How to talk to a man to get what you want

I wrote about Esther and biblical womanhood on Substack:

What It Means to Be a Daughter of God:

Stop Trying to Control a Man—Just Be a Princess (Preview):

If you feel led to support me:

03:42 Step 1
07:17 Step 2
12:52 Step 3

[sasquatchhadarock]

In my first year in a Bible college I had to take gym class. The instructor told us that keeping healthy was good to do for yourself and your spouse. All the girls started growling at that. This was 20 years ago. "Don't judge our outward appearance!" Ladies, your outward appearance reveals much about your inner character. I know mine (man) does about me. Yours does as well.

Nice video. Thank you, miss.

[ryanv]

Why do even good women have to be so obsessed with manipulating us and playing games

[BF-non]

First time I find a woman that get these things. I was convinced that I needed to teach them these things, but is hopeful finding women that already know these things. Raised right.

[geebee]

What you described is influence and asking, it’s not manipulation. If you are honest and fair then the influence cannot be manipulative. Overall great advice for women. The story of Ester is the story of a woman by being humble, submissive and courageous saved her people and became a queen. Contrasts that with Vashti a queen due to defiance lost her position because of pride.

[permabased]

"even if a kid wants a certain gift they will go to their parent and ask for it" never saw it from that point of view but that is incredibly enlightening

[ChristMerch]

This is why i stay subbed to this insane channel. Where else am i going to hear this kind of spice

[InkLore-ph]

“Use a suggestive tone” was the wake up I needed to stop zoning out.

[man-xy]

my mom has been manipulating my dad exactly like this for 50 years. she's not godly, does not respect him and is not a good person overall.
i'm doing everything i can not be like my dad and the girls need to act right because i see them act wrong before they even start talking.

[GoWithJesus]

Like you explained, Esther showed Respect with her speech, & women need the Holy Spirit to Give that Respect from their heart(thoughts & emotions).

[anthonypassarelli]

Your ability to say exactly what you mean, and without fear, is both extremely rare and valuable!

[theboombody]

When husbands and wives make it clear to each other that their spouse is the most important thing in this world, how can their marriage fail?

[LADETROIT]

She may be right, but is she married? Should we Receive marriage advice from someone that is very young and not married? The solution to a successful marriage is in the Word, with the Holy spirit's guidance.

[ProphetJessie]

Title scared me a bit. Mind blown 😂 love you

[jimbobhaha]

Reading Esther last night and this topic of conversation came up. Interesting.

The way Esther approached the King, prepared a banquet for him and Haman, twice! And God was able to redeem His people through Esther and Mordecai. Cool story.

[mangobadger]

“Manipulation” does not mean what you think it means. I think you are talking about “influence.”

[witchreturns]

Men here: I told my exes that I can't read their mind, but they still did a lot of drama. Looking back makes them feel that they were stupid about this or egotistical, even thoe they were great persons. I wish your video will reach as many women as possible. Communication si the key in the relationship and the education of the parts. Manipulation does not work eventually and they will get hurt by with. I respect you asians, you always say the truth straight!

[netnomad]

Persuation, or influence is a better term. But "manipulate" will definitely get more views haha.
God's blessed you with wisdom sis. Your future husband will be a lucky blessed man.

[ohhSuki]

Ok that was super interesting even as a man, you truly have wisdom ! be bless Alice

[mikhailni]

God bless you. My wife says I have to listen to her and do what she says. I tell her; don't manipulate me. My wife doesn't let me preach to the kids and prays with everyone at home and took away my room where I used to pray. If I tell her that she is going against God, she says: shut up and first learn to love like Jesus.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[ReadySetReddit]

Not trying to demean by any means, but I’m not sure “getting what you want” is a Christ-like motive. I’m a young Christian myself, so I could be wrong. But nevertheless, keep up the good work in bringing awareness to the people about Jesus. Thank you for that.