How to Emotionally Detach from Someone - Carl Jung

How to Emotionally Detach from Someone - Carl Jung

[rashadhouston]

If I don’t reach out to people I won’t hear from them. I’ve learned over time to be comfortable alone. I know people are lost in their own lives, rarely thinking about me. I’ve built my own World, fighting my illness on my terms and loving from a distance. When your brain is attacking you you’re forced to confront it and learn new ways to find peace.

[dran]

I choose my peace over fear. "The love of your life is not a person, It never was.The love of your life is your path. The evolution, the consciousness. The love of your life is you.".

[DarleneSexton-bmdf]

2 years of therapy and i got nothing. 2mins in this video and I’ve learned everything

[Sarahtransforms]

I abandoned myself and sacrificed my peace for someone who didn't even see me. It wasn't love, it was the fear of being alone. I've been abandoned my entire life, by family, friends, lovers, and this whole time I didn't see I was abandoning myself as well. This is profound and I am awakened to my former actions. I won't ever leave myself again.

[MindUncovered]

to anyone reading this, you're strong, you're beautiful and the world out there is waiting to see you as your true self. There will be many people love you for who you really are. You don't need to be anything else to survive this world, just yourself.

[PsycheEssence]

Letting go isn't about forgetting or erasing someone; it's about remembering who you are without the weight of what no longer serves your soul. Jung’s insights make this journey more compassionate and conscious

[Kazzildo]

I chose peace over fear. I'll stop obsessing an illusion and chasing after unreciprocated connections.

[luisacordero]

The love of our life is us, when we stop betraying ourselves.

[dlowonthabeat]

I was in a bad car wreck when I was 13 with my mom and her boyfriend. They were drinking. I woke up from a coma and her boyfriend was dead, and she left town to avoid being arrested and pursued by cps. Now I have co dependency issues and I now realize why I become so heart broken and obsessed everytime on of my relationships end. It’s the wounded inner child. It makes me anxious and insecure, it pushes people away and I seem clingy. I don’t love out of a desire to love. I love out of fear of being abandoned. This video helped me understand things i probably already knew and was embarrassed to accept. I’m going to try and figure out how to love myself and help that 13 yr old boy who woke up with no one around.

[edwardclarkson-phkl]

Thank you for this video. though it brings up painful memories. At first i was with an abusive and narc wife for 10 years of my life, then i left when i couldn't bear it any longer, bear in mind i only stayed that long because of our kids. After two years of being single, i met the love of my life, and we had a fantastic first 5 months, then my PTSD kicked in and I did a lot of things i am not proud of because i wasn't properly healed, and she left me. I think of her everyday I realize now and i feel so empty and lonely inside. I love her so much.

[StarStorm]

The greatest love story is the one that is with you, not with someone else. Deep stuff. I choose my peace over fear.

[canwenot]

“We live with open wounds we try to close with someone else’s skin” that’s powerful

[onesunnyday]

OMG. I have searched Jungian philosophy for years now while suffocating in an empty, worn-out marriage. Thirty five yrs of trying to fix, force, find something to hold onto.
2 weeks ago this weekend, the marriage ended. I turned 62 2 weeks later.
Today, I stumbled on this video as I wanted to listen to something to fill the deafening silence of an empty house.
Every. Single. Word of this video was my life from childhood.
The freedom I feel has filled this house louder than a 63 piece Orchestra.
I'M FREE!! ❤🎉🥳
THANK YOU. THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!! 😊

[Eternity]

"this is not love, this is fear of being alone"

This makes sense cause I've been feeling alone for whole my life.
I am ready to heal.

[SmoothDownCrook]

This is what I need for so damn long. For so many years I’ve been subconsciously ignoring these facts. I chose peace over fear!

[peipeixi]

It’s easy to detach from people if you think about your future goals. If they don’t align with your goals then bye. I ended a 6-year friendship because they were not valuing the connection. It was quite easy to detach because of how they treated me.

[AllAboutIvory]

Sitting in the parking lot crying my eyes out before work because this is all hitting me but setting me free…. I’ve been trapped for so long. I hate that my heart wanted to fill gaps of need for people and not myself. It hurts to tear away from that version of me because I thought i was doing good in the world. All i was doing was putting myself in cycles of familiarity with pain. Sheeeesh…. I choose to tear and remain free now. No matter how hard this hurts

[Selena-ir]

Found this book randomly and it honestly helped me so much with no contact. If you're struggling like I was, I seriously recommend The Closure Plan by Ella Scott.

[shenaztreasury..]

Nobody is as valuable as my peace !!!! True love doesn’t hurt. Attachments hurt. Crossing the bridge to myself ❤ I choose my peace over fear!

[Stoic_Timeless]

Love isn't about holding on. It's about growing together, not chaining each other down.