The Reality Of Dating Good Men

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[lifesIronyboard]

My wife died after 31 years together. You don't miss the grand gestures or events or exciting times, you miss the everyday trivial moments that make up almost the entire relationship.

[darliqo]

A stable relationship is not boring, it’s healthy. Synfla’s book taught me how to appreciate the ‘boring’ moments and build something real. Secret #5 on losing baggage and keeping him interested was my wake-up call. It's helped me approach this topic much easier, ladies, go for it! ❤

[samsl]

My issue is that sometimes women act like they are doing good men a favor by giving them a chance. Like you can tell Courtney actually likes her husband and isn’t just settling for him.

[PRdude]

I'd rather be a decent guy than cause chaos for a woman. The right women will actually get it and appreciate it.

[devilslayer]

Saying is it less exciting to date a good man is automatically red flag

[andrewglass]

The girl in the Tik Tok video is forgetting that she's 50% of the relationship so if it's getting boring she needs to bare 50% responsibility for that.

[ajtaylor]

This speaks to a much greater societal issue in our normalization of instant gratification. If you need repetitive, quick dopamine hits in your relationship or just in your everyday life, you haven't learned to delay gratification and actually embrace a bit of boredom. A "boring" relationship is just a healthy one most of the time.

[theguynextdoor]

This is how breadcrumbing works. A lot of toxic people will starve people from attention, and then give this little glimpses of positive attention just to keep em around. It's like feeling hungry, and watching someone ignore us while going on a feeding frenzie, until they serve us a plate of dry breadcrumbs. Peace is invaluable. Being a man is hard to begin with, and I don't need a woman in combat mode at home.

[Rzr]

Another example that reveals, unfortunately, how incredibly immature women really are and their toxic need for drama, chaos and dysfunction.

[ONLYONEKB]

If peace is boring to you, then chaos hasn’t hit you hard enough yet.

[michaelsantangelo]

The women constantly saying that guys are emotionally immature and need to grow up are the same women choosing those types of men and rejecting/ignoring the ones they say they want.

[PspTomisi]

Wow. The timing of me seeing this video couldn't be more perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back

[hermandm]

I think she forgets or has never experienced a stable relationship that is actually NOT boring. You can have amazing dates, physical intimacy, the gift of exclusiveness, the highs, without the lows, going back to a neutral baseline of just sheer happiness. Life is rough already.

[iliasanastasiadis]

The reality is that good men get friendzoned. 🤷‍♂️

[bigdave]

Peace in my relationship is something I value greatly. I don’t have time for that chaos . When you start valuing what’s really important you will make progress.

[simsim]

I never felt bored with someone because she answered me immediately. It's the other way around. If somebody is not texting or takes forever for every little text then I'm annoyed and nothing builds up.

[neonnwave]

I actually had a discussion with one of my sister's best friends who is married to a wonderful guy. They were set up for a date by my sister and though she thought he was nice, she didn't feel the butterflies and thought about not going on a second date. My sister and her other friends told her to continue dating him (I like to think the b word and a slap were used in the process). She was reluctant but had the second date, and then a third, fourth, and so on. She realized that love and romance are things that are suppose to build up as you get to know someone, and isn't a spontaneous thing. You cannot truly fall in love with someone without truly knowing them. Good men may not give excitement right away, but it's better to wait a bit to get to know them than rush into something with a bad boy. (Same applies for men finding a partner too btw - one too many guys rush into a relationship with a b word because she's pretty, gives him attention or puts out.)

[Immrtee]

The sad part to all of this is being a good man tends to get the short end of the stick. Being friendzoned, called a creep, etc. Its better to be alone and at peace than to possibly be with someone you can barely trust and chaotic

[TCR]

Playing games is more exciting to many people rather than just being normal. Because society teaches that normal and healthy is boring.

[Lbbdavis]

I’m boring and stable. Single. Average income. Worst traits to have for dating a modern woman. 😂