The Reality Of Dating a Korean guy

[Name.lessss]

She just discribed all the kdrama male leads that we find cute

[chailavender]

She is Sri Lankan. Not mixed race. She immigrated to Korea from Sri Lanka with her family when she was young. She grew up in Korea.

[christisam]

I feel like everything she said about dating in Korea is exactly what we also see happening between couples in kdramas

[mengleang]

Understandable why people said korean was a country to visit, not to live in.

[ArielBustilloLeón]

i only watch these vids bc this man's style

[illonlydateanimeguys]

I'm Asian. Since I read Wattpad stories and manhwa, I'm the type who likes possessive boyfriend. But my, one of my friend in college got herself a boyfriend and the boy is so possessive. She Tells me what he does. There was one time when he created a massacre in the canteen just bcz my friend was in trouble, and she could have fixed it by herself but he overreacted. When my friend doesn't pick up calls, he starts calling me non stop cz she and I spend most of the time together in clg. She also mentioned that there was one time she got so angry and told him if he does things like this she'd break up with him. He cried a lot said he'd commit suicide then his mother called her requesting her to calm him down. It's been one year since they started dating but she has so many stories to tell me that it feels like they've been dating for 10 years. My dream of having a possessive bf flew away.

[arashi]

I relate to what this lady is saying, and this type of dating that seems to be common in Korea is certainly NOT for everyone. Of course not ALL Koreans are like this so I guess it shows you gotta know the person before dating.

Personally, I’m not the type that wants to be texting all day or share each detail of the day. It would stress me out if someone is texting or calling me all day like someone just died or something bad happened. Just text important things and that’s it.

I care everyone is eating and clothed fitting to the weather and occasion…however, it is also important for each individuals in the relationship to be a full person on his or her own and have life outside of relationship because everyone definitely needs more than just one person in their life…like a close friends or a trusted coworker etc. I guess what I’m saying is that I could care less knowing everything that my partner thinks, wears, eats and we do not need do absolutely everything together but still be interested and love someone dearly.

[phoenixkwon]

International women just a FYI from a Korean woman, MANY and I do mean MANY Korean men are stage 5 clingers. They want you to drop what you are doing NO MATTER HOW IMPORTANT it is to text them every hour or half hour. I dated a man that would take off work early if I didn't text him back quickly enough and come to my restaurant, sit and watch me to make sure I wasn't being flirted with by the men who were eating there. It was so irritating.

[bibiminjeju-do]

Damn we Asians need feel loved 24/7
While in europe - the less the interaction the longer relationship the couple has😅

[Placebo]

Seeing two good looking non Koreans speak korea. Wow, I truly have seen it all now.

[naomioktarinaheru]

Even i'm also Asian, but people who demand for their text to be replied every hour is something not good i think. I mean, even with my parents or family, i'm not that really intense in texting/calling.

[marlllicious]

Dude, this guy is extremely gorgeous!
And this girl too, omg both are gorgeous!!

[EvangelineMelody]

She's right. I live in america and am not Korean but I briefly went out with a Korean guy and he expected us yo text every single day and see each other every single day. That was too much for me.

[mariafamilia]

A guy texting me all day long..No way! Bye 👋

[hoome]

I think it’s a cultural things, not insecurity. I remember when I first started dating my Japanese husband, he would call me every hour to give me an update on where n what he’s doing + with who when he was out with his friends. My usual Chinese American response was “why u calling me so much? Have fun, just text me when u get home safely. Bye”. 😂

[Carolina-cmnu]

I dated a Korean guy who had been living in the states for 9 years and he was still like this to an extent: he moved super fast toward a relationship in our dating and would ask me to call him late at night and things and I just couldn’t handle it I was not used to that much demands and interaction with someone I’d only went out with two times

[matildaaura]

Girl your Korean is on point even though I don't understand.

[aquavit]

Who knew Korean guys also lived in mojo dojo casa houses?

[kwonhaeun]

Omggg i know her😂 she is srilankan girl . Unnie love you

[Kranasa]

My Ex was Korean But He wasn't like what she describe.he was Mature, understanding and loving Caring.i was just enjoying his love.i didn't know i have to give back love..i realise i didn't do my best or didn't do a good job to keep such a great man After break up.the Only good thing i gained from our break up is i Now know what true love is and i Now can tell if a man truly love me or not..