How To Fix A Sexless Marriage With Your Wife

Do you feel like you are the only one who is experiencing troubles with intimacy? The movies and shows on TV make it seem like a wife is so eager to make love with her husband. Your friends may talk about how much their wives want to make love. But, you can’t seem to relate...your wife does not want to have sex with you.

You may ask yourself: “Does she care?” “Does she know that I have needs?” “Am I not good enough?”

If you’re asking these questions, or feel frustrated by the lack of love-making in your marriage, you aren’t alone. We would like to share with you some specific research about this, but want to preface this- we are not saying that it’s your fault that your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you. That’s NOT our intent. Rather, when we share what we found, be honest with yourself in evaluating whether these apply. (And If they do, don’t panic!)

We’ll also share with you how you can turn things around so that you and your wife can enjoy lovemaking in amazing ways.

And remember, there is a correlation between sexual and marital satisfaction. If the love-making in your marriage is going well, it is likely that your marriage is going well (and vice versa).

First, we will discuss the research on sexual attraction. In an online survey, when asked if anything significantly reduces sexual attraction to their husband, the number one cause was relationship problems. The second cause was an unhappiness with the husband’s sexual techniques (also feeling pressured to make love.) The third cause was their husband’s lack of hygiene.

Next, we will discuss research on specific factors that negatively affected a wife’s sex drive. The number one reason was the husband’s sexual techniques. The second reason was relationship problems. The third reason was a husband’s sexual functioning or problems with participating in the sexual encounter (also that their husband wouldn’t get help for this problem).

If any of the reasons mentioned from our research apply to your situation, don’t fret. There are ways you can improve and increase your wife’s desire to be with you sexually. There are ways you can increase her enjoyment while also increasing your enjoyment. And, there are ways to increase your own desire to be with your wife sexually. It will take work, but it’s doable. And, it can be fun.

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[GBU]

If we are really being honest, modern relationships do not work. Marriage magnifies those problems. The loneliest I ever felt was when I was married. She broke my spirit and it took years for me to recover. Never, ever will I allow a woman that opportunity again!

[lorenzell]

I dont think my wife was ever interested in me sexually. As far as I can figure out, she settled for me, as a father for our children and as a provider.

[billreddy]

I TRULY feel for my married brothers who got suckered into a raw deal. Now they live in silent desperation, walking on eggshells.

[dynjarren]

It doesnt help when your spouse wont tell you whats wrong and just cuts you off. Absolutely wont even spend time with you...so you try to be better, you try to be supportive, you self evaluate everything just so you can approach the issue and begin to mend the problem. But sooner or later if your spouse wont open themselves up, or offers some clue for you to work with, you have no choice to throw it away and find it somewhere else
I'm nearing that point now

[thewrongshoes]

Deep down she doesn’t feel the romance any more and it’s becoming a chore

[jlmarsh]

Marriage is a lose lose situation for a man

[leehowson]

So basically, it all boils down to the fact that women are difficult to please.
And me aren't

[rs-xrty]

I know my wife is struggling due to the relationship part. She's nearly impossible to please, always upset about something then blames everyone but herself so it's a one way street when it comes to anybody changing. I've changed all I can at this point. Sometimes I'll ldo everything I can think of and still she's a million miles away emotionally. She doesn't care about sex, or even her own orgasm even though I know how and an completely willing to spend the time. I help around the house, make decent money, I'm in shape, good hygiene. It's very frustrating.

[Nateda]

Gotta stop looking for solutions from people that just have all this as a hussle. The right relationship feels effortless. If you reached the stage where you feel like your pulling a bolder by yourself cause she left the rope a long time ago it is time for you to take that for what it is and let go too without guilt. As men we are hardwired to fix things and that is what brings us to videos like this, cause you have already tried and thought of everything else and your looking for new ways you did not think of or try. Take a step back and see it for what it is. Chasing someone that has devalued you will cause you to devalue yourself. Don't end up stuck living in a situation where your parkner and yourself dislike you. Recovering from a bad self image is a harder road than any breakup or divorce.

[steveTGO]

Problems in the relationship is by far the #1 cause of sexual inactivity. Women are very emotion based, if a woman isn't happy, doesn't respect you and/or doesn't see you as a man, she will not want to be sexual with you.
Men fail to understand this because we can be pist off, just had a huge argument with her and super tired but we are still ready to have sex, however, these things kill a womans sexual desire. A woman cannot sexually function in a bad state of mind, she requires emotional stability. As far as hygiene is concerned, I think it's safe to say that in most cases this isn't the issue for marital sexual dysfunction because she most likely wouldn't have married you in the first place if you were hygienically challenged.

[laylalayla]

Its sad how when the wife doesn’t have sex, which is more common than the other way around, it is all the husband’s fault and he has to jump through fiery hoops to see if he can convince his wife to give him permission to have sex. If its the husband that doesn’t want sex then…its also the husband’s fault and he better jump through fiery hoops to make sure his wife has sex whenever she wants it (if she ever wants it). I feel bad for the guys.

[PJ-omwq]

What if it's none of the three? What if it's mental health issues (that weren't apparent when we got married), baggage from before the marriage, upbringing and the stress that this causes, diminishing estrogen, lack of empathy (understand why intimacy is important to men) and victim mentality?

[sanction]

When a woman rejects her husband on the most intimate level possible, he withdraws emotionally. It is inevitable after habitual rejection.

[tedcorey]

I wasn't a big fan of getting married in the first place, but she said it was going to be great, she was wrong . Also, I've done all I'm going to do . I also understand ; Why do husbands die before wives, because they want to . Everything is great before marriage, afterwards they look at it as a retirement plan .

[davidbetteridge]

It been over 35 years of even been touched, not fair as it is a very important part of a marriage

[danielc]

Move on! Once the animal is in the trap there is no need to keep p with the bait. It is a rare woman who is honest and accountable to a promise or a vow.

[daryl]

In the age of social media theres always men at her disposal who will appear more attractive and charming than the man she is with. She knows her man's flaws and they repulse her, but the man she spends less time with, the old flame on Facebook or crush at work can be very enticing.

[DARKELLAKEL]

After learning so much about men and women I don’t think we are sexually compatible long term, there’s just too many irreconcilable differences between the sexes that can’t be permanently bridged in the SLIGHTEST. Sad but reality.

[jackfenton]

Welcome to the endless "" Nag, no Shag" loop.

[jeffpittman]

I'm honestly to the point I don't care anymore.