He's Not Ready for a Relationship? Say THIS to Him...

This video covers what to say when he says he's not ready for a relationship and how to make him commit.

He's not ready for a relationship? He won't commit? He's "not ready" for a relationship?

Most dating advice, love advice tips for women and discussion about relationships on YouTube tends to focus on what men want, tips to make him like you and make him love you so you can get the guy.

It gives the impression that if you have a big enough "bag of tricks" you can just get him to commit, regardless of who he is or his personal attitude.

That's not calling any of it out as bad advice on how to get the guy, but it's important not to gloss over one of the most important rules to recognize:

If he says he doesn't want a relationship, BELIEVE HIM!

This video will tell you what to do if he says he's not ready for a relationship or can't be in a relationship right now, so that you maximize your chances of getting into the relationship you want with him or avoiding a trap that will lead nowhere and waste your time.

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[SabrinaBendory]

Hope you liked the video! If you have any questions, comments or anything you want to share, let me know here! 😘

[falcons]

I’ve been dating a guy for a few weeks, spending a few times a week and all of the weekends together, without any physical intimacy (but a lot of chemistry). And he texts me everyday. Last weekend, it escalated to physical. in the morning he brought up “the talk” despite me not wanting to speak about it yet. After hemming and hawing and getting me to guess what he’s trying to say or want (he just seemed to be beating around the bush) - I flat out asked him “do you want to date me?” And he said a firm NO. Then goes on to say he wants minimal investment from both our parts. I didn’t argue, I didn’t yell, I didn’t react - without missing a beat I told him “okay.” At that moment, I detached. And he felt it. He still spent the rest of the day with me, I was still polite with him, kept a calm and cool demeanour, he was looking for signs of cracks perhaps (coz he kept staring at me silently for long minutes when he thought I was not looking. Towards the evening he even said “why are you being so mysterious, you’re not even touching me. You’re making me intrigued”. I pretended not to hear that.
when I dropped him home at the end of the night, I told him “thank you for bringing the topic up and for giving me that respect to let me know, I really appreciate that. But I don’t think we should hangout outside of (meet-ups with mutual friends) . No texting etc. “ he plastered a smile on his face and said an almost too cheerful “good!”, we hugged and I sped off into the night without waiting.
I’m giving him what he wants. He wanted minimal investment-my time is an investment, my attention is an investment, my affection is an investment. He’s getting none of that.
It’s 3 days in and he’s started texting. I’m not giving in. Until he breaks down my door with flowers and crying begging me to be in a rship with him.

[BaconBabe]

The solution is easy, but hard to do. If he/she doesn’t want or can’t commit. Just leave. That person won’t be good for you anyway. It hurts, it sucks but someone who really does want you, will do ANYTHING to be with you. Be a priority, not the option!

[tnurlst]

It’s been 5 months and we’ve been exclusive but he thinks it’s too soon for a relationship so I’m walking away. He can figure it out… or not. “If he wanted to, he would” ❤

[shellyharris]

You will never have to prove yourself to a man who is the right man for you

[jenniferthecole]

I was the girl that cried when a guy said he wasn't the one for me. I'm much stronger now and I "see the light" of how to handle that situation and that I'll be better off

[kilingjoy]

The best thing to do turn your back and never look back 💪
SELF LOVE IS THE BEST KEY ✨❤️

[Ramen]

I asked him straight up if he wanted to be in a relationship and the dude was like no so I told him I couldn’t do the casual thing anymore. Two months later I'm happy and in a committed relationship with my current amazing boyfriend. Life works out ❤️ ty for this video it made me happy I did the right thing

[norkhairy.hashim]

Trust that, because man takes his inner brave to speak out his feeling.

[AshleyNord]

I loved this! Such valid points. I'm planning on making a video on this exact topic SOON! One thing I had to learn the hard way was: If I man tells you he's not ready to commit, believe him the FIRST time.

[dennisepizana]

I just went through this last month. He said he wasn't ready to commit because he needed to find himself and work on becoming the best version of himself. He did say that maybe later on we could work out. We dated for 8 months. This was a good video to see after going through this breakup. I have been working on becoming the best version of myself.

[cubanadiense]

Currently walking away and your videos shed the light on me to do what's right for myself. Blessings to you.

[mirabellelinz]

well my story: He said that he felt in love with me and really likes me. But his actions different signs. He called me late and asked to meet since we are neighbours. I said that we can make an appoitment if he really wants to see me. Everytime we met he tried to hook up. I said that the man by my side respects my boundaries etc. So now I blocked him because talking to him leads nowhere. Really hope to meet a decent man in future.

[lovetrustandpixiedust]

Very practical and empowering advice and tips. Thank you, Sabrina, for always reminding us of our worth!

[anniema]

Thank you so much for this very very empowering vid. Same time to be vunerable and strong! Love it. Made some notes. Love and continue this good work! Warm greetz from Amsterdam

[ebtihalimarhoon]

Thanks a lot Sabrina, this is really helpful.

[elenamalina]

God bless you, Sabrina! I can not thank you enough for this video!

[lauralemontree]

Yess ☺️ i just did this. It was/ is hard, but im also so proud of myself, it just shows me how much i’ve grown in selflove & self prioritisation. And this was a guy i thought i could fall in love with after years of not falling in love 🤷‍♀️ but yes.. i will no longer accept crumbs, im ready for the whole banquet, & some ☺️☺️ im glad i listened to the above as its what i said, so acts as a confirmation as im here a lil weepy with covid 🥴♥️

[isabellacarrozza]

thank you this made me feel so much better

[izzahsyafiqah]

This happened to me 7 days ago, and i just watched this vid today. Surprised me lot because everything you mentioned in this vid, is exactly what i told him. And i feel so much better now. Thank you so muh for this video! This means a lot to me as it helps me to motivate myself to start loving myself more. ❤