Narcissist Divorce Settlement Negotiation

How to Negotiate a Divorce Settlement With a Narcissist. How to plan for mediation with a narcissist? What techniques is my narcissistic spouse using during negotiation? How to negotiate with a narcissist?

How to Negotiate a Divorce Settlement With a Narcissist is Part Five.

Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
0:30 - Rule #1: Patience Wins Divorce Negotiations
2:10 - Eight Negotiation Tips for Divorcing the Narcissist
6:47 - Rule #2: Understand Machiavellian Negotiating Tactics
7:51 - Nine Negative Negotiating Tactics Used by Narcissists
14:06 - Conclusion

More resources on Divorcing a Narcissist:

Financial Abuse, Narcissists & Money: A Divorce Lawyer’s Perspective:

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[sharonjudd]

In the middle of a contentious divorce with a narcissist and watching the vid and when tactic 3 in the vid pops up, the video uses a quote from an expert lawyer on negotiating……it was my lawyer! Feeling a bit better. Hoping the clown and bullying tactics end soon. The only thing uglier than divorcing a narcissist is being married to one.

[momtolittlebaby]

After having 2 lawyers, i realize that there are some awful snakes out there who steal your money. I'm glad there are good lawyers out there like this one who posted this video who cares about people dealing with narcs.

[diddyherrera]

I went through a lot of financial crisis after my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money, bought my third house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college, just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing is a grand choice I made. Great video! Thanks for sharing

[peterredit]

This is just brilliant…
I am going through a very difficult divorce and my wife was always a difficult person so no surprise some of the letters from her lawyer.
They are well matched!!
I wish neither of us had to go through this and wish there was an easier way.
Wish me luck🍀

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[georgesontag]

If your a female with children, your going to get the house, children, furniture, savings, 1/2 491k, dog, alimony for 5 years or more. It does not matter who the narcissit is. The judge rules on the mothers side. Even more if the judge is female. The man becomes instantly homeless and owes 33% of his take home pay. Marriage is such a bad deal for the man.

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[osmanvincent]

I had one of the messiest divorce cases in my county about 45 years ago during the tender years doctrine time when males had zero chance of custody. I wanted equal time joint custody of our toddler daughter long before that was a known or commonly accepted option. She, the Ex- used her considerable charms and tears to persuade the court counselor and a court appointed psychologist and indirectly the judge that I molested our toddler daughter. She initially got everything she wanted and I got almost nothing. I laid low. Almost immediately, she started using me, a supposed child abuser, as an almost daily baby sitter and several overnights. I eventually was able to prove an extensive pattern of lying by the Ex via documentation and witnesses. Both the court appointed psychologist and the court counselor totally flipped. Seeing the writing on the wall, she then kidnapped our toddler daughter and disappeared for nine months.

I did not realize it then, but I married a narcissist. We cohabitated for multiple years and there were strong signs other people saw, but I didn’t. As soon as the ink was dry on the marriage certificate, outright lying became normal including not using contraceptive despite agreements otherwise. After separation, she never lost an opportunity to harm me. My first attorney, a supposed highly reputable family law specialist attorney, refused to take any steps regarding custody. My green second attorney at least cooperated with making arguments. I taught myself to do legal research and write briefs. If I went on my own against an attorney, I always lost. If I had my attorney present the papers and make the arguments, we almost always won. All three of her attorneys started out a gang-banger, got bogged down with reality, and resigned at the first convenient opportunity.

That was only a tiny part of the whole story which involved me being investigated four times by Probation, six or seven times by CPS, once by the FBI for being the Unibomber, and two or three times by the local police, for supposed physical and sexual abuse of our toddler daughter, and then others over the next couple years. I always cooperated with investigators and always came out clean. I think during the CPS first visit, I was explaining the custody conflict history while the daughter was happily singing to herself a few feet away while swinging on the swing hanging from the living room ceiling. I asked her to put her swimming suit (bikini style) on which she happily did; not a scratch anywhere. The Ex-‘s baseless accusations only stopped when the judge threatened her with jail time for contempt. Knowing what I know now, I would probably still let the investigators in, but would insist on video recording everything for everybody’s safety. Back then, cell phones and recording cameras did not exist.

I was assaulted annually for about a decade by the Ex-, usually during her visitations. She was of equal size, weight, and strength. She often used weapons (pogo stick, baseball bat.) I reported every incident to the police and to the courts. The police took confirming photos of sizable bruises multiple times. Despite the evidence, the DA and the court repeatedly did nothing. When our daughter was in the third grade, I asked her where she would like to live if something were to happen to me. Her two choices did not include Mom. I figured the best unbiased witness to her choices and reasoning would be the court counselor. Unknown to me, during their meeting, the counselor apparent asked the daughter about her relations to her mother. The daughter told about a fight she had with her mother on the school grounds several months earlier. At the next court hearing, the judge on his own initiative issued a permanent restraining order. Several months later, the Ex- came by, wanting to borrow some money. She had stopped payment on a prior check, so I refused to loan her any more money and went back to work. She kicked me in the genitals. I landed on the ground in a fetal position and was wiped out for nearly two weeks. The DA finally took action and the court issued an arrest warrant. They made no effort to execute the warrant and dropped the warrant in less than a year. The Ex- was never inconvenienced for any of her antics at any point. The daughter has wanted nothing to do with her mother for over thirty years now, but gets along fine with all her other maternal relatives (and me.)

[thenorthface]

Opposing counsel will attempt to bully you into settling for far less then you deserve. Take your time heading into mediation, expect to get pushed around a little but be firm in your settlement requests/offers.

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[FedipeAnthony]

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[bellesterbeatty]

Not only is my narc playing stupid, expensive games during our divorce, but he is spoofing my phone number and sending out inappropriate messages. He is also a hacker and knows what my attorney and I say.

[Al-mkxl]

The narcissist word was mention billion times. The advice should focus on dos and dont of negotiating during divorce, just like any other situation. Given the divorce is an emotional affair, focusing on labels is not helpful but rather counterproductive. This could’ve been a good advice, but it was converted to something else, like, if your spouse won’t settle because you wanted more than your share, then this spouse is narcissistic! Not practical at all and certainly not helpful.

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[appllnysus]

These are instructions FOR a narcissist omg!