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[sandramitchell]

You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, and know when to RUN...🏃‍♀️

[Nidhi_Maheshwari]

I heard that second excuse from my ex-roomate & friend. "Everyone leaves me, something's wrong with me." She was playing the victim.
Fishing for my mercy and holding up her image in front of her boyfriend.
I fell for that. In return I consoled her. She stopped talking and ignored me. Days later I apologised.😶

Everything became hunky-dory the minute I said sorry and took responsibility.

A month later, she shared details about me to her classmate who is a vulnerable narc who didn't respect women, his friends, had rage episodes. 🧐
Helped him ask me out (when I distinctly mentioned I do not want to date rn) and hide all the critical info. from me even after I enquired several times.😵

I dated him for 5 months. With time things became worse. I became an object of contestation between both the girl I resided with and the person I dated. Increasingly felt that my opinion about the situation I am in doesn't matter as much as their perceived image to others.😟

Thnx to a senior whom I confided in and asked how does healthy relationship look like. For a few days, I observed how I felt bound, restricted not able to express my opinions, things I wished to do. Glimpses of impatience, not treating people and animals right. Critical of what women do, wear, eat.😵 Witholding affection, different rules applied on both of us.

I ended things.
3 years as hostel roomates with her. 5 months of dating with him. 5 months of rumination. 4 months of healing through Dr Ramani and skits like yours.

Lesson: Repeated forgiveness to wrong actions and still holding onto that frienship, set me up and put me in toxic/narc relationship. Affected me and robbed me of study time, energy, several healthy mutual friends.

10 month no contact with both of them. Turned resilient, stronger than before.

Thnx for reading it this far.
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I was at a loss when my ex threatened to leave me and questioned it multiple times... he was cheating on me and hiding money from me but I had no idea. Once I discovered it all I was happy to let him leave.

[rexbennett]

I heard all these things. But not typically at those moments. I heard them all repeatedly at post coital times. It was a large part of the grooming faze. So I never even threatened to leave in the first place. Instead, I let things build to the point that I behaved poorly. I didn't want to be like she had presented everyone else in her life. Thus giving her the ammunition to discard and punish me repeatedly. The last separation was when I had had enough. I told her that I was not coming back until she got professional help. My mistake was not getting help myself. By that time I was soo messed up that I could not think straight. The next bout ended in me filing for divorce. Finally for a couple of months or so. No contact. Things are still up and down. Slowly but surely the peaks and valleys are equalizing. Thanks to God for leading me to channels and communities like this one. I am thankful for this. God bless.

[Independentlyhealthy-nu]

I feel like arguing is so much easier (the norm) to argue to h as n to wonder why as to if he got help earlier, we could he have? The silence and loneliness of each day and night without outside contact is beyond my normal. Not sure how long I can hold out like this. The help in society is money based, fear based, you live to far away for help. Been hung up on for crying. Triggered ptsd in court by the judge. I was almost detained, very close. All because the woman is crazy and the no man can't possibly