STOP DOING THIS TO YOUR SPOUSE He Stops Loving

Sheikh explains hadith about a family allah loves
NEVER DO THIS TO YOUR HUSBAND

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[maxk]

If you want a wife like Khadija. Be like mohammed (pbuh)

[r.ghaffar]

Both husband and wife want to be respected. It shouldn’t just be one sided. Respect goes both ways for sure. I’ve seen marriages fail and end terribly because a husband keeps disrespecting his wife and vice versa.

[jazzstyles]

But as far I know, prophet Muhammad never had an ego problem. Aren't we taught from the very childhood as a muslim to avoid ego and boasting?

[maryammirza]

Sheikh Yasir, you could have covered this topic from both angles..men need more advice on how to be good husbands because majority of men turn out to be more narcassist than women statistically. Yes and ego is the big problem in men.

[razyr]

If a wife is correct and she directing her husband to right path..does that mean altering his big ego? Husband should also give respect to his wife not just love and nurture

[sakinahalkayyal]

Respect goes both ways! The example of the taking the wrong turn on the high way does not portray doubt. It could be noted as the wife trying to help...Very weak example to mention as doubting the husband's judgement!

[sumaiyahalam]

Jazakallahu Khairan kaseer Sheik!!! I knew i wanted to respect my husband. But i didn't know what counted as respect and disrespect.
I have been thinking about it. So happy for explaining the men's perspective. I understand now. I would like to add a few more from my reflections..
1. Always reminding him of his past mistakes
2. Answering back in a loud rude voice

[sweetsoul]

Because now a wife correcting her husband is seen as a lack of respect? "You just let him make that mistake so that he wont get angry at anyone." If you constantly associate the childish side of his ego to his authority then he will just ruin the relationship because apparently if things doesnt go his way, even if they are wrong, nobody should fix it because men have "big egos".

[kitt]

If i kept quiet while my husband went the wrong way, he would get really angry at me for not speaking up.

[khxdijah]

absolutely right. In all religions, sciences and western dating/marriage, the man must feel like he is a charge. And as a feminine woman, you allow him to take charge and take care of you. There’s a specific way to communicate with men, and put your suggestions to him. Their egos are very sensitive too. As women, we are actually emotionally stronger than them. And if a man disrespects you, absolutely tell him. If you have boundaries, a good man will respect that too. Allahs religion is pure, & satisfies both the sciences and psychology of a man and a woman. It is the truth

[aminulhussain]

One thing I don't agree with is having an Ego, our Prophet Muhammad (sallahu alayhi wa sallam) did not have an ego and he was a man.

To be honest, both spouses should try to learn their spouses likes and dislikes, we are all human beings and we all have different emotions.

But the role should be observed as Allah has commanded in the Qur'an.

We should try to be like Ali (RA) and Fatima (RA).

[sharaazahmed]

Salaam dear brothers and sisters, I am facing hardship, Please make Dua for me, Jazak Allah Ul Khair.

[MC-HW]

Recite ayat kursi after every salah.
It was narrated that Abu Umaamah said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death.”

[ashaalexis]

Alot of men dont want wife they want mothers... how can a woman respect a man who not even respecting her or giving her the rights she is entitled too?

[Preciousever]

Sometimes after giving all that respect that the shaykh said there are men who still don't give respect and love back

[k-lyricalliyana]

is it me or in this video the Sheikh was literally presenting men as literal children? I am sorry if i come across rude but dont tell your husband if he is wrong becuz he might start to argue? and will hurt his ego? i treat my baby brother like that...like even if he is doing something that he isnt suppose to, i dont do anything cuz if not he will start to create chaos, so youre telling wives to be like this with their husbands? How can you put someone, who is that sensitive, to be in charge of the household? I am not arguing that men arent or shouldn't be in charge, yes they are, but they arent the boss and cant just do whatever they want, if they want respect they gotta give respect as well.

[farikalba]

this is a discription of a relationship of enemys not husband and wife.
May Allah protect all of Our brothers n sisters from a relationship like this
(sorry for my english )

[sparklelight]

Ego and pride are inner deceases. This is not right to respect that. If a men/woman is wrong, he/she is wrong. Husband and wife always have a open communication. Being fair an honest is a must. If you listen to each other, than you have both side respect.

[shaiqakhan]

Woww"MEN HAVE BIG EGOS" the way he tried to validate men for having "BIG EGOS" and how we should not have any objection regarding that! Let men be self deluded, let men choose the wrong way and ladies don't try to make him go the right way because "MEN HAVE BIG EGOS"

[tubazafar]

I dont find this example right, that if a driving person(husband) miss the exit or get on wrong path. The wife is suppose to stay silent? Because it will hurt the decision making power of his husband (basically his ego). This is not partnership at all.