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[ingridacosta]

My mom found love again in her 60's. Got married at 63, she's still happily married with the love of her life.

[BrightestLight]

I’ve been single for five years. It sucks but on the flip side it would suck more if I was in a relationship with the wrong person or settled for a guy just so that I’m not “single”.

[anitabias]

I am also 51 and I lost my husband in January 2022. We were together almost 30 years. He was the love of my life, my best friend, my soulmate, but I know he would not have wanted me to be sad and alone. Of course, I am sad. I miss him terribly. But I refuse to live the rest of my life alone and without love. Now I know I probably will not find the type of love he showed me, but I have so much love to give and I look forward to loving again some day. Until then, I love my daughters, my grandchildren and my friends and family. This year has not been easy, but I'm still trying to love. ♥

[juliekrol]

I’m 41 and have been single for over 5 years, yeah it sucks but after watching this, I should be grateful I didn’t waste those 5 years in meaningless relationships 😂

[fionakarbel]

I totally had this epiphany earlier this week. I’m 29, so still young with time, but sometimes it feels like I won’t find the love I’m looking for. It can be a little hard seeing everyone else my age getting married and having kids, but also recognize that grass isn’t necessarily greener on the other side. I do already make my life amazing everyday through doing what I love, and being around people I love. And I already have ‘marriages’ in my life- the things in life that I love unconditionally and will undoubtedly have forever, even if those things are not a romantic love.

[coolbreeze]

Life is fickle. People put so much emphasis on romantic relationships. Even if you find the perfect partner, that could be taken away in an instant. The only thing you have control over is creating happiness within yourself. That's the only thing that will last you a lifetime.

[JustBeingAwesome]

For this person: my friend found the LOVE OF HER LIFE, a fabulous relationship in her 50s. And it was so worth the wait. Keep focusing on your own journey, LIVE LIFE.

[tubadurantdoda]

I'm only 26 and I already have the fear of ending up alone when I'm old. I value it a lot when both partners try their best to keep the relationship going forever and not give up on each other during tough times (except for betrayal and such). However, in today's world, people don't think ahead and they can be very impulsive or superficial. I'm just hoping that I'll have a long lasting relationship with my current partner. And I hope, everyone out there, who wants such kind of a relationship will have it too!

[iamPROTOTYPE]

romantic love seems so nice, have always wanted to experience that. maybe next life.

[staceystroynywalls]

I thought the same thing after the end of a twenty-five year marriage and at 53 had been on dozens of lackluster first dates until a few months ago I had an amazing first date where we closed the bar down talking for hours and are now in the beginnings of a wonderful healthy relationship where I feel like a teenager again at times. It may come when you least suspect it, keep trying, don't give up and stay open while you live your best life! 🙏🏻❤️

[teresareid]

I don’t think I’ll ever find love at 54 but it’s really hard when all you seem to do is run into men that are dishonest 😮

[MộtMình_VẫnVui]

Thanks Matthew! I'm 33 and I've been single since right 30.
My previous relationships were toxic and I was very emotional attaching to them. Since 30, I realized that the whole toxic relationships come from my childhood that I grown up in a toxic family. Since then, I no longer being too emotional with guys around. It's fine to have a crush on a coworker, It's ok to hook up w a guy but I'm not too emotional attached to them. I'm okay when it's over.
Now just let it be. I find different forms of love in small things, in kind people. Some day, love may come to me, may be not. It's all right. Living and enjoying life in the present: self love, work, travel, solitude, nature, hobbies, etc...
🕊☮

[Ypsilion]

I have been single since my 20's, and now 11 years late, at my 31 (almost 32), I still have to find someone.
Sometimes the thought of never finding someone (romantically) to share life and life experiences with terrifies me, I feel unlovable and can't help but cry. Still, sometimes I feel okay just having beautiful and meaningful relationships with my friends and family, feeling accomplished by how much I have done by myself.

[lulubellulubel]

I left my husband after 20 years abusive marriage at age 55. I am having the time of my live, getting to know and love myself to the fullest. I am surrounded by amazing people that I attract and also I let it go of people, thoughts and things that are not adding meaning to my life. No time to waste!

[hsgjkhagljkh]

I'm in my middle age and GRATEFULLY never married. Coming out of an abusive background, I was determined to learn to love myself first. I didn't care if it took me until I was 90 years old (and met him at a bingo match), I was NOT going to repeat the family patterns. The road has been far from easy, but I'm proud to finally be the kind of woman any healthy man would be fortunate to have as a partner. I could be a rockin' stepmom. But I'm content with being single right now. I am more immersed in love than I've ever been in my life, because I started attracting a "loving" life of supportive people. THAT was the cue I am ready. I plan to start actively dating in the next year, because I know I can have fun doing it (without the pressure of the scarcity mindset). And if love never enters my life as a life-long partner, that's fine. I AM MY GREATEST, LIFE-LONG PARTNER!!! :)

[wildrose.]

As we get older, it is natural to have someone special to do things with, and have companionship to share experiences. It is a heartfelt desire, so we must do all we can to be open to possibilities.

[barbaralynch]

This is such a good message. I have been single for 14 years, I am 48. I have often thought that I will never find romantic love. I am loved by so many people and I am learning to appreciate it, I have been through a lot health wise and deal with chronic pain on a daily basis. It has given me the time to get to know myself, learn to accept myself and to look for the opportunities to improve myself daily. It can be hard, I spent a lot of my life comparing myself to others and your videos have really helped me to enjoy my lfe, who I am, work on being grateful for what I have, while pushing myself to be the best version of me, thank you.

[Munromad]

I'm 54 and it never happened for me, and I'm OK with that. Being single my whole life has allowed me to travel the world on a whim, and basically do whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted. Starting a relationship at this age, and I'm a young 54, would have more negatives than positives. The loss of freedom and the loss of peace just aren't worth it.

[denisejaydub]

43 and just got married for the first time! ❤I was so scared it wouldn’t happen but now change a thing because it brought me to my husband and his kids

[annettethurman]

I wish I would have found your channel sooner. You are so inspiring. I am 61 and divorced. You give me hope.