The Reason You Keep Failing

Often times when we fail, we blame it on ourselves. I believe that this is a very dangerous belief to have. So today I'm going to show you how to deal with failure and also give you some tips on overcoming the fear of failure itself. And I'll be doing this by showing you an alternative mindset that you can adopt.

Not having this mindset might be the reason why you keep failing. It's something that I personally use when dealing with failure - to keep myself motivated. It's something that also drastically increases your chances of getting to where you want - as it forces you to think strategically.

Intro: (00:00)
Your Current Belief: (00:16)
How To Break Out Of This Loop: (00:40)
The REAL Question + An Example: (01:42)
What You MUST DO: (02:50)
An Additional Tip: (03:30)
Important To Note + Sponsor: (03:54)

[juliuscaesart]

Definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.

[hamzaahmed]

I can relate. I'm a 29 year old security guard still living with my parents. I failed in the military, school and countless jobs. One of my problems is I care too much about what people think about me when in reality their not even thinking about me. I was in physical therapy program but flunked out but I regret giving up and shouldve just taken kinesiology again. Be persistent and learn from my mistakes. Don't be like me or you'll end up like me.

[ynmol]

I heard a quote that went
"If you aren't failing, you aren't trying hard enough"

[thepsychicspoon]

"It is possible to make no mistakes and still lose. That is not weakness. That is life".
-Picard TNG.

[Franz]

This… resonates with me a lot. I’m failing at schools because of procrastination, lack of focus on my tasks, relying on others to do their job even when I know that they won’t do and repeating the same mistakes before wallowing in self pity. I’m trapped in this quicksand of failure, the more I struggle, the more I sink further.

[EddieYettie]

Perfect timing. I was just starting to feel like a failure because I just can’t seem to win, no matter how much I try.

[JatinBhuyan]

Self-doubt is the cause which leading most people who can't believe in oneself to failure

[musickeyboardplayer]

"Failure in something after hardwork is better than not even trying "

~A random legend

[QuietlyMagnetic]

Not trying at all is so far below failure that it lives in another dimension.

[RuntT]

Always makes me happy when this guy uploads. PLEASE NEVER STOP!

[playmelobeats]

I’m at the point to where I don’t want to be alive anymore

[axullyikupa]

im so tired of trying. i keep trying and stressing over school and keep failing i dont wanna do it any more i keep trying

[SaurianStudios]

“I failed over and over in my life, that’s why I succeeded.” -Michael Jordan

[tanmaysubhash]

Action helps build resilience, inaction stokes fear.

[losasakarosa]

This resonates with me a lot. I always felt that grades came to others way easier than me and pitied myself for being naturally incapable when in reality all it was, was strategy and efficiency. I won’t give up and will keep going. Last year of high school before med school! :)

[AlexBlank]

Failure isn't bad, it's a regular part of life. Of course it's great if we manage to succeed, but we should get used to the fact that we will fail every now and then.

[mehmetgurdal]

"A goal without a plan is called delusion. You need a plan to achieve your goals "
Overhaul- My hero academia

[rickjansen]

I like the strategy, but my problem is that I'm addicted to the internet while needing the internet for work or school. So, I can't just turn it off like your junk food strat.

[jhailey]

This resonates me so much, I failed some chemistry classes and hated those exams even if I tried so hard to study. I hated it so much that I just didn't care with the subject. Pissed me so much lol

[joelrichmond]

Just a reminder: you can do everything right, make no mistakes, get everything perfect and still get fucked.

In these times failure is not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to get back up from it.