Her Husband Isn't Attracted To Her Because She Gained Weight

Her husband told her he's not attracted to her anymore because she gained weight! What would YOU do if you were her?!

[mitchellwhite]

We all have the right to be attracted to what we find attractive. If my wife asks me to lose weight I would do it because of the love I have for her and myself. I noticed that all of the callers are women. Just because someone informs you need to lose weight doesn't mean they don't love you.

[the_world_of_marketing]

This woman who said the marriage would be over if the man tells her to lose weight... What a stupid person. How can you have that person on the show? She is of course entitled to her opinion, but it’s just such non sense… Just because you lost attraction it doesn’t mean you stopped loving someone. Nobody should throw a marriage away because of that.

[hawk_]

Spoken like true unstable women. It’s like forcing a gay man to like women. You’re attracted to what you’re attracted to. It’s just what it is. Love and attraction is not the same thing. We love our parents but aren’t attracted to them. You can love your wife but not be attracted to her. If she stopped trying, she definitely doesn’t love herself enough to take care of yourself and vice versa.

[amariosakwe]

All I heard was excuses, excuses and more excuses. No accountability.

[donnis]

Of course it's the man's fault. It always is.

[kenberry]

Whenever men do express their true feelings, women just can't handle it.

[Azav]

Accountability is kryptonite.
Nothing but excuses.
As a guy, we tell other guys "hey chunk, you're getting fat."
No excuses.

[Beemgod]

It’s the attitude to not fix it that will get you cheated on. Go to the damn gym like he asked and end of story!

[Pris]

I think you like what you like and if he’s not attracted to her she can lose the weight but she me harbor resentment towards him. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[EZANA-THE-LONER]

Most wives relax and get bigger, they dont care about hubbys happiness

[Azav]

Good lord, nothing but excuses. Listening to this made me lose brain cells.

[humankirk]

The reason he doesn't say what he thinks for months is exactly for the knee-jerk immature hyperbolic reaction exhibited by Cassie and Davi. Cassie starts it off by claiming that a relationship would be over just like that. Davi continues by claiming that there's something wrong with the man. Clearly, women don't want to hear that they are less attractive when they get fat and that men will see it as a betrayal if you're not even trying. Deal with it. Silly denials are not an argument.

[top_mf_n_here]

Serious question: How long can u say its baby weight?

Ex: 17 months later still baby weight?

[Beemgod]

What you want me to do emotionally close my eyes for sex if I’m not attracted? 😂

[kuraitabinin]

Hard not to notice that the majority of the female responses failed to hold the wife accountable for her weight...at all. They were quick to harp on her husband not trying to make her feel good anymore keep her happy but totally just ignored the fact that her being overweight makes HIM unhappy. Isn't a wife also supposed to make her husband feel good and keep him happy? Not one single female actually acknowledged that point. It's all his fault. Such bullshit. He was honest enough to express it...and we see how that went for him. Women are unaccountable when it comes to this issue and it's always a man being shallow when they point it out.

[a.b.pride.]

Well, so much for equality... Woman puts on weight, so the man's being insecure...??? Wouldn't she be the insecure party for being butt hurt over the guys feelings... Also have you noticed that women get to be "Plus Size", while guys in the same shape are still fat, i read an article that said ; "plus size women aren't attracted to overweight men", if there's going to be a different standard for men & women, stop with the faux equality rederick...

[plushman]

My wife’s amazing, I love her with all my heart, and, am emotionally invested, but I’m not attracted to obesity; so, we don’t bang. Everything else is awesome

[dylancardwell]

All of these passionate responses sound like they're coming from "primarily" overweight women. Your weight gain may not be the only reason why, but is weight gain always the problem for these women or is it just a symptom. Some become too comfortable and some decide their feelings are more important than facts. Desiring the best for one another should not be looked down apon.

[Pris]

I love these because I don’t have time to listen in the mornings!

[Rudy-ohwc]

Most of the time I agree with Davi but at the 4 minute mark she insults the husband by calling him a little boy for not using his big boy words. That's bullshit because if the husband would of brought up her weight in conversation and actually supported her in going to the gym. He would of been seen as anti-women, misogynistic, asshole for suggesting it. (Remember Peloton ad).
Also, this discussion turned very quickly to the husbands "insecurities and personal issues". Every human on this planet has insecurities and personal issues. That is not an excuse to immediately call him the bad guy. Maybe he did go about saying his opinion without "woman gloves" but it's what he said and feels nonetheless. The wife should have taken that conversation and used it as motivation to lose the weight. "Happy wife, happy life" implies that men have to "fold there arms" for the women so the opposite should be true. Whether she stays in the marriage or not.. because let's be real here. If she were to divorce him, she would lose the weight as a form of revenge. So, lose weight and be in a happy marriage, or divorce and then lose weight as revenge. Which one sounds more healthy?

*Edited a typo