The Neurodiverse Marriage: Challenges and Solutions

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[deebee]

The journal is a good idea, but as usual it is me that has to do all the work/ research. I’m exhausted with him at the moment and fed up with all my wasted energy in trying to communicate with him.

[FinallyFulfilled]

I’m not sure 🤔 if this is balanced. It feels like we have to do all the work. It’s like pulling teeth. 😂😂😂. While I do think my expectations were unrealistic at first, I feel like their withdrawal that lasts a long time just pushes me further away. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[karenbonnici]

Does there come a time that the NT has to leave the marriage to save their own mental and emotional health? After years of not knowing or understanding what happened in the marriage, is it futile to expect that there will be a place where the madness stops and the couple starts completely over again? I don't know if there is any hope for a healing of relationships that have been torn apart by such violent behavior.

[fleeberny]

Thank you for this. I try, so much easier said than done :-(

[ithacacomments]

I am a retired nanny.
Years ago, I was out walking with the baby, and his brothers.... a 4 year old, and a 6 year old.
The 6 year old was on the autism spectrum.
He fell and scraped his knee which started to bleed.
He went into a total meltdown to which I responded..."I am so glad that you are not severely injured. Unfortunately,
Nana is unable to fix it while we are walking since I did not bring any bandages. I will fix it as soon as we get back home!"
End of meltdown.
He proudly showed his bloody knee to all the children in the neighborhood on our way home.
Keep calm and carry on.

[brookecoach]

Serious question….So if a bunch of AS men get together do they just argue all the time? Or can they be friends with each other?

[resat]

These videos have been very helpful. I’ve been dating for almost a year someone who I believe has AS. I recently asked him if he had ever been told this and he said that it has been suggested to him but he rejected it.

I’m watching to find out the work involved in maintaining such a relationship and if I have the bandwidth for it. He is a great person but I have a high emotional need and I’m not hopeful that we are a good match.