4 Habits For Nice Guys To Be More Attractive

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In this video we’ll go through 4 habits you can steal from Chris Evans that will help you to be charming in any conversation.  And because Chris’s charisma is so nice, we’ll also go over a few nuances around flirting so you can create attraction as more than just a friend.

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0:00 - Intro.
0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile.
2:21 - #2: Own the space around you.
5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method.
7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.

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[TakeBackYourMind]

I prefer this kind of charisma to the 'cool guy', it makes people around you feel better about themselves and it's just a more positive vibe.

[papajupri-hartthrobngbaguio]

I was smiling the whole time while watching this. Chris Evans' smile is contagious for sure.

[fillpereira]

As someone that used to be obese and recently got into the best shape of my life. Being comfortable in your own body is HUGE. It's a heck of a lot easier to "own the space around you" when you're not self-conscious about how you look or if your love handles are hanging out in a weird way.. Being in great shape boosts your confidence automatically. Once you do that, a lot of the tips being discussed here simply come naturally. That's my personal experience anyway.

[simranbansal]

1) Speak through a smile.
smile through your eyes and be charming. laugh at your own words. do not smile 24/7
like, starting a story, start serious and it gets to the funnier part, you can start smiling and then start laughing. keep the smile genuine. try to guide the conversation to things that actually make you laugh.

2) own the space around you.
use your hands when you speak, use gestures. and even when you're not speaking, you can take up space when you laugh. put yoir head back, pur your hand on their shoulder or knee. this way you can slowly make people more comfortable to your touch and so if you're interested in them, you will easily be able to kiss them. also, another way to know if they're really interested or not. take up the space around you. ALSO, do not laugh at everything the other person says, it's cringy

3. Bounce between
a) teasing lightly
b) complimenting kindly
bounce back and forth between this. this is called as the push-pull technique. this makes you less predictable and makes gou moe interesting. they wanna know what you'll say. more likely to work on people who are used to JUST good compliments. they're more likely to be attracted to this. don't just tease and be a jerk or give compliments and be out in the friendzone.

4. don't hide your flaws.
own the mistakes that you did. if they jab at you, take it and laugh at it. if you're scared, admit it. Admit being scared, embarrassed. be willing to laugh at your own mistakes and be willing to own them. this shows you're not afraid to be judged. the thing that would bother other people, you're comfortable with it.

[johnnyprogress]

1) Speak through a smile;
2) Own the space around you;
3) Use the push-pull method; and
4) Be willing to laugh at yourself.

[AhmetKaan]

*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”*
*―C. S. Lewis*

[TheRealSpicke]

I think Gordon Ramsey could be a very interesting person to be analysed on this channel.

[noelnunez]

Please Do a video of “how to talk to someone that we haven’t spoken or seen since the pandemic started?” I love your videos, great job

[sanasafeena]

Him: the first tip is to smile
Me in the middle of a pandemic: 😷😷😷 am I charming enough yet?

[anthonycooper]

Video suggestion: how to never run out of social battery

[velvetsteele]

Simple: just be a movie star. Works every time.

[starRushi]

Another thing to do is laugh at the jokes they really care about. It makes them feel like you understand them, and often promotes a feeling of empathy

[prisonmike]

I Don't know man but watching Chris Evans laugh everytime I couldn't be able to stop my laugh either.

[pinkclouds]

You can be confident and do almost anything and people won't question it

[epiloguemetalogue]

Don't forget to be physically gorgeous while you apply these techniques.

[Scorbutics]

The important thing is self-awareness. With it you can realize what's funny in the current situation you are. You can start to see yourself as someone else and therefore distantiate your feelings from your thinking.
That obviously requires some energy / attention span in each of your conversations.

[nikaivanisevic]

i love the video, can you make a video how to react in negative situations because most of these actors you cover are usually in a nice group of people and the energy is always lifted. how about a situation where you really feel uncomfortable? love your channel

[ClarenceEwing]

Seems like a warning is appropriate: be VERY careful when touching other people in public, especially people you don't know. The two Chrises can do it because they're obviously friends and enjoy being around each other. But for those of us who aren't gorgeous Hollywood stars, it can be very easy to invade someone's physical space in an unpleasant way without meaning to. Read the room, always.

[GarderN]

Its easy to be charming when you're comfortable with the people around you, and you're already respected like Chris here. If you can be like Chris in a room with strangers and you're not a celebrity, then that's impressive.

[garyglaser]

Plus, it always helps to be unbelievably fit and handsome.