Overcoming Inferiority In Polygyny

ABOUT US:
We are Coach Nazir, Coach Fatimah, & Coach Nyla. We are considered Black Americans and we were all raised as Christians. We have a keen understanding of the many facets of American culture and the ongoing challenges it presents.

Each of us accepted Islam as young adults and are practicing Muslims who follow the final revelation, The Quran, and the sunnah of the Last & Final Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (sws).

Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla 13 years ago and their polygynous journey began.

Since then, 4 more children have been born, another son by Coach Fatimah and 3 sons with Coach Nyla who has added 2 bonus children (step-children) to the family making a total of 12 children.

We had very little support and even slimmer resources when we began our journey, so things were done by trial and error and there were lots of errors!

However, being proactive in our growth and commitment to the success of the family, we figured it out and decided to be a resource for others who may be experiencing similar difficulties.

We reverse-engineered the methods that we found worked best. We chose to remove any excuses from those who say they didn't have a way to learn how to practice it correctly.

ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
This channel is a place where we invite you to travel with us on our personal development journey to develop better and more fulfilling relationships whether you are single, married in monogamy, practicing or looking to practice polygyny.

We share a lot about polygyny and its dynamics because our teachers and spiritual leaders have failed us in this area and polygyny doesn't get its fair share of airtime. We want to be a healthy resource because people are still practicing it without practical education.

As a man, we help provide guidance in areas of leadership, financial IQ, emotional intelligence, mental awareness, and overall levels of competence and confidence.

As a woman, we help women connect to their femininity, learn how to navigate differing dynamics, how to be attractive as a whole, and how to craft a life of fulfillment no matter the challenges.

We help committed people go from surviving to thriving. If you are dedicated to growth, love, and connection then understand that the truth may set you free, but it may upset you first.

We tell the truth, share best practices, and also learn from our community.

ABOUT YOU:
If you are a man or woman who is interested in becoming the best version of yourself and in turn developing rich, fulfilling, and joyful relationships with others, then you are in the right place.

If you are looking to grow, learn more, and shine when there seems to be so much darkness around, then you are on the right channel.

Here are a few ways we want men to benefit from our channel:
1. Better your character
2. Raise your leadership ability
3. Increase your financial intelligence
4. Expand your emotional capacity
5. Develop mental strength and agility

Here are a few ways we want women to benefit from our channel
1. Better your character
2. Increase your femininity and maturity
3. Understand your female supportive and nurturing roles
4. Learn how to bring peace, joy, and beauty through sophistication
5. Increase your emotional, mental, and spiritual intelligences

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Salaam/Peace,
Your Favorite Relationship & Polygyny Coaches
Nazir, Fatimah, & Nyla

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[taliahaamatulhaqq]

As Salaamu Alaikum Coach Nyla,
Masha Allah, It takes a REAL WOMAN, MUSLIMAH AND A HIGH CALIBER WOMAN OF CHARACTER, to present the video that you presented today. This video touched the heart ❤️ deeply. You have REALLY HELPED WOMEN AND MEN in polygyny to see polygyny from an incoming wife’s point of view. I was in tears 😢to think of the courage that Allah Ta’ala blessed you with, to express your vulnerability, strength, determination and trust in Allah Ta’ala. Also, for Allah Ta’ala to help you, your fabulous co-wife, magnificent husband and ALL of your beautiful children, in the 12+ years of marriage in polygyny, for remaining steadfast and true to your beliefs regardless. Subhan Allah!!! OPR will go down in history as the first high caliber platform to fully address polygyny, as a modern day solution that will solve the ancient old problem(s) of adultery, fornication and prostitution!!!
Jazaki Allah Khiar for ALL of the hard work and effort that the OPR TEAM provides on a daily basis, Alhumdullilah. Yeah OPR!!! 😊🎉❤🎊🥇🎈🙌🏾👏🏽🤲🏽👍🏽⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[pist]

I refused a man that wanted to marry me because he said he would want a second wife in the future. It was so hard for me because I wanted to marry him so bad. But I couldn't deal with the feelings of one day not feeling good enough or not loved anymore. Maybe jealousy. I was scared to be neglected as someone that was neglected as a child. I was also very scared of other people's judgement, my family's included. Sometimes I'm still thinking did I make the right decision by refusing this man? But honestly it seems SO HARD I don't think I can. Wish all the best to you and your family ❤

[MamaKai]

Found you all last night and it couldnt have come at a better time. You have shared so much that has been helpful. I'm in the early days of my polygynous marriage and coming from workds where its unheard of so i actually have very little support and no one to talk to who knows from experience and can share that wisdom and peace you all do. I plan on spending alot more time visiting with you all!

[ishabarrie]

Thank you so much sis, i am going through they same inferiority presently, sometime i feel that is because am more younger

[blackqueen]

You are amazing sister thank you for sharing this with us💙

[kaltunahmed]

I would love to hear more about your story and how you overcame any struggles because I’m really struggling being the second wife and I just got married in the beginning of this year. I got married to him with her permission. However, I just can’t shake having sabotaging thoughts of inferiority and if he’s giving more to her than he is to me… I’m in a total mess and living away from my hometown to live in his state doesn’t help either cause I’m really alone with my thoughts and I’m pregnant with my first child(in general) with him… someone like myself could really use your side of the story

[aisham]

SubhanAllah! السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Coach Nyla. Take your time and do you. Time will strengthen a person. May الله help and guide you in whatever you decide to do in your life moving forward! 🧕اللهم امين

[cheronross-weems]

As salaam alaikum did you know yall husband didn't tell Fatimah about you getting married til after it was done and did u and him have a conversation about it how did you personally feel about that.