Polygyny: The Insufferable Co-wife!

ABOUT US:
We are Coach Nazir, Coach Fatimah, & Coach Nyla. We are considered Black Americans and we were all raised as Christians. We have a keen understanding of the many facets of American culture and the ongoing challenges it presents.

Each of us accepted Islam as young adults and are practicing Muslims who follow the final revelation, The Quran, and the sunnah of the Last & Final Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (sws).

Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla 13 years ago and their polygynous journey began.

Since then, 4 more children have been born, another son by Coach Fatimah and 3 sons with Coach Nyla who has added 2 bonus children (step-children) to the family making a total of 12 children.

We had very little support and even slimmer resources when we began our journey, so things were done by trial and error and there were lots of errors!

However, being proactive in our growth and commitment to the success of the family, we figured it out and decided to be a resource for others who may be experiencing similar difficulties.

We reverse-engineered the methods that we found worked best. We chose to remove any excuses from those who say they didn't have a way to learn how to practice it correctly.

ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
This channel is a place where we invite you to travel with us on our personal development journey to develop better and more fulfilling relationships whether you are single, married in monogamy, practicing or looking to practice polygyny.

We share a lot about polygyny and its dynamics because our teachers and spiritual leaders have failed us in this area and polygyny doesn't get its fair share of airtime. We want to be a healthy resource because people are still practicing it without practical education.

As a man, we help provide guidance in areas of leadership, financial IQ, emotional intelligence, mental awareness, and overall levels of competence and confidence.

As a woman, we help women connect to their femininity, learn how to navigate differing dynamics, how to be attractive as a whole, and how to craft a life of fulfillment no matter the challenges.

We help committed people go from surviving to thriving. If you are dedicated to growth, love, and connection then understand that the truth may set you free, but it may upset you first.

We tell the truth, share best practices, and also learn from our community.

ABOUT YOU:
If you are a man or woman who is interested in becoming the best version of yourself and in turn developing rich, fulfilling, and joyful relationships with others, then you are in the right place.

If you are looking to grow, learn more, and shine when there seems to be so much darkness around, then you are on the right channel.

Here are a few ways we want men to benefit from our channel:
1. Better your character
2. Raise your leadership ability
3. Increase your financial intelligence
4. Expand your emotional capacity
5. Develop mental strength and agility

Here are a few ways we want women to benefit from our channel
1. Better your character
2. Increase your femininity and maturity
3. Understand your female supportive and nurturing roles
4. Learn how to bring peace, joy, and beauty through sophistication
5. Increase your emotional, mental, and spiritual intelligences

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Salaam/Peace,
Your Favorite Relationship & Polygyny Coaches
Nazir, Fatimah, & Nyla

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[joyful]

Reflective listening is a powerful tool when what is going on with your co wife is NOT your problem. I can choose to not say anything, repeat back what I heard so she knows I understand what she is sharing.. say.. I hear you, I get you, I understand being very clear that does not mean you agree. It just means you respect where she is coming from. I love reflective listening . It is not always about me and my feelings. I emotionally detach when it is her problem. I am not responsible for her emotional, physical, or spiritual well-being!that is not just the dynamics of a co wife..it is for every relationship!

[sharifamoro]

Love you both . ❤ just trying be the same with my co wife but am finding it very difficult to forgive my self and let it go.

[cheronross-weems]

As salaam alaikum sis Fatimah you are and will continue to be blessed ❤

[sharifamoro]

Salma, coach faithma i really want to get into the queen edition but the price is too much for me. I really need to speak to you . One on One ..

[кошк]

The Quran says clearly that a husband is unable to be perfectly even in everything, especially in his feelings.

That's just human nature and the Holy Book specifically underlines it.

How should women live knowing that their beloved husband doesn't feel the same amount of love towards them?

[sharifamoro]

I really want to win with my co wife and husband

[fransvanriessen]

Everything changes between co-wives is when the man decides that he wants to abstain from sex with his wives

[ShirinAyhan]

Salaam. I got involved with a Muslim man who was polygamous. After two babies his first wife got super jealous and now he is not interested any more. I am a single mother with two babies and only have hope in Allah. It does not make sense to me why alot of Muslim women accept 99% of Islam but that 1% of men being polygamous they don't accept. 😢