Therapist Reacts RAW to The Bachelor

Therapist Reacts RAW to The Bachelor //

Clayton tells Susie that he loves her and then it gets complicated. OK, this one gets funny. Watch this video as therapist Jonathan Decker reacts RAW to The Bachelor.

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[theoryquery]

I will admit, I struggle to not laugh of the dichotomy of Johnathon giving out gentle, rational, caring advice one minute, then cackling crazily like the Wicked Witch Of The West then next.

[kaylawiseman]

SPOILER ALERT: They still end up together and it feels like a very public set up for a very toxic and possibly verbally abusive relationship. The whole "nothing's my fault, I'm only acting like this because of what YOU did" is what grossed me out the most.

[kelliehorn]

Him: I don't even know what you're feelings are, but I want you in the worst way.
Her: Um. Great. Just so you know, I have standards. I need to tell you what they are before we say I do.
Him: What? You have feelings and expectations, too? Ones that don't bow to mine? Now?
Her: Oh no, I'm so sorry!
Him: I didn't betray you by sleeping around - you betrayed me by not telling me to keep it in my pants. That's on you.
Her:
Him: I'm so mad. I was vulnerable enough to tell you I love you and a couple other girls, and you have the nerve to not be totally on board.
Her:
Him: I don't have to tell you from the get-go that I plan on sleeping around. You have to tell me from the get-go that you don't like that. Unless you say what your expectations are up-front, you don't get to have them.
Her: I'm going to try to say my last piece.
Him: Nope. I get the last word. Bye, Felicia. I mean Susan. Felicia was the other girl.

[lunacoventina]

"You are going to bring god into this? HAHAHAHA!" I cannot handle Johnathan's reactions! That was hilarious! His reactions are more entertaining than the bachelor will ever

[TheGoofy]

What?! He "loved" her for 3 WHOLE Minutes and then she "ruined it". 🤔 Susie you dodged a dumpster 🔥 trainwreck waiting to happen.

[energymaven]

Not just about sex, she's skeptical of his professing love after he said the same to 2 other women before sleeping with them. Also, not every lead sleeps with all the contestants. Also, she could easily go into the show thinking it could work and then realize she couldn't accept him sleeping with others - and that's ok.

[wrenhindley]

Speaking as someone open to polyamory in society and with polyamorous friends:
NO! NO, NO, NO! NO! NO!
By which I mean:
She expressed a boundary. She clearly expressed that she is NOT poly, she does not believe she can be poly, she needs a monogamous partner. Once that has been expressed, unless she is given time and comes around on her own as she grows in that direction - ON HER OWN, NOT FOR HIM - then engaging in a "polyamorous" relationship is not okay, and it isn't healthy polyamory. It's abusive, and it may even devolve to just plain cheating. Polyamorous can work. I have seen loving, wonderful poly relationships work very well. But poly is only healthy if everyone's boundaries and needs are met going in, and are discussed as they evolve - exactly the same as is true in monogamy.

[CJ-hhgx]

"Network TV Prostitution"... That's it. That is the perfect description of this show. THANK YOU

[sylviaowega]

I absolutely hate it when guys justify their unethical accidents by saying, “Well you should have said something if it bothers you about me sleeping with someone ….” He is attempting to not only rationalize his deceptions and hedonistic actions, but also blame the girl!

[Kimberly-lpnh]

Bachelor: "I want someone who will stick with me for who I am and fight for me for who I am. And I though you were that person and you're obviously not that person."

Every viewer at home yelling at the screen: " You thought the two other girls you slept with were that person too!"

[sylviaowega]

She should NEVER apologize for telling the truth! My brain hurts

[Aever]

Imagine being on television and showing the whole world this is the best you can do when it comes to adult conversations ...

[katiemcbainnn]

LITERALLY MY MOM WATCHED THIS AND I WATCHED IT WITH HER OUT OF CURIOSITY AND I WAS SOOO FLOORED AT HOW HE SPOKE TO THIS POOR WOMANNN

[dannahfam]

That show is a joke 🤦‍♀️
Bachelor: I'm in love with you.
Woman: Did you sleep with another woman?
Bachelor 2 mins later: I used to love you. I'll walk you out.

[Coffee_Is_Magic]

"I don't even know who I'm looking at anymore" 🤣

[shamstam]

watching your reactions to these shows is absolute gold

[sophieamandaleitontoomey]

"This is how he'd be in a relationship moving forward."

This was my exact reaction when I saw this for the first time. I get that fights bring out the worst in people, but in fights, people can show you how bad they could be to you. Not all the time, but it speaks a lot when they act like Clayton.

I get she messed up, but she didn't deserve to have the blame put on her.

[laci]

Compassion and respect for Susie. For sure. I get screwing around early on. But, literally loving her “the most” and sleeping with the other two…just one after the other right before he gets to her…is douchebag material. He thought he could get away with it because he is The Bachelor, for sure. Still gotta answer for it afterwards. Might as well deal with it before.

[LamanKnight]

At 7:18, when the reaction cam disappeared, I started to panic. I was going, "...Jonathan...?! Hey, Jonathan?! Where did you go...? Don't leave me...! Don't leave me here alone with these people...! Where are you? Help me! Please, come And then you did come back. Whew. Thank you for rescuing me from that.

[gordonsgrl]

This was great. You need to react to the follow up rose ceremony and last day to round out this dumpster fire. It gets worse!