Advice for Guys On Dating

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As a christian guy whos been married for less than 2 years, advice for christians in this area needs to be carefully given.

Dating is our cultures answer on how to find a marriage partner. Hanging out with a group of friends is generally not.

Our culture also is individualist and not pro marriage any more.

We need to give clear easy to follow guidelines about how to advise young christians to develop relationships.
Not vague statements about hanging out in groups.

If u like a girl, take a risk, ask her on a date.
If she says yes, take her out for a coffee or something else low key.
Treat her with respect but your goal of a marriage partner is a noble and godly goal.
If it works, is easy and is fun, ask her out again.
Make sure you dont push average relationships up a hill.
Steer clear of too much physical stuff. It will muddy your thinking.
Stay close to God.

Understand that relationships are a risk that are worth taking.

Grow. Take risks. Love God & love people.

OssianHowley

The last part is gold. Most of the time you will hang out with your partner, so dating it’s a good time to evaluate if that will be possible. Thanks

Pilgrim

I think it is important when we are in friendships with the opposite gender to guard our hearts. I was recently friends with someone who indicated that he liked me and I was really praying about it, but suddenly he just got into a relationship with another girl. He really hurt me. I pray and ask that all brothers in Christ would be careful with how they treat their sisters--caring for their hearts and not leading them into false hope (if they aren't interested in a relationship). I know sisters in Christ should do the same but men are the pursuers in this area.

adaliavasquez

As a girl, I love this. I wish guys would implement this.

sthiel

I’m passed college years, but I really love this. I still treat guys I meet like this, a brother! Sadly, most of their mindset is wordly. I’m still waiting for my God’s best. I’m content where God is placing me right now. 💕

HaLo_Zz

This was really helpful! While I do wish I had my father to teach me this, my heavenly Father has given me good fathers in the church to share this video and mentor me! By God's grace I'll be able to pass this knowledge along to my kids in the future if they turn to the Lord!

bothan_janitor

Amen!

Praise God for such sound advice. His Word is a lamp unto our feet.

drowe

I love this. Really useful, even as a girl!

colourfulchaos

“Would I want to hang out with her for 30 years”
Good stuff👍

natebrock

This video was exactly what I needed to hear, thank you Lord!

andrewbellasperanza

These insights are pretty orthodox but I don't know that they're all that helpful to the spiritually mature, Christian, single guy. If I could rewind and speak to my single self a few years ago I would much rather impart that dating unto God will take real risk and can take a long time, yet it's worth it both in the end and in the midst of dating. Growing tired, settling and dating whimsically will cost you immensely. Make your pursuit of a wife about knowing and honoring Jesus, only this perspective will get you through the hardships that lie ahead.

CamtronianDaBarbaric

Wow! I so appreciated this commentary. Thank you for such sound wisdom and Godly advice.

EddieBsTakeout

Amen brother. Very solid biblical teaching.

kpballa

I first thought this was a crock of shit, then I immediately thought I possess the wisdom of the world and am not seeing this as it’s meant to be. Totally convicted now.

JohnCook-bxgv