How To ATTRACT Without Chasing & Make Them DESIRE YOU

Energetically, the more someone chases someone else, the more the energy pushes them away. Now, when you make the changes that I'm gonna share with you in this video, everything changes.

You stop repelling that which you want. You allow the energy to come to you. And I'm gonna show you exactly how to do that. Now, the first thing to realize when it comes to this process of attraction is when you are attracting someone else, have you ever noticed this?

The more unattached you are, the more attractive that is. The more someone else is unattached, the more attractive they are to you. And think about it. The more someone wants you to like them, the more someone wants your approval, wants anything from you, the least likely you are to actually give it.

Isn't that interesting? It's interesting because what ends up happening is something that I learned from Alan Watts. It's called the backwards law. That is the more you try is the more you resist, the more you block.

The more you try to get people to like you, the more the energy is actually messed up and the less likely they are to actually like you. The more you try to control something in your life, the more out of control you feel, because the more things have to be a certain way and the more that then it emphasizes that feeling of not being in control.

Now, when it comes to at attracting love, one of the most attractive things you can do is actually be not attached. Now, what does that mean to be not attached? Now, to be not attached doesn't mean you're not engaged.

And you're like, "I wanna be engaged." Well, not that engaged, okay? It means you're not engaged. It doesn't mean that you're not engaged into the present moment. Because the thing when it comes to this whole dynamic is anything we make more important, anything we put on a pedestal, we immediately separate ourselves from it.

And I'll tell you from experience. People can feel when you put them on a pedestal. I know that just because of what I do for a living, being on YouTube and stuff like that. If I meet somebody and what happens is it's like there's an energy there where they want something.

They want my attention.They want me to do something. They want me to like listen to something. It's just an energy that is felt. And whereas when people talk to me just a regular person, it's so much easier for me to engage with people, but not that way of engaging.

So the dynamic here, and there's a saying of this, and I've noticed this about other people in my own life 'cause I've done the same exact thing where I put someone on a pedestal, create resistance, and then it depolarizes the dynamic.

Because remember this: If you treat someone like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan. So energetically, the key to this is to not to put people on a pedestal. It's not to put people and to think, "Oh my God, it'd be so amazing if they gave me this validation. They responded to my text or whatever."

When it comes to sexual polarity, if somebody put someone else's, "Oh my God, this person is amazing. I'm gonna put them all the way up here. If they were to respond and we were to go on this date and it was amazing, it would be great." We're making someone else the authority. Think about that.

And it doesn't feel good to be that authority. Some people like it, I will say that. There are people out there, maybe even that like have online presences or whatever. And they may get off on other people looking up to them and go, "You're so amazing. You are so phenomenal."
And they may like that, but it depolarizes the relationship.

And I found that, if anything, it's something that I'd rather just be on the same playing field with other people. Because a lot of times it's also an inauthentic neediness. I need something from you. And it's like codependency in a way.

Now, when it comes to sexual polarity though and sexual dynamics, so important to understand that what you wanna do, this is also like a lot of times putting someone else
and wanting something from them and even putting everything into the future.

"Ooh, it'd be amazing when I get their love because then we'd be on the same field. I can then feel worthy." And what it really is is it's looking to feel validated on the outside. It's looking for the outside to validate the inside.

But remember, the way reality works is it's a mirror. It is mirroring back to us that which we believe to be true. It is mirroring back to us our own expression. And if we feel and say, "I'm not enough. I'm not good enough.

[ArtByHazel]

No more chasing. No more attachment. Just BEING and feeling JOY and a heart filled with GRATITUDE.

Boom! Thou art magnetic and beautiful inside out. 🧲 ✨💖✨🧘‍♀️🦋🥂✨💥☘️

[amypanepento]

I read something before that said, "if you're living in the past you are depressed; if you are living in the future you are anxious, so live in the now and be happy"

[yourcalmplace]

- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this comment to know; Awakening is not changing who you are, but discarding who you are not ✨

[kerchank]

I like how the universe just sends messages you need to hear through people like Aaron. Thanks for this video Aaron

[ArthurMorgan-bqng]

I wish my brain and heart understand this quickly, without going through anymore pain 🥺

[Mickielicious]

I’ve had years of therapy and this video has made more impact than those years of therapy. Thank you

[Dray.TheChosen]

Your Rejection is the universe’s protection and redirection👁✅

[pinkypie]

Yup, I chased he ran.... And he was very hurtful with his words and breadcrumbs.😢

[octane_rl]

We attract who we are, a few years ago the cosmos conspired me to randomly meet the love of my life, within 5 min of meeting we felt like weve known each other forever, we both were in our own frame, both came with our cups filled, It is literally the perfect relationship, we deserve each other, and are worthy. A true gift. This video is 100% truth!

[iamgoddessoflove]

In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is when you put everyone else before you.
💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[Houseoftherisingsunbreda]

This is amazing, this is exactly what I feel and are doing. And I know I am. Sometimes when I am tired of chasing I find a sort of peace and then everything around me shifts. But sometimes it is hard to make mental/ emotionel shift.

[vivavidadela]

I know all of this. Been watching those videos for years and still got in the energy of chasing energetically and even physically when I met “the one”. It’s like you know all of that stuff but you still have to go through the process of desiring so much, getting tired of desiring and not receiving to then be able to let go. I wish I could apply this knowing from the moment I desire something or someone. And yes, although he is interested he is still resisting because I’m repelling him with my chasing-like energy.

[Spiritual_Gangsta]

That's Ez...Just Be Your Authentic Self, Your True-Self 🔥👑

[Samanmakeup]

I really fucking loveeee the way you recreate all this LOA content in your own little magical way. It’s very compelling!!!! Great work!!

[patriciataylor]

I love listening to you. I have never put myself first. It's exciting to try and do this. I'm in my seventies but at last I am doing the right thing for me. I don't regret how much I've helped people but now enough enough. Thank you 😊 💓

[christian]

The universe is surely sending me the information I have needed in this video. I'm understanding my progress in discovering who I am. I just want to add I can feel the energy in your quest to help others with this progression in life. Thanks for your guidance.

[furiosaningveryserious]

I love Aaron “s body and hand movements… 😂😂😂😂you are so comical in a good way I mean !!! Bringing me delight and lightened my heart !! Thank you love all of your voices… you know how to make us binge watching you hahahah 🥰

[candygracepacinio]

No more chasing! 😄 Thank you for this Aaron ❤

[Ethereal-sanctuary]

Finally i found a person who talk sense thank you for you bringing out this info, i figured it out long time ago, but it's always good to remind yourself and stay in the frame and pull the energy back .

[polcat]

I appreciate that we don't have to sit through or made to forward through some intro or show reel at the beginning of your Vids. You've got something to say and you crack on with it. My appreciation.