The Narcissist Is Never Happy | Nothing I Do Is Good Enough For The Narcissist | Its Not Your Fault

Its not your fault that nothing you do is good enough for the narcissist. The narcissist is never happy and this isn’t about you, it is about them. People with narcissistic personality disorder, or narcissism for short, rapidly change moods and one day they seem to like you and the next they make you feel like you are the worst person in the world. Youre not the problem. Nothing makes the narcissist happy, including you. The narcissist is always mad because they live in the moment. Their mood changes based on what is happening around them in that moment because they lack object constancy. The narcissist can’t hold positive and negative thoughts of someone in their mind at the same time so it seems like the narcissist is always mad. Can you make a narcissist happy? Yes and no. The narcissist is happy when you are doing what they expect you to do – which is follow all of their demands. But can a narcissist ever be TRULY happy? No. The ability to experience true happiness requires the narcissist to understand how emotions come from connecting with others and the ability to experience empathy. Narcissists lack empathy. Can a narcissist change? Not really. Change requires them to understand how other their actions affect people, and for them to change they have to want to be different. Also, to change, the narcissist has to admit they are at fault for something and they will never do this because they want to protect against narcissistic injury. Never I do is good enough for the narcissist. When I am not good enough, the narcissist gives silent treatment in the relationship as a way for the narcissist to use another one of their narcissistic punishment tactics. Can a narcissist ever be happy? No. Nothing I do is good enough for the narcissist and it likely never will be. Its not your fault though and don’t make it be.

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[dclarke]

I agree! I don't think the narcissist can ever be happy. However, more importantly, I know I could never be happy with an abusive narcissist . 🏃🏾‍♀️💨

[petercofrancesco]

The Narcissist is also Never Content, Always looking To Bring Anyone Down With Their " Box of Tricks " I Now laugh at The Narcissists and Doubt anything They say and Do ! My "Hearing" is Not The Greatest, l Ask the Narcissist To Repeat Them self mostly it Aggravates THEM ALWAYS !

[garycordle]

If someone can't make you a priority in their life, why should you make them a priority in yours 👍 up survivors and thrivers 🙏 misery love's company, don't be their company.

[CarterLee-jvky]

I have lived with a narcissists for twenty years. It has cost me everything, financially, emotianlly, and all of my lifes dreams. The most recent one is her hitting me with a cane breaking two of my back ribs... I'm not going to try and say I didn't say stuff that pissed her off, but C'mon. I am like my dad. NEVER hit a woman. But she's killing me, and I still love her.. I need help.

[isiahwashington]

I have found that the narcissist would rather make you miserable than be happy themselves. Your misery gives them whatever joy that might be able to actually feel.

[paulwilliams]

They want 'admiration' but seem to have little idea about how to go about deserving it, in normal terms. I imagine they must exchange notes with fellow narcissists to boast about what each of them are doing to take their respective victims down. (similar to a covern?) 'Gossip merchants' too...in my experience.

[lisabyl]

You have a good way of explaining things so it's easy to understand. Thank you. That's a sad way to live for the Narcissist to be constantly in search of supply.

[nicholecornes]

Emily you ROCK! We wouldnt know to move the heck on if it wasn't for you!!❤

[Jobes.music]

I think the narcissist has happy moments. which may be good enough for them. Anything outside of that for them is boring and uncomfortable.

[MargaretCrowder-sltc]

Going through a discard right. New supply involved in hurtful triangulation. Your videos are helping a lot. Thank you.

[jmarietv]

i agree completely...my only question would be do they know they are miserable cuz my narc would always project onto me that i was the miserable one the unhappy one when things didnt go his way

[STAR-LIGHT.]

The more victims the more worse they get. Their energy goes lower and lower and they got karma to deal with.

[Lisa-tnl]

They ought to find supply in the local nuthouse.

[collie]

They should mutate to delta variant, so they won’t kill their hosts.

[marziehroghanchi]

Thanks the God 🙏 they are never happy my husband was narssitic l left him and I am very happy about that they can never be happy 😂😂😂😂30 years l was in the hell just for my kids 😢😢 nobody can feel how much 😭😭 is painful.he is always sad😂😂😂 thanks 🙏🙏 the God but I am always happy 😊😊😊 just l trust in God ❤️🙏

[MsGenXodus]

I wonder if the popularity of the topic of narcissism today has to do with how narcissists are having a mental breakdown due to being cut off from supply during to social distancing? I mean, if you think about it, the most narcissistic people tend to be the ones who ignored the stay at home orders and the masking mandates. I'm 89% sure that the US is dealing with a full-blown, narcissistic tantrum on the national level.

I'm continuing to avoid people who show symptoms of NPD. I refuse to take on their emotional baggage. I'm not their psychiatrist. They are welcome to be as narcissistic as they like, but I'm also welcome to not spend time with those people.

[truthreigns]

My wife the actual narcissist, tells me that I am narcissist, she has to rule everything.