Husband Not Attractive Anymore? Before You Crush His Soul, Consider This.

What do you do when you feel like you're no longer attracted to your husband?
If you feel like you are no longer attracted to your husband, do NOT tell him. At least not like that.

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There are two “worst” things that you can do when you no longer feel attracted to your husband. The first thing is to tell them. And the second-worst thing that you can do is not tell them. What do I mean? What are you supposed to do if you're not supposed to tell them, but you're not supposed to not tell them. Let me explain.

You're supposed to think about HOW you tell them.

Several years ago, I had a friend who was dating this guy, and they had started dating in winter. Summer came around, and it was time for them to start going to the pool with each other. So they did. And the first time they went to the pool together, he said to her, “You know, you would look so much better in that bathing suit if you lost 15 pounds.” Every woman watching this video just wanted to drop an elbow on that guy, right? Of course, you don't say that to someone! But how many times have you may have inadvertently said something similar like that to your husband, which automatically made him feel like he wasn't attractive, he wasn't good enough, and he wasn't loved?

You see, we DO need to address when we no longer feel attracted to our spouse. In this instance, we're talking about being attracted to our husbands. We need to address it, but not like that. Not in a way that will make them feel like they need to change how they look, how they act, or what they do for us to love them.

There's a different way to approach it that I promise will lead to much better end results.
Let's talk about it in this video.

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[deborah]

I went off birth control, and no one told me that it can stop attraction to your partner. So now I feel like I have an extremely low attraction and libido level towards my husband.

[lasaviabrown]

The day my wife tells me she is no longer attracted to me is the day I take a trip to the courthouse if you get what I mean

[PJHEATERMAN]

My wife was/is incredibly beautiful when i met her and married her and had two children and she's still my beautiful wife.

[louisaklimentos]

I lost attraction for my husband because he is abusive and after menopause we lose the love hormone oxytocin.

[naty]

The approach you spoke about don't always work, speaking from experience (even with the best tone of voice).

[ameliacarter]

That’s terrible…. My husband isn’t thin anymore but it’s what is inside that I love not his belly. The fact that he ignores me and is constantly on Facebook is what I am not attracted to anymore. I feel devalued :(( U are spot on!!

[urbansurvivor]

Ive just binge watched a tonne of marriage guidance vieos. Most of them made me feel like im to blame to becsuse he pushed me into marriage i went along with it. But your the one unpicking things and making it make sense thankyou

[joltran]

I’m a husband myself trying to get ahead before we get old and all this starts 😂😂

[kimadams]

I never thought about looking at the physical attraction issue as a symptom to a deeper issue. After 20 years of marriage I have changed a lot. I'm no longer the same person I was and I'm no longer feeling connected to him for the same reasons I did in the earlier parts of our marriage. It makes me sad because there are parts of him that are so great. But then there's the parts of him where he makes me feel like I'm asking too much for him to put his phone down when I'm talking to him. It's hard to know when it's time to be done after you've spent so much time in life with a person.

[siegfriedbraun]

I tried to listen carefully (lol right?) but one reason I DIDN'T hear, is that something changed in HER. Maybe his kind words weren't good enough anymore or his cards and notes didn't measure up. Who knows what (unspoken) changes are happening inside of her?

[irinairy]

I feel horrible for saying this but my husband gained a lot of weight and I don't feel attracted to him at all. I love him as a person but I am not attracted to him

[Jozeemoss]

1)physically 2)intellectually 3)emotionally 4)spiritually. What about success/status. Is it ok to reduce a partner down to a success/status object?

[LuvOfLalaland]

Its a really great one. What if im not even sure if i still want to make the approach. There is so strong of thie resistance is not supporting me to go for the steps. It seems like every one of my approaches is an perfect opportunity for him to convince me im the one should to be blamed. Which i have already found out we are already so far away on the mindset level.

[Eniclac]

My wife choose the direct way to tell me, without telling me what she wished for herself or me. I cannot improve/change anything which I don't know what is, and she's not doing anything to solve it in her ball court.

[alexandrasalvagni]

What if we were never physically attracted at all, but emotionally attracted …and then he betrayed me so now he’s not attractive at all

[tifffany]

I’m tired of it all honestly. His behavior is turning me off.

[steadystackin]

The thing that never gets talked about is the fact that we all have influence of our attractiveness.

People can actually lose weight, improve their skin, and shape their body in a way to increase attractiveness.

Not being physically attractive is not a big deal because you can in fact do something about it.

[andyzagray]

What's the point of that marriage be friends

[brucemcclain]

Thanks for not saying....wait for your husband to scramble around for the solution.