Polygyny: Should You Talk To Your Co-wife?

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We are Coach Nazir, Coach Fatimah, & Coach Nyla. We are considered Black Americans and we were all raised as Christians. We have a keen understanding of the many facets of American culture and the ongoing challenges it presents.

Each of us accepted Islam as young adults and are practicing Muslims who follow the final revelation, The Quran, and the sunnah of the Last & Final Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (sws).

Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla 13 years ago and their polygynous journey began.

Since then, 4 more children have been born, another son by Coach Fatimah and 3 sons with Coach Nyla who has added 2 bonus children (step-children) to the family making a total of 12 children.

We had very little support and even slimmer resources when we began our journey, so things were done by trial and error and there were lots of errors!

However, being proactive in our growth and commitment to the success of the family, we figured it out and decided to be a resource for others who may be experiencing similar difficulties.

We reverse-engineered the methods that we found worked best. We chose to remove any excuses from those who say they didn't have a way to learn how to practice it correctly.

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We share a lot about polygyny and its dynamics because our teachers and spiritual leaders have failed us in this area and polygyny doesn't get its fair share of airtime. We want to be a healthy resource because people are still practicing it without practical education.

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[leeclaire]

Subhan Allah, you sisters had me on the floor laughing at the 7 marker.

[hajaratikyume]

Jazakillahu khairan for all ur coaching. Its really helpful

[rachaele]

Thank you guys !!! You’re making this doable ❤❤❤

[aisham]

SubhanAllah! I think you guys can communicate with each other as co-wives but, keep some things to yourselves, that's between you and الله. Everyone has a private side to themselves that they don't feel no one should know but الله. Leave it like that! May الله continue to bless you guys to get along as one big happy family and don't let the shaytan come between you guys and mess things up! الله اكبر🧕👳‍♂️🧕

[eyiramdzebubu]

Please help me to be peace with my co wife and love her

[hajaratikyume]

5:53 is it OK for the husband to display affection In front of the subsequent wife just to protect the initial wife's feelings?

[deannegrossano]

MashAllah great video. ☺️ I want to communicate with my co-wife but there is a language barrier between us. She speaks Arabic and I speak English, although I know some Arabic it is not my primary language. Any advice on how to navigate this obstacle? 😔

[ziyadshabazz]

I would like to know do you both live under the same roof, some don't want to live together. If separate what is the distance between them. Peace

[kabirahqasim]

What if your co wife curse you anytime she sees you and husband is not ready to address it

[ishabarrie]

Thank you very much my beautiful sisters but if your co wife vows never to accept you, what should you do in that situation

[cheronross-weems]

Is it okay not to want to know anything about subsequent wives