing for sex. You must discern if this relationship is based on sex and that's it. Does he lose interest?
* Wind took over *
3. He will continue to show up consistently. Caveat: six to nine months plus, him showing up in action in real time-not only or mostly texts!-dates happening, relationship progressing. Pay attention to what is happening and ask the question "Do I want the next date?" Use all seasons to get to know him. Watch, enjoy a bit, and wait. The best love story isn't a story.

[MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes to calibration. It is so important for him to attune and corregulate with your nervous system.

[cynthiaboothe]

Fours seasons...it is helpful to know what happens in the depth of winter. I like that.

[avgonyma]

There's a lot of Jack coming trough in this particular video! 😁

[AtomicSonicHalos]

The details help! ... esp for those of uswho've always hoped, try to learn, build ourselves out of shattered pieces, and have NO PRECIDENT to personally recognize even ghe conitions for someone who CAN work with you on having a loving & mutual relationship... instead of ... a branchless tree.

[loronna]

Oh Jack, this is simply a beautiful and descriptive video. Love how enlightening and educational you are. I’ll be watching this one again to pick up all of your insights.

[LarisaMarr]

The wind makes it impossible - but very good content. Thank you

[georgianaiacob]

Great video, but I feel like everything is thrown off the window by covid. At least here in Europe, most public places are closing. Unless you have a date at the supermarket, there are less and less options to date in person...

[wildwoman]

Thanks, Jack, I really love and appreciate the way you describe things with words and metaphors, like seasons, intellectual, spiritual, and emotional, in addition to sexual connection, etc. I have been communicating with someone just this week, who has to move so fast that I spent a sleepless night struggling to find the right words to tell him that there were many missed steps yet. Your metaphors are really useful to paint a quick picture to communicate with him. Thank you, as usual for your perspicacity.

[Thegardenersclog]

Too funny!! Sounded like a bomb went off, I know that’s not funny but it’s funny! Lol

[joyceowobu]

I like your explanation so much, easy to understand, I wish I knew you before now.

[carolherbert]

Brilliant, watching you laugh dealing w/ wind lol...and as always really good insights. Best Regards.

[mpen]

Great video, @JackButler!! Thank you 🙏!!

[marilynclark]

You're Videos are so down to earth lovely!!! You are a Joy to watch and listen to ! It's like spending time with a good friend.Take us to a cafe.... Let's get coffee..or tea....I love tea....don't you? lol

[KatbeautyG]

Wish I was there with u. How beautiful! Thank you so much for you videos have helped me so much. At 50 we still learn. We learn til we pass on. 🤗☺
Lovely View!

[RK-jzxt]

It feels like a very helpful lens to discern whatever to look at... it is comforting to hear of a parameter that allows everyone involved, their objective reality... plus a useful orientation....

I was wondering if you had more videos on the components of relationship that you referred to at 3.29... I've searched your playlist and you've addressed emotional availability many times... I was wondering if you had a specific one that you'd recommend for the components of relationship...
Also, I can't seem to find the video where you've explained what you call... 'loveship' and 'partnership '...

I'd really like for you to direct me to those videos... see what you can do about it for me...

Also.... I thought it was an interesting idea to have shown the river and its surrounding..
The wind !! 🙈... oh god... I wish I hadn't heard that... I teach middle school social Science... and the wind has reminded me of my lesson plan on temperate climate that's due.. 🤦‍♀️...

🙈 so much for learning and teaching 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[mhuyhen]

the strong wind probably agreeing to what you said .. lol

[nicomille]

You talk about consistent, have you heard of lightswitching?

[divinedigitalpro]

My guy said he was fine with removing sex out of the equation. We agreed to be monogamous...but he said he feels uncomfortable with a long term relationship and wants to take it slow. So, im like then we don't need to have sex then. I do that in a committed relationship. He's been in three marriages and completely damaged. Oh gosh!🤦‍♀️