The ONE Mistake to avoid RIGHT AFTER a Breakup | Closure Talk

Asking your ex for closure could ruin your chances forever

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[SpenKilpatrick]

I’m almost at day 90 of NC. The moment she said she didn’t want to be with me anymore (told me over FaceTime) was the moment I stopped all contact. The saddest thing for me is she couldn’t do it in person. But on a positive, I’m almost 28 lbs down in weight, I’m seeing my therapist every week and trying to learn to love myself again. I have good days, I have bad days. I have days where I’m angry, I have days where I only think about the good times. I have days where I cry. I lost my best friend in the space of one phone call. Now I’m learning how to live my life away from all that. I know she won’t ever come back, but I’ll always love the chapter of my life she was apart of. Now it’s learning about where my life’s story unfolds. I wish it would’ve been with her by my side, but sometimes life changes. I believe everything is part of a destiny. It’s all part of gods plan. Copyright Drake.

[DeeDaKaang]

Women don't apologize, at most you'll get an admission of guilt which isn't the same thing & robs you of closure

[bipbop]

This man is a genius. Coach Blac knows what he’s talking about.

[Champ]

Asking for closure generally isn't productive for two reasons:

1. The dumpee will be trying to soften the blow, and you won't get a straight answer for their loss of attraction (if they care or are neutral). 2. They'll overstate and over-blow anything you did wrong (if they're upset or trying to convince themselves due to their loss of attraction).

[mutechannel]

Dont look for closure because no answer they give you is going to soothe you at all it will just make you feel worst.

Dont look for them to take accountability because they will just deflect and justify why they did what they did and ultimately its going to be all your fault.

They can just say they are bored and save the justification.

I was a Dumpee... So to the Dumpees just take it as a lost and grieve. Keep on living

[Usernameblankslate]

I broke up with my boyfriend hoping it would force him to grown up. I thought the fear of losing me would make him leap into action and do all the things he promised. It did not, however I always left the door cracked open. I hoped that one day he would find away to contact me and we could work our relationship out. Well thanks to watching these videos that door is officially closed. I’ve been reading comment of other people willing to do whatever it takes to get a second shot. Comments of people with huge hearts, who make effort in their relationship. It gives me hope that one day I can find someone like that… someone who is thoughtful, makes effort. Someone to be an actual partner. My ex wasn’t that person and hoping one day he will magic do a complete turn around is just bad odds.

[proTheologist]

My girl had a 25yr and 30yr old sons who just didnt like me. I wasnt welcome to her family events. They lived with her. It couldnt be sorted out. I crashed mentally. The oppression was to much. I broke it off and explained it all in a letter and never heard from her again. I never contact her again either. Such is life.

[uprightman]

Once again you are dropping been in no contact since January and I am 100% back....at peace and happy....

[alexardon]

I apreciate what you do for all of us youre always on time with your videos

[maarleeneee]

Makes so much sense when you put it like this! Damn, wish I saw this earlier

[whyherrodere]

I had to get that closure to kill my hope in getting back with his cheating ways. He emotionally cheated 2 times, 1st he liked my fake friend, and the second time he is monkey branching to a girl at his mormon church (Im buddhist) so he started using religion to be the biggest reason. Church girl knew we were together too. I am letting go of him forever. His dumbass thinks he's highvalue but he just doesn't know how to keep boundaries with other girls and disrespects me. No more chances cause he's alrdy made me look like a fool. 3-4 yrs gone!

[anasukarto]

You are right coach, , , talk them back it just make other saddest things

[LoLaLyTV]

I'm currently watching your Valentine's Live because I've binged all of your videos with only two more lives to go so I'm so very grateful for this upload. Your videos are actually just helping me stay occupied while I work so that I don't contact her but I'm learning a little more than I've already known plus I am indeed working on myself.

[horaceblige]

Finally found out the reason it was a dude waiting in the wings

[JasonCooke]

Almost at two years of no contact. Never gave her closure. Sometimes I wonder what things would be like if I did. Life is wild.

[sammae]

We already had this conversation the day we broke up (a week ago) and i told him I understoodand. The day after the break up I was devastated so I dmed him about how I miss him after he asked about one of the stories I posted, and he said he missed me back. But then I said I didn't think that was possible, and he said he was surprised that he missed me.

[natashastan]

Dear coach Blac, could you please make a video about how to do no contact if you work with your ex and need to seek him weekly or biweekly? (He’s my client)
I’d so appreciate it as I’m confused because I need to interact with him.

[lukefoster]

Yeah but what about the circumstances the break up occurs

[TheQueenA_notb]

Can you do a video on what to expect when your ex ask you too meet up a month after the breakup and how you should ask if you want to work things out but you want them to work for it

[hooptiehonda]

My ex reached out to me after no contact asked if I still had a random thing she left behind do I assume that’s an excuse to see me and she misses me or only wants the thing back doesn’t make sense as to why now she randomly asks about it