How does he know she’s the one? (Part 1)

[deliteful]

It’s amazing how “some” men want women to look a certain way and most don’t have that same energy for themselves.

[Beebeetaylor]

I’m 23 and I started my fitness journey at 20, when I tell you that men are very visual ?!?! It’s crazy what type of men you get and how they treat you when you take care of yourself physically. And that’s just facts.

[LaTrav]

I've been watching you the way you used to watch Zig truly are my big brother in Christ, I appreciate you!

[abby-hvll]

Being feminine is very powerful. Usually, guys want to marry a woman who owns her femininity just like woman want to marry a strong masculine guy. it honestly relates all back to science. Keep yourself clean, presentable, smelling good and dressed up. it’s really not that hard and it’s quite fun. If you want a man who looks nice you will have to do your part as well ❤️

[tiffanyd.]

Also too, when a woman feels better about her weight and body, she exudes more security and confidence which also encourages more attention towards her.

[angelicaangel]

I would much rather be the woman who appeals to him physically on first sight rather than someone who grows on him over time. Eventually he would see someone who is his physical ideal and then what 😐.

[kyshac]

You lose weight for yourself, not because you think a man will marry you. Because there are overweight women getting married everyday. And women who are not overweight struggling to find a man, let alone one to marry them.

[ms.whitt]

Dear Ladies...🗣️ Get In The Gym, Get It Right, Get It Tight!🎯💯

[contrinadurant]

How are we supposed to really want these men? I don't see any regular guy that I think is an Adonis. Why such high standards for a woman's look but not for their own? We are human. We are not some Barbie doll on the shelf. What about when they have these pot bellies and erectile dysfunction? Do they want us to desire them? PLEASE

[Aarona_TheVirgo]

Tony you are on point in this video but I JUST CANNOT BELIEVE PEOPLE DON’T KNOW THIS🤷🏽‍♀️ men know what they want and if you’re what he wants he will take action and make space for you in his life and when he doesn’t you just have to accept you’re not what he wants and it’s his loss💯

[Wealthybaby]

God said Adam LOOKED upon eve, I knew at a very young age that this would be the case lol. Men are visual, that will never change, no matter who doesn’t like it. I honestly don’t mind it. I personally don’t like really attractive men, they come off undercover or head gassed up. But because I don’t care for looks as much, I expect a man to be a provider, and to put more effort in his appearance

[palmtreemrs]

It’s so interesting that so many men judge women physically when most men are overweight. I say this as a woman who gets a lot of male attention and they make comments about my looks and body but theirs isn’t perfect. They think it’s a compliment or use as a pick up line, but It’s annoying at this point.

[shannawharton]

Sometimes truth hurts but is most needed thanks

[coiledbydesign]

I think all males start off as visual creatures. Grown men move beyond that, grown boys can't get past it. Still I see and receive the message as given, all the while accepting that as a woman, I'll never fully understand how men think.

[angelamurray]

Tony I cannot agree enough, I'm 35 years old and you said this is painful for us women to hear about certain things in our life we need to get together weight, money, All the above. I've been married since I was 22 years old to my husband and my weight been up and down up and down and no he never said anything about it but I always felt not good or feeling down and I couldn't be my best, for me or him, soon as I went to the gym started eating healthier going to bed early getting sleep, body started to change I felt more good I started waking him up extra early, as I started to change he started to change as well. So this conversation is painful but it's very serious and is very necessary. Some of us women don't want to believe it.🙏🦋

[debbieg]

I appreciate you being a part of helping people know the truth 🦋🙏🏽

[michellefiery]

It’s the same as women wanting men who are well off financially, which means that he can take care of her and the future children. No, men are not shallow. No, women are not gold diggers. It’s natural instinct.

[peach]

This is so true. I met my fiancé after I had lost 30 lbs. he looked at me straight in my eyes our first date and told me I was the girl he dreamed about when he was a kid. Same face SAME BODY. He has always been obsessed with my face and just stares at me every chance he gets. I’ve been told I was beautiful my whole life but had very low self esteem and self worth bc my weight yo-yos up and down every year. He’s the first man that the first moment he locked eyes with me I truly felt when he said I was the most beautiful woman he’d ever seen. And that I would be his wife someday. Just like that and he was on a mission lol. But over the last year I’ve gained 10-15 lbs of happy weight in 2 years and Hv had trouble motivating myself to get it off bc of a back injury. He’s been nice about it but recently he just been telling me to work through the pain lol. He says it’s not my weight and that he wants me to be healthy but he’s so sweet I know that’s what he means. this was my wake up call and motivation i needed to lose the weight Today and work through the pain!

[judithstevens]

Well Tony. I am a woman but GREW up with 6 brothers. When a man TRULY falls in love WITH a woman. She can be a TROLL, a 4X4 ( 4ft high & 4ft wide). BUT in HIS eyes she is Marilyn Monroe.
Same goes FOR women. BUT the ugly truth IS most people DON'T wait FOR there TRUE LOVE. That what YOU are talking about IS partnerships. NOT TRUE LOVE. I DESIRE MY TRUE LOVE. Money & looks fade for everyone. YOU NEED substance TRUE LOVE to last FOR a HAPPY UNION....

[Themorningstar]

All I can say is Thank you. You are like a big brother telling it like it is. 🙏🏼