How To Overcome Failure & Learn From Your Mistakes - Jordan Peterson

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[estherwilsongilbert]

Just did very badly in my winter exams. Its the first time I've ever failed one but I won't give up and to overcome this I'm here.

[asodorbobby]

I fucked up so bad. I lost everything I'd worked for. This is me trying hard to get back on my feet and it is so fucking hard!!!

A moonth later and I'm back on my feet. I'm never going back down.

[behzadmousavi]

The part he is talking about the pleasure of being miserable is so real, we all have seen those kind of people and even may have been with. The people who love being rejected and disrespected and if you take their misery from them, they are simply no one and have nothing to offer.

[DJLim]

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:

01:21 🧠 When faced with failure or mistakes, avoid self-destructive thoughts and behaviors.
03:11 📚 Analyze the specific areas that need improvement rather than assuming complete failure.
05:04 👂 When in conflict, aim for the minimum necessary intervention to avoid unnecessary enemies.
06:16 🤝 Acknowledge and praise the positive behaviors of others to encourage growth and development.
08:09 💔 Avoid jealousy and competition with loved ones; support their growth instead of holding them back.

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[vincentmangal]

Your the father everyone needs, but nobody deserves

[nickmann]

His point about winning arguments, leaving them no outs being a bad thing struck to my core.

[e-maestro]

From the comments one thing is clear, we all make mistakes, mistakes that can cost us our friendships, our source of income, our health or more. Something I have learned is that when you make a mistake, the first course of redemption is accountability. Responsible for your actions, accountable for the mistakes and the results of them. However, the next is how you can improve and continue to grow from there. I’ve made many mistakes in life that cost me all three of those things mentioned above, however I am slowly turning things around, and you can to, and one day those mistakes will be the experience that will help someone who needed the guidance when you once did.

[shrayrai]

Felt like a failure yesterday, I hope this helps.

[tonytime]

Moral of the story: provide yourself with a solution for the future and move forward. Nit-picking your failure will serve nothing in fact it’s counter productive and no one gains anything from it.

[obinnaukoha]

Lost an great job at a great company because of my stupidity and ignorance. Sometimes I feel like literally jumping off a cliff or getting hit by a car.

[nonameneededd]

Couple things here:
Failure and mistakes are not just important but damn right essential for any growth to take place, how else do you grow, adapt and pivot through life?
Heres the stinger through, no matter what walks of life you come from, you will encounter that most if not all people are stuck in a loop of their own minds, because they have push back from their mistake and failures and not really dissect the whole situation to where and what needs to change in order for it not to happen again, instead they just do the same method expecting different results only leading to the beginning of the loop. They get caught up with not wanting to feel the uncomfortableness that comes with it that they then seeking that dopamine again because they want or hide themselves a remedy for what has happened to them!! You can see easily here why these loops take place.
Mistakes and failures should be teaching you to not do it again and grow and adapt into something new.

[MrJoelaus]

here after I failed my momma. I love you more than anything and I feel so sorry that I did what I did, I hope you can feel that I’m a better person because of you now

[hireshdeshpande]

Here after non getting a job after an internship. Got some reality checks from manager. We will bounce back baby 💪🙏

[momarmma]

I have passed so many things in my life however I've gotton too comfterable in my own success today I had the harshest reality check failing my driving test in a couple of minutes at the age of 21, though I was miserable for a while it was the wake up call I needed to apply for my dream job work harder than I already do because its not progress if your not comfterable, pass with the best grades I have ever gotten and will secure my dream job by journaling, exercising, reading, cleaning my room and other bad habits that I have picked up as result of comfort. Will keep you guys updated in two months

[Lubaneca]

Everything resonated with me... Thank you, Jordan, and thanks to the uploader!

[denniswilliam]

Thanks for this vídeo, just what i needed to hear

[johnrainsman]

I know I have learned from my mistake. I made a worker feel bad about his. I’m a high-ranking chef at a university and I was told by an employee that her coworker (let's call him Will) had been touching crew members too much. Not _that_ type of touch, just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. He was always very outgoing and tactile at work. I took him to my colleague’s office and told him he shouldn't touch anyone without consent. Just handshakes. I said we needed the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, that he pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school. How he shouldn't tell his stories because they may be inappropriate to some degree to the other workers; funny to him only. I think he’s about 25. He seemed pretty quiet and uncomfortable during my speech. Answered a question or two with a nod and headshake.

*(Warning: Graphic Content)* That night, Will got shot by a woman, who said "Your time is up. This is for your unfiltered joke yesterday. HeII, this is for _everyone_ who knows you. Nobody WANTS you. You deserve to DlE!" And then she stuck a knife into his stomach. *Luckily* the police arrived to arrest her and save Will. He was treated at the hospital _just_ in time. But...what if he wasn't? What if our *_last_* moment was in the office? Yes, I needed to address his behavioral "issue, " but I should've been more respectful. More filter, less touching at work? Yeah, but compromise would've been fine. Like, only touching friendly coworkers he gets along great with. It's perfectly natural to causally touch or tap people *without* it being creepy. Will never meant to be that word. He just needed some limits, not all or nothing. I should’ve shown more patience and only given him a very brief and gentle talk in the hall, not a *firm lecture in the office* with his *boss present.* And I shouldn’t have asked her if there anything she wanted to add. So insensitive. Will never meant any discomfort or harm. He only meant to have fun with his coworkers. I made him feel bad, and the assaiIant made it much worse. I have to apologize to him whenever I can, for mishandling the situation. His assauIt is the only thing that made realize what was right.

[PinkYellowGreen]

I was never a failure in life until I started experiencing weird problems with technology and people began taking a weird interest in my life...I want to know why this began. Its been a huge obstacle for me!!!!

[MrDamning]

I failed my ex. I failed myself. I failed my parents who taught me to be better than that. I failed my friends who never thought I did what I did. Its funny that I can accept what I've done wrong but I can't accept that I have massively failed as a person.

[chriskrahn]

While controversial, Jordan is a wake up call