Why People Treat You Like Shit and are Disrespectful to You

The more you give, the more they want. The Ego has this entitlement that becomes a monster

[icy-hearted-angel]

My "catchphrase" the past 10 years or so has been "People don't care about what is being for them until it stops being done for them." Then they show how self entitled they are & they become nasty.

[jamiewilliams]

Since being spiritual I've learnt to protect myself from frustrated and rude people, I must say that the covid lockdowns have made some people angry towards others

[SuperSausage]

When you help others and they treat you like crap that's plain narcissistic manipulative abuse towards you, genuine loving people don't treat you like crap...

[michaelbrantley.]

When you help others they treat you like garbage 🗑️ this is why i don't like helping others they're full of it i protect myself from that negative vibe i forgive folks that doesn't mean i don't appect their behaviour or i don't trust them at all that will never happen with me i forgive them for me so i can let go and i move on with my life.

[samsimpleton]

I called out my *friend* for being rude. I'm constantly driving her places and doing things for her and being there for her emotionally. The first time I called her out she decided to tell me its my problem and to not say sorry. I'm done with her. This video gives me closure of the reasons why people like her mistreat good friends like me. I deserve more.

[kosmins]

Damn it's nice to know other people out there have the same issue...thanks for sharing it really helps

[strandedinanisland]

I remember having a very hard time at the university with my studies, failed courses. Instead of asking for help I went out and helped a friend who repeatedly disrespected me, treated me like shit and was never there for me. Yeesh. I gave to someone repeatedly that they never appreciated. He wants more. Bitch bye. I deserve more and better. I made a mistake in giving it, now it is upto me to correct it.

[spacecloud]

Lady what you 're talking about isn't just ego.... it's plain narcissism. People with ego don't just get endlessly manipulative to test your tolerance and see when you're going to give up to eventually give them what they want. That's what narcissistic people think like "what more can I get from that person...?"

[Purba-bxbd]

My own family treats me like a doormat. It's not physical abuse. It's just that they think that I'm can't do anything or I'm not worthy enough and I'm ugly. They are always telling hurtful words. My sis just watches this and dosent even stand up for me! She just laughs along with my family (u can't blame me if I say I hate my sis) i never actually knew why so this is the reason why I'm here.
These mean jokes need to stop and this is hurting me mentally! I literally haven't done anything :(

[BBFCCO]

Regarding wives who are disrespected by husbands. In my case I was literally trained to take shit from men, despite being a fierce fighter for years...to the point that when I got married, they made sure NEVER to support me or make me know if I had issues in my marriage, I was basically on my own. My husband is generally a nice guy, but very invalidating. I feel isolated and powerless. I can not live in peace because I am constantly battle for my son, to be heard and respected. When you don't have a foundation to fall back on, when you don't have supportive people to rely on, when you are not heard and encouraged to be your own person, when you live in fear, then some people unconsciously or consciously exploit this. If I was self-reliant, I don't believe this would be as much as an issue because I could get serious and even leave. The system is so bad that if I left, I would end up in the street. Imagine living a life where you feel that you can accomplish so much but because of your circumstances, you are held back and told that the problem is you. So I want to say that people who blame others for being a doormat are really not understanding the issue. I wish there would be more financial, housing and social supports for people like me because the reality is that there is not. I would like people to have a little more compassion and understanding but it seems like a stretch.

[nancydrew]

Having healthy boundaries and not worry about what people think when you set those boundaries. They'll learn not to come at you a certain way because you have boundaries.

[FrankieCarter]

It's to try to get up under your skin. And that ego is off the chain. And they feel like mind fucking you.

[shesaidoceanxoxo]

I’m dealing with this at school. I usually want people to like me so I do anything for that, and people keep treating me worse and worse and worse. Thank you for these words. I’m going to start treating myself with the love and respect I very much deserve.

[jammyjay]

Exactly, we tend to put ourselves out for others, but they don't do this for us... I have distance myself from friends now that use me...

[stitcheeroz]

Worst experience in life when i gave everything to my ex and at the end of the day he treated my like a doormat .. I feed his ego so much..
But now im trying to fucos on my self for better...i don't allow anyone to treat me like what my ex did. Not anymore!

[whyyousaythatjazzradio]

YOUR WORDS ARE A GIFT FROM GOD THANK YOU

[marxxmanmalcolmdixon]

I soooo need to hear this. My family treats me like shit all the time.Im so messed up I don't feel confident at all..

[charlottemyers]

Good for you! I'm 58 and have done this ALLLL my life! I am learning ALOT about narcissist and maybe by chance you have surrounded yourself by the same kind of people. We don't find them, these leeches find us!

[SnoopyJoshua]

The worse is the good guy is seen as the bad guy...

Ego = evil = part of Satan's kingdom but you know what do I know.

[Incredible]

I learned it the very hard way. Loving and respecting my alcoholic Ex husband for 10 years who treated me horribly. I was expecting the love and respect back but received nothing in return except cheating, lying and backstabbing. Lesson to all women or men : if your partner is not putting effort into marriage, treats you horrible and lock his or her phone, absent from home most of the time . That means he or she is already living a double life and cheating on you. Don’t trust them and save your life by separating yourself from emotional abuse. It takes very long time to heal from emotional abuse so if you find these traits these alcoholics combined with narcissistic personality don’t stop taking from you. They expect from you more and more . They separate you from your family and friends. So stop 🛑 giving, and start giving the love and attention to yourself, go out with friends, treat yourself spa, restaurant, and join other positive people who lift you up. Stop giving to these monsters who never 👎 learn to love and give. Love ❤️ and light