The Dangerous Relationship Between A Narcissist and An Empath

In today's video Jill talks about the dangers of a relationship between a narcissist and an empath.

Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic abuse and Cptsd. She uses her experience and what she has learned to help educate others and bring awareness to narcissistic abuse. She is also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and works with clients all over the world heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation and Complex Ptsd.

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[joglynn]

One thing the narc forgets is when the empath turns into a super empath they will destroy the narc and the narc will suffer big time 🙏🔥

[GeckoHiker]

Imagine an empath raised by a narcissist. That's what puts the C in C-PTSD.

[juliejen]

I thank God for prayer and the power of Jesus, to break every chain and power over others.

[rodneymartel]

The relationship is predicated upon the codependent nature of the people involved. Ironically both have minimal boundaries for themselves.

[jornfox]

Empaths have to remember to save their own souls, not just help and inspire others. This can be done through deep 'Kriya' meditation/prayer.

[lorrainehewlett]

I once heard a narcissist admit, “I have an intellectual understanding of compassion but I don’t live in it.”

[charlesagibb]

This is a very clear and concise overall description of the emotions which shape the personality of the empath. I was never abused as a child, but emotionally I was neglected. Being the sixth child of seven my parents were very busy and did their best I'm sure of that. I met a girl from a very dysfunctional family who needed saving. I thought I just wanted to give her the love, affection, and a happy family life. She played the damsel in distress, I was her hero. Little did I know the " false self" she projected was tailor made to pull me deeper and deeper into a committed relationship. With each milestone of commitment achieved the need of the false self became less and less ( many red flags later ) until it was one way giving. The empath literally empties their effort, energy and love into a heartless broken human being . I was discarded twice before what should have been the final discard. Knowing nothing of narcissism I didn't understand what had, and was taking place. I allowed the narcissist to retro hoover me fifty or more times over the following twenty years until three years ago when I recognised the character traits of a co dependent in myself ( always trying to fix everything to help my Mum and Dad) I had unwittingly fallen for a Jezebel. When you show the narcissist you have gained an understanding of how they function it's a terrible shock, and causes them an narcissistic wound. You won't see them for dust. All they have left is an endless smear campaign carried out using faithful flying monkeys. Thanks Jill, for bringing enlightenment to so many, it's a painful journey with many miles of rocky roads, but your videos have helped me a great deal. Thanks.

[lynnkliewer]

We were brought up in toxic homes, we wanted peace and the only way we got it was to be a people pleaser..This is so awaking I hope you all see it as-well .You should of been loved for who you are not what you do for others !😊

[thomasjorge]

A Giver meets The Taker and Gets Taken! You must NEVER Dialogue with the Devil!

[cyncin]

Right on. Thank you. I am such an empath! The narc is trying to get back into my life after three years of no contact. I simply deleted the emails. 😊

[gerrylang]

Very very true. Narcissists are indeed like "Strigoi", parasitic psychopathic energy and soul vampires. This was a great summation of these deeply damaged and damaging aberrant personality types, who as you very correctly state we should avoid at all costs!

[katherinelim]

You are spot on the characteristics of both the narcissistic and empath. Years and years of abuses by the narcissistic spouses inflicted on the empaths. Best way to save from more abuses is to leave the relationship without any contact. Never too late to leave and start life anew. Many do not understand this destructive toxic condition and there is no way this kind of person can change or heal.

[bongjamesbong]

Watch out for these self proclaimed "empaths" that talk too much. They claim to be "empaths" but can't tell how much their excessive talking is causing discomfort. If you share something about yourself they'll circle back and mirror you with what happened to them.

[inakale]

Absolutely 💯💯💯 correct! Also narcissist has a (very limited) ability to connect with empath on a deep levels, which neurotypical people can't do and he use it to keep empath around, faking that connection as reliable.

[southernexposure]

For someone who is empathetic when the "n" leaves the empath can get approached by other "n"s. If the empathetic person doesn't realize the mechanics of each condition they'll get in a new prison with a diffrent person or more than one new "n". It can be disasterous for the empath.
I've noticed 4 "n"s in the last few year. I usually can spot them quickly and can avoid getting involved in their game. What a blessing

[tajhayes]

I just "walked away" frm a narcissist tht found it 2 hard 2 B considerate towards ANYONE & I just CN'T B around someone who has put themselves on some kinda pedestal & feels they can do ppl any kinda way

[anneaires]

My question is did the narcissist ever even "like, " the person, at any point, or was it all a grand illusion from the get anything ever real or do these people have zero feelings they human?

[keithkerrigan]

I was in a friend ship relationship with a narcissistic for 7 yrs. Then I ran across your videos. An with in a year. I am now.
NO CONTACT an free. My soul is coming g back.
Thank you. I love you for sharing.

[anonimous]

My borderline ex called me a narcissist when I could stand her lies and anger and control. 💔

[MaryTongx]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her