5 Secret Physiological Ways To Tell A Girl Is Into You

Have you ever noticed a chick staring at you and wondered what she was thinking? Does she think you’re cute? Has she spotted some leftover lettuce in your teeth from lunch? If your fly is down? Trying to tell if a woman likes you by looking at her is like trying to teach your cat a backflip. Pretty unrealistic. Women have mastered the art of mixed signals and playing hard to get. So trying to tell if a woman likes you just by a glance is a pretty difficult, if not impossible, feat. Women will, however, send subtle signs that indicate that they’re interested in you with more than just a look. And that is what this video is all about: The subtle physiological signs that let you know what a woman is thinking about you.
Hey guys, for those of you who don’t know me -- I’m Kate Spring. A dating and relationship coach from the west coast of Canada. If you’re new to my channel, welcome. And for those of your returning, welcome back. Before I dive into the nitty gritty details of this video, be sure to subscribe to my channel and ring the little bell where you can stay up to date with my latest videos and you can then leave all of your questions in the comments section below.
Quick question, how do you usually tell if a woman likes you? If she looks at you? or if she smiles at you? Take the poll and let’s see how you all tell if someone likes you.
If you haven’t got a clue, relax because women have been encouraged to be coy and play hard to get for centuries with the notion that romantic uncertainty increases attraction, and it does. But don’t remain uncertain. There are signs that give a clear indication of interest because today body language is a topic widely observed and studied. In fact, we’re now able to interpret slight changes in a woman’s body that can reveal her true feelings and motivations. Unlocking the mystery of a woman’s attraction can be as simple as looking for these 5 physiological indicators of interest.

1. Her pupils dilate when she speaks to you:
You know the saying that “the eyes are the window to the soul.” I think it should be, “the eyes are the window to the libido.” I once thought that this was a fallacy, a myth circulated by one of the original pick up artists, but, upon looking more deeply into the topic, I was pleasantly surprised that there is considerable research that supports the idea that there is a biological response to attraction. The studies found that our pupils dilate up to three times the regular size when we see something stimulating, exciting or interesting in order to take in more of the pleasing surrounding.
In fact, women in 16th century Italy would take this medicine named “belladonna,” which would keep their pupils dilated because dilated pupils were seen as more attractive and seductive.
It follows, then, that when you want to tell if a woman likes you, see if her pupils are dilated when she’s talking to you. It’s also important to note here that if you’re in a dark room, her pupils will enlarge as a simple fact that there is not enough light in the room. So try to see it in different lighting.

2. Her feet are crossed:
One of the physiological ways to tell that a woman is interested in you, not that she wants to marry and have children with you, but that she’s interested in at least talking to you, if she is standing facing you and her feet are crossed.

When someone is uncomfortable their feet generally don’t point towards the person with whom they’re speaking. Their feet tend to point away, and only their torso is facing their conversation partner. Subconsciously, their feet are preparing for them to exit the conversation. However, on the flip side of this, when someone’s feet are pointed towards you, that means that they are engaged in the conversation and are in no rush to get away. And an even better sign is when a woman’s feet are crossed. When her feet are crossed, it’s much harder to make a quick getaway. This is a sign that a woman is essentially planting herself in this spot and is engaged in her conversation with you, which is a great sign.
So look at her feet, are they pointed towards you, or are they crossed? If so, take note that this is a subconscious response that she is interested in you and this interaction.

[russellmuscle]

Actually I've successfully taught a cat to backflip

[tracyhawley]

Quantum physics isn't near as hard to understand.

[Fatalzyntax]

0:20 "Women have mastered the art of mixed signals and playing hard to get."


I've never liked and subscribed so fast in my life.

[SS_Anubiss]

Just trust your gut feeling most of the time it’s right

[weeevan]

you gotta attract the woman first before you start looking for those indicators of interest.

[jayaseto]

Her eyes feel like she’s staring into my soul haha

[gxwpmpt]

KATE, you pupils are very small. Does that mean you are not into me?

[hossphoenix]

She also mostly is calculating the resources that will be available to her.

[nixale]

I don't feel lucky if a woman contacts me first. Lets get real here, most of these girls are lucky to even be in my presense. I have worked hard all my life, have made sacrificies all my life to build a business I can be proud of. What have most of these women done other than spend time looking pretty so that they can attract guys. I focus on growing everyday in all areas of my life and I should consider myself lucky if a woman contacts me first?. Give me a break.

[westfieldartworks]

It's funny how accurate this is. It's strange, but I can still kind of remember or sense conversations and interactions with women from years ago that I was trying to meet and date, where looking back, I don't remember seeing any of these positive body language markers; and sure enough, we never ended up dating or getting past a first date. And that small minority of women that did like me, ...pretty much all these markers were there. Amazing. And I'm not sure how I can remember this....but I can; particularly the part about laughing with me and looking at me while she's doing it, and several of these other points. I'm not sure how the brain registers and remembers these things.. Btw Kate, your clear and concise style of delivery for this information really helps!

[jamieseiple]

Thanks to this video I don't have a clue about women.

[lilliampumpernickle]

Pretty hard to see if her eyes dilate if they're a very dark brown 😕

[ladislaskrstic]

how can I spot a person's dilating pupils when she's like 100ft away?

[doug]

I can’t express how much your videos have helped me. I feel like you’re a trusted friend. 🙏🏼

[maxamillion]

I feel like it's a gut feeling almost, it develops the more confident you get, like I had a feeling last week that this girl was into me by the way she acted around me. Sure enough when I left she told my friend I was really hot and she wanted to get to know me. I'm not into her but I was happy to know that I'm starting to get the hang of this stuff. Keep up the good work Kate!

[ChaosFragrances]

Great job Kate! Ever since I've started studying and researching videos on body language, I've felt my interactions with women improve drastically. It can be hard to get in the habit to look for signs like these at first, but once you do you'll start seeing them everywhere. It's a game changer for sure. Just saw the Breaking Bad reference, oh yeah!

[GGSprductions]

When I think back to the girl I recently was talking to, almost all the things on the list could be checked...after a fb stalk she happens to have a boyfriend, fml lol

[natedelaunay]

Right so, what if I'm getting all of these signs, but the next day none of them and it alternates like that.
Also, on top of those she gives proper flirty comments to me, saying I have really beautiful eyes like a Disney character and saying I have a beautiful face and saying how I'm cute. She told me near the start of the friendship she wasn't interested romantically and it's been a while since then and we have progressed as friends quite deeply and I'm sending the best signals I can. What do I do in such a situation because I'm genuinely baffled.

[jstone]

Although my cats are trying to flip it’s not looking good. The eyes have all of the info needed, the go-nogo happens quite quickly. But the hair twirling is always a sure fire sign of interest

[josephcordero]

Lol women don't ever look at me or talk to me