The Reality Of Dating A German Girl

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0:00 Intro
0:26 Laura Arrives
1:37 PDA
2:18 Reading
2:49 Sticking to plans
4:00 More Steps
4:22 Journaling/Sponsor
5:39 Garbage and Brotzeit
6:21 Clothes and Bluntness
7:05 Cafe I like
7:27 Insurance and German Music
8:07 How tall are wind turbines
9:00 Being married to a German

[helgaioannidis]

I'm a German wife of a Greek husband and we live in Greece. In Germany I was always considered unorganized, was never on time and very much into giving out compliments. Here in Greece I get told a lot how structured, organized and reliable I am. I love living in Greece, the bar is so low for a German 😂

[logan.pankow]

I’m a 21 year old who moved out to Germany 2 years ago for studies & to get married to my high school sweetheart (foreign exchange student); we had been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. We’ve been married for almost a year now, but because I was in Germany on a student visa and changed my course of study, I’m now back in the states to get my “Visum zum Zwecke des Ehegattenachzugs.”

Needless to say, I had a huge culture shock coming back to the states, & I miss my wife, German culture, and German food:( can’t wait to get back to Saxony!

[derek-press]

33years married to a German, wake up almost every morning to the sound of the vacuum cleaner and a nice dose of minus 10 deg C coming through the bedroom window

[robwilliams]

We love Laura ❤

I’ve been in Germany for almost 24 years and married my German girlfriend nearly 20 years ago. I became a German myself nearly ten years ago.

[bcool]

My former German girlfriend and now German wife just watched this together and fully agree with your take on our relationships! From reading; to walking a LOT and the lack of compliments, it is definitely a change for an American when dating a German. No BS, which is so refreshing in a relationship!

[seanward]

My wife is German and I am retired Army and we live in Weimar, Germany so I can relate :)

[ChromeTeck]

The best you can hope for is:"Da kann man nich' meckern!" - "There's nothing to complain about!"
Then you know you made it.

[Finndu]

Wait for the summer in that apartment.

[MartyBecker]

Enjoyed the video and I can relate. Next month is my 35th wedding anniversary with my wife from Germany.

[klamin_original]

You need to do some 100% German vlogs now, it's unfair to have Laura always talk in a foreign language while you are still hiding your everyday German skills. ;)

[MrsDaedalus_]

I am born Chinese but grew up in Austria and I am more Austrian than I am Chinese, which annoys the hell out of my grandma. I am very blunt and I do call out BS when I see it. My granny likes to cause drama and she is a person that doesn´t like when people younger than her question her "authority". Ergo, she is very conservative. When I called her out on her BS, she will say that I am not Chinese enough and that is not what Chinese women do. Well, I told her that I am not living in China, so I don´t have to behave like a Chinese. I can respect the culture, but I am not going to change who I am just because she doesn´t like it. Also acting the way she wants, is the reason, why Chinese women and girls are being harassed in school and the workplace overseas. (Which I experienced personally.) Being obedient and quiet might get you somewhere in China, but not in Austria. And I live in Austria, not in China.

However, the neat part is more my partner than me. He is Austrian, Viennese to be exact, and god he is organised and neat. That drives me crazy because he always cleans up my desk, every time I visit my mum in Graz and the end result is that I can´t find my stuff. I had a designated place for my Bluetooth keypad and he just store it away, when I was at home during the holidays. I couldn´t find my keypad for two months and finally found it, yesterday! I was livid!!!
😅

[claudiacables]

So true . I am from South America, live in USA and have been married with a German for 35 years. Now I laugh watching the video about not getting compliments and planning everything, very stoic etc.... but that was very difficult for me at the beginning. In my Latin culture we are the opposite : warm, a lot of PDA, loud, spontaneous, disorganized etc.... so just imagine how complicated that was. But we compromise and made it.

[Khalidazizphoto]

in germany we say „NICHT GESCHIMPFT IST LOB GENUG.“ which means "NOT SCOLDING IS PRAISE ENOUGH."

[ThcBanaman]

I had two weeks of vacation in Schwäbisch Hall last year because of Nicks videos :). Great time and now I recognize all the little places

[corneliameiler]

really appreciate you let us be part of your journaling, it felt so intimate. very touching

[natalielubo]

I am German and married to an American. He sometimes says that the way I say things is rude and I'm always trying to explain that we just talk like that. Maybe I'm not the only one. 🙈

[MrZenGuitarist]

Hehehe!! Funny video. I'm not German, or from U.S but from Sweden. I was just struck by how similar the German 'mentality' seem to be to how we Swedes are.

[crothefool]

I'm an American and married a German seven years ago. We live in Wuppertal. My experience has been quite different. My wife's biggest tick in what you're talking about is never being late, but her family doles out compliments regularly. I am actually the one who would sarcastically say something was alright or passing when it was really good. Neither my wife nor myself are exceptionally organized, though, due to her, we do keep all official and bank mail... all of it. Receipts for my Aufenthaltstitel as well.

[silvialittlewolf]

Loved your insights. Now ... how about you film a video with Laura's point-of-view on dating an American? That should be interesting too! 😁😄

[r.schumacher]

We need to buy "Übertopf"...immediately hooked :)